him?


is that so difficult to understand that even when children are there some people (like me ) do not want to marry?

Why people must marry to have a real family? What is a real family?

What are these fucking papers are saying about the relationship?

Nothing.

Katy, just thank God that in your country, most people there are open towards couples not getting married but can have children.

Cause if its in my country, they wont really allow it. Infact everyone would mock me if I have kids without getting married.  I think Nigeria would be somehow somewhat the same in some parts too so if you see some people here telling you that thats not normal for u to be having babies but not getting married, its because they are not use to it and it hasnt been their culture.

As for me, I cannot say anything as its not my life but if you are happy living that way, than Im happy for you. Thats all I can say katy

But if your bf wants to get married and you wanna tell him that you are not up for marriage in a less hurtful way, it all boils down to individuals and it depends on how he sees it.

I think he see it like more like you. People must marry when they have children even here in Germany many people think like this and are always shocked when I tell them that I am not married and I am not planning to marry one day.

For what should somebody marry?
To divorce in some years?
I do not want that.

As long as the law here give me the free right to have children whenever I want I will do that.

Fact: Ladies if you are from the same tribe as your boyfriend there is a 60% chance he will walk you down the altar!!!
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Katy86:

I think he see it like more like you. People must marry when they have children even here in Germany many people think like this and are always shocked when I tell them that I am not married and I am not planning to marry one day.

For what should somebody marry?
To divorce in some years?
I do not want that.

As long as the law here give me the free right to have children whenever I want I will do that.

I see. So the word divorce is already in your head. Why would you think that the both of you divorced? Did your parents divorced each other? or is it common in Germany for every couple to divorce each other?

 poor guys  


I have often told him how I think about marriage but I think that he do not take me serious  

I mean we are more than 6 years together and we already have 2 children, why should we marry now?  

He is talking about that everytime in this 6 years  
Just planning what we will do etc everytime when he called his parents he come to me and ask me when we will marry. I always tell him NEVER. Why he can not understand that?  

the day this english people marry he was sitting in front of  the TV and just tell me that he want to do that with me to.  
I do not care about any english person who is going to marry and I do not want to do that !

I am just tired of explaining him.

I see. So the word divorce is already in your head. Why would you think that the both of you divorced? Did your parents divorced each other? or is it common in Germany for every couple to divorce each other?

I think it is quite common here. Even the turkish women here start to divorce their men

My parents are not divorce but I do not see any reason to marry we already live like married people so why we need that paper.

You should let him know that you don't want to get married, don't lead him on. Everybody is not supposed to be married. But please since you have decided to stay single, do not go and disturb peoples husbands. Most times i have seen that most ladies that do no want to get married end up dating married men.

Are you afraid that I date your man

I never dated a man who was in a relationship before. Thats not my kind of person.

And I do not talk about that I want to stay single. We are in a relationship , we live like a married couple and that is good how it is.

Katy, than just let him know how serious you are about not getting married to him. Worst come to worst if u want to not marry and he wants to marry, perhaps you should let him go in order for him to look for a woman whom would marry him

You are living together since 6 years with 2 childrens and why you do not want to merry him?
There is just one reason that come to my mind. Money. If you are married he can pretend, in case of divorce, more than if you are not.

What ever tickles ur fancy.

lucky you @ poster.

many women are wishing their boyfriends would marry them, to no avail.

the guy simply refuses to pop the question.

many are also even searching for boyfriends and husbands?

If the boyfriend loffs u alot, kai there is a storm coming. However u tel him either direct or indirect it'l hurt him. If dn't want him then, u've made matters worse, so long u dnt wanna marry him. . .make him see reasons.

by bringing anoda babe dat is sexy than u an tell him 2 start fu-cking her, dat u have done d whole arrangement 4 him F O C.

You are living together since 6 years with 2 childrens and why you do not want to merry him?
There is just one reason that come to my mind. Money. If you are married he can pretend, in case of divorce, more than if you are not.

Money is not always the problem.

Both of us do not have money.

many are also even searching for boyfriends and husbands?

I do not like such things.
It is just crazy to search a husband.

There are more important things and love will come to you, you can not force it.

No how!
But av u heard ds rumour? Dagrin new release?
I fear wen i hear am check http://m.youtube.com/watch?gl=US&hl=en&client=mv-google&v=zvcqxPCH2ZI