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Steps To Avoid Extra-marital Affairs In The Workplace (and Elsewhere) by Lukgaf(m): 10:13pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
Last week, we explored some accounts on how many married people (men and women) engaged in extramarital relationships and the position of Islam on it (read here). This week we are discussing some steps to avoid extra-marital affairs in the workplace (and elsewhere). The following are some tips adapted from various Islamic sources, many work and spouse counseling sites, and Nina Chen for preventing unIslamic behavior and affairs in the workplace. https://theislamicworkplace.com/2012/04/17/islam-and-extra-marital-affairs-in-the-workplace/ 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Steps To Avoid Extra-marital Affairs In The Workplace (and Elsewhere) by ugodson(m): 11:33am On Jun 11, 2021 |
OP forget all these things joor. Person wey go cheat go cheat. 19 Likes |
Re: Steps To Avoid Extra-marital Affairs In The Workplace (and Elsewhere) by jimfarayola(m): 11:33am On Jun 11, 2021 |
BARAKALLAHUFIHI 6 Likes |
Re: Steps To Avoid Extra-marital Affairs In The Workplace (and Elsewhere) by Antoeni(m): 11:34am On Jun 11, 2021 |
*_Deuteronomy Chapter 24_* Divorce and Remarriage 1 “Suppose a man marries a woman and later decides that he doesn't want her, because he finds something about her that he doesn't like. So he writes out divorce papers, gives them to her, and sends her away from his home. 2 Then suppose she marries another man, 3 and he also decides that he doesn't want her, so he also writes out divorce papers, gives them to her, and sends her away from his home. Or suppose her second husband dies. 4 In either case, her first husband is not to marry her again; he is to consider her defiled. If he married her again, it would be offensive to the Lord. You are not to commit such a terrible sin in the land that the Lord your God is giving you. Various Laws 5 “When a man is newly married, he is not to be drafted into military service or any other public duty; he is to be excused from duty for one year, so that he can stay at home and make his wife happy. 6 “When you lend someone something, you are not to take as security his millstones used for grinding his grain. This would take away the family's means of preparing food to stay alive. 7 “If any of you kidnap Israelites and make them your slaves or sell them into slavery, you are to be put to death. In this way your nation will get rid of this evil. 8 “When you are suffering from a dreaded skin disease, be sure to do exactly what the levitical priests tell you; follow the instructions that I have given them. 9 Remember what the Lord your God did to Miriam as you were coming from Egypt. 10 “When you lend someone something, do not go into his house to get the garment he is going to give you as security; 11 wait outside and let him bring it to you himself. 12 If he is poor, do not keep it overnight; 13 return it to him each evening, so that he can have it to sleep in. Then he will be grateful, and the Lord your God will be pleased with you. 14 “Do not cheat poor and needy hired servants, whether they are Israelites or foreigners living in one of your towns. 15 Each day before sunset pay them for that day's work; they need the money and have counted on getting it. If you do not pay them, they will cry out against you to the Lord, and you will be guilty of sin. 16 “Parents are not to be put to death for crimes committed by their children, and children are not to be put to death for crimes committed by their parents; people are to be put to death only for a crime they themselves have committed. 17 “Do not deprive foreigners and orphans of their rights; and do not take a widow's garment as security for a loan. 18 Remember that you were slaves in Egypt and that the Lord your God set you free; that is why I have given you this command. 19 “When you gather your crops and fail to bring in some of the grain that you have cut, do not go back for it; it is to be left for the foreigners, orphans, and widows, so that the Lord your God will bless you in everything you do. 20 When you have picked your olives once, do not go back and get those that are left; they are for the foreigners, orphans, and widows. 21 When you have gathered your grapes once, do not go back over the vines a second time; the grapes that are left are for the foreigners, orphans, and widows. 22 Never forget that you were slaves in Egypt; that is why I have given you this command. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Steps To Avoid Extra-marital Affairs In The Workplace (and Elsewhere) by stunnert(m): 11:34am On Jun 11, 2021 |
