Keep ur family together,even considerin d risk from lagos 2 ibadan nd back

Keep ur family together,even considerin d risk from lagos 2 ibadan nd back

Keep ur family together,even considerin d risk from lagos 2 ibadan nd back

Keep ur family together,even considerin d risk from lagos 2 ibadan nd back

well just like me,I did exactly this and had no problem because I put my whole trust in GOD,you can do the same.

this will be a new marriage, as she may need someone. . .

This is not necessary.  All women are not faithless.  Enough of this disrespect to the man and his family, please.

I don't know why seemingly normal people even bother to bring their problems to a place like this.  

OP, stay in the same house. the first few years of marriage are rough, and you don't want to compound the struggle by living separately.

isale_gan2:

This is not necessary.  All women are not faithless.  Enough of this disrespect to the man and his family, please.

I don't know why seemingly normal people even bother to bring their problems to a place like this.  

why is it not necessary? I said she may need some service while he is gone, so I am just advising the brother to err on the side of keeping his wife closer, just in case. You never know these days. Like the elders say, body no be firewood.

@ Jennykadry

Please, can you do me a small favour, next time you have to reference Yabaleft, please kindly highlight the fact that you are part of the senior staffs and not one of the quiet, humble, unassuming resident like me, I don't want you to start giving people the wrong impression about us patients lest people start crossing the road when they see me, thank you.

@ Jenny(ARO mistress abi naa master), Naa waoo, Laughter wan kill me for here, why u no go join Basket mouth make two of una dey stage play show, You even know say some pussy they sell like LAWMA TRUCK,

OP,

Think about it.

You have just got a job and a new wife, why do you want to stay away when the love still suppose dey shack una.

WHat of the risk of driving to Ibadan and back every week, The cost also?

I for advise make you cool down small and make sure that job is secured and safe cos you probably dont have much saving, you wife still a student and cost of living in lagos no be yams

jennykadry:

Talent. Have you got any? [color=#990000]

Talent nko?, buhahahaha, talented slut, sounds nice when you think about it

[/quote]No I am not alright, have you not seen my location? F/u/c/K you x20-

see, how right I was when I said you have never had any action in all of your unfortunate life, why dont you just spread your legs and stay in the middle of that very same yaba road, some blind looney might give you some much needed therapy

Too bad? is your life that bad? sowwy
[quote]

nobody's life would be as bad and cursed as your own,

dayokanu:

why do you want to stay away when the love still suppose dey shack una.

Who asked you?  What do you know about l-o-v-e?  pfft!
When he needs advice about how to run his wife off, he'll holla at ya.

isale_gan2:

Who asked you? What do you know about l-o-v-e? pfft!
When he needs advice about how to run his wife off, he'll holla at ya.

Hey isale how have ou been, You know I've missed you a lot.

We should spend a weekend together soon to show you how much I've missed you.

Your agro dey cash me

@ youngestpr


If you want to commute to see your family, you probably should not consider getting married. The idea alone so early in marriage is an insecure one. And running two households isn't cheap.

Also, because your fiancee says whatever you do she'll go along with may mean she isn't happy about it. Sit down and discuss it properly with her, do not accept "whatever you say is fine by me", I'm sure she has ideas of her own and you need to draw them out of her. I can tell you that if you decide to have households in two places she will resent it when she has to bring up the children on her own, when she wants company and you are far away. In effect, you are making a rod for your back taking that route.

That isn't the best way to raise a family. You and your wife need to have a life together before you even think about bringing children into the situation, and not from two different locations far away.

You can't do that to your marriage when its still young and fresh. Thats the good part you need to enjoy very well while it last. Then you can go get a job in another state 5years later when it starts to become boring. And you have sex only once a month with her already and made no sense asuch living together. And when you travel and come back the distance prolly makes you look fresh to her whenever you arrive for the weekend stays

I will not advice u to rent an apart for urself here in lagos and move ur family to ibadan
First u have not even marry how will get to kno ur wife when kids comes do u want them to be calling u brother
U have not spent upto 2yrs in lagos i believe when u get use to lagos and its life u will adapt infact it will be more stresful for u traveling either friday eveing nor saturday morning and coming back sundays
Get a good apartment outsketch ikeja,vi like agege,ogba,festac where u can secure maybe 2bedroom for within 150 to 200k anual pending where u work wake early and leave b4 the traffic start u will only face it when u close but u will know that when u get home u will see ur happy family sometimes that‘s what will give u joy after a long stress day pls take a decision that will give u rest of mind and less economical

She is just about to finish school and her opinion is to go along with whatever i decide leaving me to the final decision making. I dont know how to explain rugged and rough more than using those words, i think you should understand, bla bla bla

Guy no mind her,  If u just pay her bride price na she go start the make the decisions, loool


Well, my little expiriences 'bout staying apart from your family and visiting them on weekends.

