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Experiences With Love? by Pweety4me(f): 11:17pm On May 02, 2011 |
Have you felt more pain than joy or more joy than pain? How blind is it? How much really is it to do with our preferences? Do we ever get over the ones we had loved? Is it really love if it doesn't last? What love matters most?to you?
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Re: Experiences With Love? by 190: 11:26pm On May 02, 2011 |
Very TRUE!! |
Re: Experiences With Love? by BABE3: 11:36pm On May 02, 2011 |
--Pweety what's all these? ---lol @ Topic: IF I LOVE YOU, THEN I'LL LOVE YOU, NO MATTER WHAT! I only have 7 people I love. To me, love has categories, so Nuff Said! (The rest of the world fit into those categories! ) That's my experience with love-- |
Re: Experiences With Love? by Pweety4me(f): 11:41pm On May 02, 2011 |
BABE oya shift . . . |
Re: Experiences With Love? by iice(f): 3:40am On May 03, 2011 |
equal joy and pain. Not blind but tolerant until the water reaches the level Has alot to do with our preferences Yes i did get over those i loved because i chose to. It is, if for while it lasted it was true. Love of thyself. . .and i don't mean in the way most people would interpret that |
Re: Experiences With Love? by Pweety4me(f): 8:13pm On May 03, 2011 |
iice:Hmmm 9ice1 But if it has a lot to do with preferences then how come it's blind?how come u can't help or u fall for?how come u can't stop it?or does this not apply 2 you? |
Re: Experiences With Love? by Dyt(f): 9:07pm On May 03, 2011 |
Love cld b pain n joy yh dere s tolerance so long d love s still so strong wit whom I love i dont think dere r prefrences,i go wit everyth wit him even if i dont lyk it in d 1st place,i get b thinkin of it later lyk yh he loves it,ways 2 mk him happier u know i lyk 2 jst mk my love all happy |
Re: Experiences With Love? by Pweety4me(f): 9:09pm On May 03, 2011 |
Dyt:Hmm Misses lova lova. . .dah lova mmm |
Re: Experiences With Love? by Dyt(f): 9:14pm On May 03, 2011 |
Well dats jst d way it s my dear u endure d pain so u cld enjoy d pleasure its rili a gd thing u know havin atleast a phase of d 2 sides cld b crazy mehn *bringin back old memos* |
Re: Experiences With Love? by Pweety4me(f): 9:23pm On May 03, 2011 |
Hmm has it been long dear? |
Re: Experiences With Love? by livedit(f): 10:35pm On May 03, 2011 |
Love is "pain" and "joy". I guess this is why they say "love" (unconditional love) is "long suffering". There are times when it's hard to continue to love someone despite their ways. Or maybe they may do something or say something or even betray you and to still love them. To accept the good and bad in a person. That's unconditional love and some people can really "test" your love. The bible says: you are to love your neighbor, as you love yourself. So even though I'm no longer "in-love" with my ex. I still "love" him. BUT, with the love of the Lord. For Jesus is Love. And since God is in livedit, then livedit does love him. But that does not mean I should have a relationship with him. I love him with the spirit of the Lord. I just thank God for Jesus, because without HIM, we are all lost. |
Re: Experiences With Love? by iice(f): 3:40am On May 04, 2011 |
Pweety4me: Not blind like i said. You can help who you fall in love with. You get attracted to someone because of the attributes you like and want. He's tall. Good looking. Has money. etc etc These affect what you feel for someone. Sometimes, there's something beneath all these attributes that you don't like, but you ignore that and focus more on what you want to see. So that causes problems. I can stop it, i can control it but then it's because i'm very mental about things. Livedit is right about to accept the good and bad in a person. It's a choice you make. Just as loving someone is a choice you make. |
Re: Experiences With Love? by Pweety4me(f): 3:49am On May 04, 2011 |
livedit:Hmm i hear that sister, this is the Revelation! It no easy sha |
Re: Experiences With Love? by Pweety4me(f): 3:54am On May 04, 2011 |
iice:But but. . .if love is a feeling then why does all the physical & materialistic things matter?does attraction lead to love? so u can't just "fall in love" with someone without actually being able to point out why it is you fall in love with them? It's not all the people we have liked or dated, happened to be the one's we always fancied from the very start?sometimes we grow to love?or grow to fall-in-love?can't it be a process sometimes? |
Re: Experiences With Love? by iice(f): 4:11am On May 04, 2011 |
Love is not a living thing. It is just a something we give life too. Thus as flawed as we humans are. Consequently the material and physical attributes. Love does not equal attraction but attraction plays a good part of tying yourself to another person. You cannot be friends with someone you have no attraction too. Be it that you like how he/she thinks. What he/she does. . .etc. Not just physical attraction. There are things that draw you to someone. I don't think you can fall in love with someone without knowing why you fell in love with him/her. It could be his/her kindness, how he/she treats you etc. Maybe some cannot pinpoint what exactly caused it but they have a general idea of why. Unless they need and 'out' so they resort to the i don't know tactics. Which brings me to the process. Yes it can be a process. Sometimes it takes long, sometimes a shorter time. That's why you have the not fancied from the onset thing like you said. So yes you grow to love someone as you get to know the person, whatever of the person drew you or what of the person you eventually find out will help in making that leap. |
Re: Experiences With Love? by Pweety4me(f): 4:14am On May 04, 2011 |
iice:Hmm thanx for the superb explanation & insight into everything the cherry is on you! |
Re: Experiences With Love? by iice(f): 4:22am On May 04, 2011 |
You're welcome. Now no make me right essay again eh |
Re: Experiences With Love? by Pweety4me(f): 4:33am On May 04, 2011 |
iice:Hehe ok 1 more things. . .just kiddin Sooooooo Iice baby r u feeling love? |
Re: Experiences With Love? by iice(f): 4:50am On May 04, 2011 |
Always |
Re: Experiences With Love? by Nobody: 7:57am On May 04, 2011 |
love is pain and Joy love is not blind it just turns a blind eye very much, you are attracted to, what you prefer, but what you prefer might not be what is good for you. we don't get over them we just grow up, and have a better understanding. the issue of how long it lasts depends on how we handle issues that arise in our relationship. but also understand that when love is one sided it is bound to fail from the start. it means everything, cos i found it. |
Re: Experiences With Love? by MMM2(m): 4:05pm On May 04, 2011 |
love is wicked |
Re: Experiences With Love? by Pweety4me(f): 10:48pm On May 04, 2011 |
Kingsleyinfo:Hmm M M M:Why?explain |
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