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Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Kingcalls: 3:53pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
frozen70: Most of u women still don't get it...u all complain that men treat women like trash...this is the reason y... a woman's past determines how men will treat them... all men are the same in this aspect... if u have 4kd a married man in the past or hv had multiple partners in the past, just forget it, no man, I repeat, no man will treat u special...they might pretend , but in their hearts , u are not worth it, to them u are just a vessel for their kids...all men take a woman's past extremely serious... so u women can keep on decieving urselves calling it " in the past" " do not judge " " its the woke generation " ..... 5 Likes |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Casham: 3:54pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
baralatie:Honestly, I know! I will always appreciate any form of help! |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Kingcalls: 3:54pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
Vision101: Simp ur way out of here abeg ...unrepentant simp |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by EgunMogaji2: 3:56pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
DTB and move on already. |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
kenoyad:Her past really doesn't define who she is 100% but u see that lying thing ehhn, if u are ready for more can of worms later u can continue with her. Ordinary girlfriend wey her way no clear dey make man no fit concentrate well talk more of Wife... It's ur life bro live it well. If u think a lying unrepentant partner isn't too much a sacrifice for u then by all means wife that woman |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Kingcalls: 4:00pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
Kobicove: One thing with simps apart from being weaklings is that they live in denial...they say things to make them feel good after they hv made stupid decisions... simps are kids without confidence, kids thst think they are men... and they are usually not financially successful....they can't even hold strong political positions or head strong defensive agencies.... name one simp in power, anywhere on the world.... not one....weaklings |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 4:04pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
Kingcalls:men are also part of the problem Especially those ones that their life mission is to bang as many women as possible in their teen and 20s. This women that they are thoroughly recklessly banging won't they marry too? Or be mother to children in the future? THIS IS THE RESULT of such reckless habit 2 Likes |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Kingcalls: 4:18pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
VeeVeeMyLuv: For a man , he doesn't care even if he marries the hoe, cos he will treat her without real commitment or love...its the woman that will b on the receiving end... they are the ones that feel the pain, and if she misbehaves, he will send her parking ... its same with a man that foolishly wastes his money on women ...when he becomes broke, women sef will treat him like crap...thats y men should guide their pockets towards woman just as women should guide their body towards men 2 Likes |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Nobody: 4:21pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
baralatie:She lied about sleeping with him before meeting the OP. she lied about her past |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Nobody: 4:23pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
baralatie:I'm not saying OP was cheating , I'm saying he's not a virgin but probably didn't lie about it |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Kingcalls: 4:26pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
Baiser: So who will marry the guy that another woman finished his money?? 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by KingMicky3286: 4:36pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
Will you keep quiet? You are not officially married to her.. Both of you are ..... Let me check Bible for you ... Wait. |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by cococandy(f): 4:37pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
Some Men are amusingly irrational 2 Likes |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Hassanmaye(m): 4:49pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
MOBBDEEP:I hate that gender too I was forming nice guy to one stupid girl she took me for granted while given bad boys, now I'm financially ok she wants to come back because she took me for a fool |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by FRANKOSKI(m): 5:24pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
LEAVE HER ALONE. |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by crackhaus: 5:27pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
kenoyad:Very funny... You married a woman you didn't meet as a virgin and you were surprised to learn she had slept with someone else before meeting you? Whether the person was a married man or a kidnapper, it's irrelevant. Some of you need to understand that you can never really know with women, especially when it comes to whom they may have slept with in the past before meeting you. Don't get me wrong though, I'm not suggesting you should have married a virgin... I'm saying you must learn to keep your head firmly attached to your neck and not assume you married/will marry an angel. Honestly, there are VERY few young women who have not had something to do with a far older man – most will tell you they didn't know he was married, others like your wife will admit their own with with their full chest. I even prefer the latter... 3 Likes |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Hassanmaye(m): 5:33pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
ABANGWABOI:Hahahha bad boy |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 5:37pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
She lied and later admit that she slept with a married man (human being) abi? Why not see it this way? thank God that it was a human being not an animal (gorilla, bulldog, horse or donkey) or an extraterrestrial creature (alien) that |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Hassanmaye(m): 5:38pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
ugodson: |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Hassanmaye(m): 5:44pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
Ategberoson:Hahahhaha |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by frozen70(f): 5:52pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
Kingcalls: So if all men takes a woman's past seriously, women should take men's past joking 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by frozen70(f): 5:54pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
DissTroy: Every one has a past |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by loteliz(f): 6:05pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
frozen70:This is the only person that actually read the post so far. OP is indeed hurting himself. |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by baralatie(m): 6:06pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
notok:I am asking how did she come to the point of finding how to narrate to him that she had that affair after three years? Was it through nagging? And what is the deal about the woman's mom begging? 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by wellingtongrey(m): 6:12pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
Well, i understand that we handle things differently. Especially issues regarding emotion. I had similar issues back then, but it was something that had happened before i met her. In my own case , my wife's aunty's husband has been having sex with her since she was in SS1 (about 15years old) and she was living with them. Imagine that kinda constant sex , over several years . And the man was about 34 years older than my wife. In other word, when she was 15 , the man was about 49. Lol! I suspected (based on the man's lifestyle and wife's sexual frequency) but she denied it ever happened. After 3years , she told me that my guessed back then was very correct ... and she told me everything. I just smiled. But instead of hating my wife for what happened in the past , i stopped relating with the man(including greetings) . I just hate him for what he did to her at that age. Op, if she is a good lady/ you have affections for her , then forget the issue of sex in the past and do the right thing. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Nobody: 6:13pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
Nonsense we’re you expecting a virgin? You these nairaland boys dey funny. Are you concerned she will look for sugar daddy now or are you the one stepping out so you are paranoid? After 3 years of marriage you are still worried about her exes? You no ready. Have you told her the truth of your own past life? If you wanted a virgin you should have found one. I wonder the average age of people on this platform 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by IamCookie(f): 6:15pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
wellingtongrey: Wow . That man is a really bad man. Are you saying the aunty doesn't know this ? She must be so dumb. Thanks for sharing this |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Kingcalls: 6:52pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
frozen70: U women watch out if a man has enough money to take care of himself and raise a family... what happens to a man that wasted his money on u women...who will marry him ?? |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by Kingcalls: 6:53pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
frozen70: Akuko.... if u ladies think that is what will b used to forget ur past, u are indeed on a loooooong thing.... |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by frozen70(f): 7:38pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
Kingcalls:When a man is loosing, the woman looses too |
Re: How To Get Over Trauma Of Wife Past Life by frozen70(f): 7:39pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
Kingcalls:There is no money a man spent on a woman that is a waste |
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