1. Another fine guy fit collect am marry from you, or she go get two husbands ( you + 1)

2. Be ready to spend twice more than what you wud've if you were 2gether.

3. Be ready to travel or leave your work place at unpected times when she ask you to.

4. The possibilty of you having a second or semi wife in Lagos.

The truth is that; its not so advisable to do it,  but if u have to, you mush learn to live with a real thick hard to survive it,

GUY JUST GO ON YO KNEES BEG BABA GOD TO TELL YOU WETIN YOU NEED DO!! Goodluck!

Family apart!!! From other people's experiences, it is dangerous especially for a young marriage. Remember that in the case of marriage relationship, PROXIMITY IS THE KEY TO IMPACT.
On the long run, the choice is still yours. Best of luck.

Racist:

Talent nko?, buhahahaha, talented slut, sounds nice when you think about it


see, how right I was when I said you have never had any action in all of your unfortunate life,  why dont you just spread your legs and stay in the middle of that very same yaba road, some blind looney might give you some much needed therapy


nobody's life would be as bad and cursed as your own,

Who is calling my guy name ? timbo you still dey here? the last time I checked you still dey cry

Slut? yes I am, a proud one BTW where does that leave you? answer me before I untag ya smelly nyash now

No wonder all the flies don run for lagos because of ya silly self I went to Nigeria recently and couldn't even find a single fly flying around. After researching I got to find out that the day they mistakenly smelt ya nyash as you bend down dey piss and shyt for bush, they went into psychological depression before dey enter coma. Some of them have passed on whilst some are still hanging on to LIFE SUPPORT all because of you if scientists can take one of those dead flies and conduct an autopsy , DNA inside them will match the DNA for ya nyash. Your nyash should be executed. What if these flies kissed an animal before dying na so your DNA go dey spread and kill this innocent animals. Your va[i]g[/i]ina should be properly washed with aloe vera, alum, lime water, sapele water mariah carey's FOREVER fragrance. WE NIGERIANS CANNOT STAND FOR DEATH ANYMORE DUE TO YOUR SMELLY KITTY. Everybody(NLDERS) say it with me three times


WE NIGERIANS CANNOT STAND FOR DEATH ANYMORE DUE TO RACIST'S HYPOVENTILATING KITTY

WE NIGERIANS CANNOT STAND FOR DEATH ANYMORE DUE TO RACIST'S HYPOVENTILATING KITTY

WE NIGERIANS CANNOT STAND FOR DEATH ANYMORE DUE TO RACIST'S HYPOVENTILATING KITTY



Thank you everybody 

^^^^ ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d

As for raising kids- Try the biblical saying of "Train up a child in the way it should go and when he is old he wont depart from it" or the book of Yoruba that says "you kill the root of iroko (a type of tree dont know th english word) from the very young stage because by the time they are fully developed you will not be able to control it. You need to properly and continuously train the kids and they will be fine in almost evironment. Dont forget the world is not flat and global and a kid might be in the village but alive to the activities.

On the marriage, i suggest you stay together and develop the relationship better. A weekend visit might turn into months etc if not managed properly.

Am pledin wit u, dont eva tink of saperatin urself from ur family. D danger is enumous.

jennykadry:

Who is calling my guy name ? timbo you still dey here? the last time I checked you still dey cry

Slut? yes I am, a proud one BTW where does that leave you? answer me before I untag ya smelly nyash now

No wonder all the flies don run for lagos because of ya silly self I went to Nigeria recently and couldn't even find a single fly flying around. After researching I got to find out that the day they mistakenly smelt ya nyash as you bend down dey piss and shyt for bush, they went into psychological depression before dey enter coma. Some of them have passed on whilst some are still hanging on to LIFE SUPPORT all because of you if scientists can take one of those dead flies and conduct an autopsy , DNA inside them will match the DNA for ya nyash. Your nyash should be executed. What if these flies kissed an animal before dying na so your DNA go dey spread and kill this innocent animals. Your va[i]g[/i]ina should be properly washed with aloe vera, alum, lime water, sapele water mariah carey's FOREVER fragrance. WE NIGERIANS CANNOT STAND FOR DEATH ANYMORE DUE TO YOUR SMELLY KITTY. Everybody(NLDERS) say it with me three times


WE NIGERIANS CANNOT STAND FOR DEATH ANYMORE DUE TO RACIST'S HYPOVENTILATING KITTY

WE NIGERIANS CANNOT STAND FOR DEATH ANYMORE DUE TO RACIST'S HYPOVENTILATING KITTY

WE NIGERIANS CANNOT STAND FOR DEATH ANYMORE DUE TO RACIST'S HYPOVENTILATING KITTY



Thank you everybody

wish those people responsible for your birth knew what sort of creature they were bringing into this world, ! Infectious disease spreading LovePeddler, get a life, will you, idiot ?

You can only choose to have your family in another city if you dont want your marriage to last. Even couples who live together find it difficult to get along well, not to talk of those staying miles away from eachother.

First thing first, Get married first, then we can talk about settlement

Seriously, you need your family by your side at all time, except you don't want to be a
responsible hussy.

thats is really goo