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| Would You Reconcile? by Reanaa: 8:41pm On May 02, 2011 |
Guys/Girls in particular, would you reconcile with say an ex, i mean someone whom both of you hav pass through challanges of life and on gettinting through the thick, job seperated both of you. As a result he became a cheat and careless about you, u moved on. In no mean time he came back to base. suddenly, he started calling asking u to reconcile with him, confessing how he never find anyone to match with you, recalling old times and all that saying he wud make up and never misbehave again cos no one could make him feel good like u do when you both were together, i mean is this not crooked? would you give a second thought about this? Pls, mature comments are wellcome, Thanx. |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by 190: 8:49pm On May 02, 2011 |
NO!! Hes back to you cos he doesnt av a choice Watch him go 20miles away from you and start cheating on you Dont consider him, yes distance is a biitch but thats not enough reason despite its OK for him 2 cheat on you  ( Damn!! ) hes not supposed to leave you to yourself( disregard that last line if you can ) But i insist dont go back to him~ Just my 50cents  |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by BABE3: 8:53pm On May 02, 2011 |
190: Where's my $50?--lmao--You're here dashing out 50cents. Better think twice! @OP: I'm in my dumb mode right now, I can't think of the right thing to say. --I'll come back later! ~YOU CAN TOSH IT AS MUSH AS YOU WANT~~~ |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by MMM2(m): 8:56pm On May 02, 2011 |
once a good man or woman is gone he or she is gone forever. Ask jay-z when u c him. |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by andy1(m): 9:02pm On May 02, 2011 |
@op dont even give it a thought, if not u might jst end up getting hurt all over again, i ll say jst move on. |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by Nekai(f): 9:16pm On May 02, 2011 |
andy1: True. |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by CrudeOil1(m): 9:30pm On May 02, 2011 |
Nope. I dont take relationships seriously. |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by livedit(f): 9:32pm On May 02, 2011 |
If I'm understanding this correctly, me and "my guy" was dating for "x" amount of time. I assume "he" lost his job and started cheating and treating me like "crap". Despite our "history" together, the relationship ended and I moved on with my life and now "he" is back trying to holla again.  Livedit is going to agree with the others. He can keep it moving. I understand things happen and life can be cruel. But that gives no one the right to mistreat that person and cheat on them. Especially if you suppose to "care" or "love" that person. To me, he can do all the "confession" he wants, but the fact remains, he should've thought about all that before he behaved like a horses behind. Yes, I could forgive him, but it is a NO in taking him back. Who's to say he don't lose another job or something goes "wrong" and he don't do it again. Some people can change, that's true. But that's a chance I'm not willing to take especially when it's involving my life and happiness as well. |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by Pweety4me(f): 9:37pm On May 02, 2011 |
[size=15pt]NO[/size] |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by Reanaa: 11:01pm On May 02, 2011 |
He actually called yest morn saying he is passing through my route and would stopby to say hi. i jus thought about what this could be up to, well i say ok. he came, yes he is cool, bought his dream car and all that but i already zero ma mind. went out as he suggested then he started all those soft talk meanwhile i was stiff and resistant. I already know what he want this time but is no go area then he realize things hav really changed, he asked what can i do to make you change your mind? i said nothing and after much talk he took me back left for his destination. Thou i,v been reading Comments on NL but just resgisered so i can open this thread and see if there woud different views from what i hav on this but you guys are not disappointing me. |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by Nobody: 11:03pm On May 02, 2011 |
it depends on the situation. |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by xxcarolxx(f): 11:10pm On May 02, 2011 |
Answer would be hell no, not in a million years would i go back, |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by Reanaa: 11:15pm On May 02, 2011 |
MzDarkSkin:the situation is that he actually a different person when he is far away. when we were dating i'l never listen,i mean i would give a deaf ear to any man who dare talk to me cos i hav this all women wants in a man;physic, intelligent, hardworkin name them but i paid less attention to his inner person, my bad. |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by xxcarolxx(f): 11:21pm On May 02, 2011 |
Reanaa:I found myself in the same situation, i forgave him the first time he cheated, only for him to turn around and cheat again, He still disturbs me, but i will never ever take him back, |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by 190: 11:23pm On May 02, 2011 |
xxcarolxx: ROTFLMFAO!!  |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by Reanaa: 11:45pm On May 02, 2011 |
xxcarolxx:that is what am reasoning too, to err is human, to forgive is divine. but when one keep turning back to the same error hmm that sucks |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by Beync(f): 10:39am On May 03, 2011 |
Op, forward ever o! |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by atiku07(m): 1:04pm On May 03, 2011 |
babe i will advice u not 2 listen to dose dat are tuking about not giving him a chance here. The issue is dat if God has no hand in it he would not have come begging well just close ur eyes give him de last chance, and monitor him closely and make it clear dat if he repeats such again next time that is it. honestly when he cheated or ignored u he might actually be going through sum things den just give him another chance cause sum men can be very emotional atimes. if u are taking him back do it fast before he would start think u no longer digg him ok cause a stitch in time saves lives madam u need 2 act fast moreover "oko won lode". |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by multibabe(f): 3:07pm On May 03, 2011 |
atiku07:abi o. the truth is that he can back cos he realised that u are better that others, and i believe he has learnt his lessons and will learn to respect and love you more, remember the devil u known is better that the angel you dont know. |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by Dsense(m): 3:30pm On May 03, 2011 |
OP. Yep,There should be reconciliation and forgiveness . . .We are all humans and vulnerable to mistakes. BTW Kate forgave Williams when he laft her, then came back to her.  This is life!!! |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by Ranoscky(m): 3:35pm On May 03, 2011 |
atiku07:True talk bro, you really changed ma mind on what I wanted to say at 1st. But as a man, if a girl cheats on me, then she's a GUNNER !!! Crude Oil.:Same here brov! I never take relationship serious so that if it backfires, ama dust off and move on, NO REGRET !!! But, if it leads to marriage, then FINE, na her luck! 1 Like |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by snthesis(m): 4:09pm On May 03, 2011 |
life is a gamble - u neva can tell if he was sincere ideally i would say no, the guy is bac in town looking for familiar easyfuck, and guess wat he remebers hw u felt in bed and he doesnt hv to go thru the long process of toasting.  |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by Reanaa: 5:01pm On May 03, 2011 |
snthesis:lol, is one of those things he mentioned, he said he wudnt want to settle for less. truly he love sex so now i will become his sex machine. Secondly, there is this very thing dat wud aways make him want to come back, yes we had connection, we hav some stories to tell, we excelled all trials, I know he will never forget me jus like me, but dats has become d past. i want to be happy with anyone with me, i cant face a cheat. i realised he is when i visited him d the period we were still dating when job took us apart, this co woker wud call him 20 times, texted him when he doesnt pick her calls and all dat. when i ask him then he lied and said nothing was going on, but i know for sure. when i became bittered then be confessed dat its distance dat he dont want to tell me so i wont get hurt, but i was hurt already. mehn, i dont see him changing overnight. |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by arramyjay: 5:25pm On May 03, 2011 |
No. |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by snthesis(m): 5:36pm On May 03, 2011 |
Reanaa: so so in love, eeyah!!, all he has to do is be spend more time with you, and you wud fall head over heels once again. |
| Re: Would You Reconcile? by rully2: 2:21pm On May 04, 2011 |
Once a guy strays, its most likely he'll keep doing it, what happens when work takes him away again? |
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