Why avoid, when you can enjoy it, especially in this kinda weather |
Re: Steps To Avoid Extra-marital Affairs In The Workplace (and Elsewhere) by gentleibraheem(m): 11:36am On Jun 11, 2021 |
Allahu Akbar. may Allah Give us the strength to keep strong. we wey no get money to marry 4 Likes |
Re: Steps To Avoid Extra-marital Affairs In The Workplace (and Elsewhere) by Halib(m): 11:39am On Jun 11, 2021 |
best thing in life...don't date at work |
Re: Steps To Avoid Extra-marital Affairs In The Workplace (and Elsewhere) by AntiChristian: 11:43am On Jun 11, 2021 |
Re: Steps To Avoid Extra-marital Affairs In The Workplace (and Elsewhere) by Antoeni(m): 11:49am On Jun 11, 2021 |
The Islamic Position on Extra-Marital Affairs Islam is very clear on the topic of extra-marital affairs, and considers it as one of the major sins. In The Qur’an in (Surah 17, al Isra,, verse 32), Allah says: Do not go near adultery, .surely it is an indecency, and an evil way [of fulfilling sexual urge]. (17:32) Fornication and adultery have severely been condemned in the hadiths of the Prophet (s). While describing the believers, the Qur’an says, “The believers are… those who protect their sexual organs except from their spouses… Therefore, whosoever seeks more beyond that [in sexual gratification], then they are the transgressors.” (23:5-6) Again Allah says, regarding His true believers: “Those who invoke not, with Allah, any other god, nor slay such life as Allah has made sacred except for just cause, nor commit fornication; – and any that does this deserves punishment.” [Sûrah al-Furqân: 68] The Prophet (s) said: “The fornicator does not commit fornication while he is a believer” [Sahîh al-Bukhârî and Sahîh Muslim] A young man once came to our Prophet (peace be upon him) and said: “O, Messenger of Allah give me a permission to commit fornication.” The Companions were angry with the way that young man who dared to ask such a thing from the Prophet (peace be upon him), but the Prophet (peace be upon him) did not grow angry and immediately asked him: “Would you like a man to fornicate with your mother?” The young man replied: “No.” The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “Hence other people do not like it for their mothers. Would you like it for your daughter?” The man said: “No.” The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “Hence people do not like it for their daughters….” [Musnad Ahmad] Moreover, those who engage in fornication and do not repent are the most maligned of people. Allah says: “The adulterer cannot marry any but an adulteress or an idolatress, and the adulteress, none mary her but an adulterer or an idolater; to the believers such a thing is forbidden” [Sûrah al-Nûr: 3] |
Re: Steps To Avoid Extra-marital Affairs In The Workplace (and Elsewhere) by motayoayinde: 11:52am On Jun 11, 2021 |
A VERY RELEVANT TOPIC FOR OUR TIME. JAZAAKALLAH THE HALLMARK OF ISLAM IS DECENCY IN PUBLIC AND PRIVATE LIFE. 1 Like |
Re: Steps To Avoid Extra-marital Affairs In The Workplace (and Elsewhere) by Fiscus105(m): 11:52am On Jun 11, 2021 |
Number one way to avoid it most especially from woman's angle is to stop seeking undeu favours, most especially money from superiors. Nothing opens door for men than for his female surbordinates to be asking for lunch money from oga. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Steps To Avoid Extra-marital Affairs In The Workplace (and Elsewhere) by moufan: 12:01pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
nice one op, jazakhumllahu akhiran 1 Like |
Re: Steps To Avoid Extra-marital Affairs In The Workplace (and Elsewhere) by Elhabeeb1(m): 12:07pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
No handshakes and hugs! 2 Likes |
Re: Steps To Avoid Extra-marital Affairs In The Workplace (and Elsewhere) by barbstee(m): 10:56pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Nice one Jazakumullahu khayr |
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