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Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by ShopNextDoor: 7:15am On Jun 12, 2021
mmadu5:
please no body should believe this story i personally read this same story last year 2020 i knew it was fabricated though i dont know if the op was expecting someone to say send me your acct let me send you something or he was expecting sympathy or job i dont really get his motive . no one should send anything or give him anything too many fake members on nairaland . with different fake stories . sympathy scammers everywhere . ... 419 419 419

Exactly
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by ShopNextDoor: 7:17am On Jun 12, 2021
dominique:
How come the chat is from the guy that supposedly wanted to take advantage of you, or did he send you a screenshot of his chat with you? undecided
As the sender, your chat should be in green while the recipient should be in white but your chat is in the white corner.

Verdict: certainly a fake chat and fake story.

Brilliant. It was the first thing I noticed when I looked into his pool of crocodile tears
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by ShopNextDoor: 7:19am On Jun 12, 2021
mmadu5:


you have a sharp eye . dont mind the fools that sympathize with him . they will believe anything

They are not fools. Not everyone is highly intelligent to spot these things. It doesn't make foolish.

And to be fair to the story teller, it was a good story targeted at the weaknesses of the average Nigerian
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by McCoy662(m): 7:24am On Jun 12, 2021
https://www.nairaland.com/6598890/please-should-confess-wife-kids

I knew this is a fake story from onset. OP and this very person, who is saying the truth? Who is the main victim?
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by ShopNextDoor: 7:24am On Jun 12, 2021
Powerfly:
Am I the only one who is reading that the screenshot is as if he's the employer.... I mean .if you are the one rejecting the offer...your chats should be in green not white ni..... I tire abeg

With 2 WhatsApp phones, idle time, effort and average IQ, you can even scam yourself grin
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by mranova(m): 7:27am On Jun 12, 2021
labisibrass:



It's your child that will face sexual molestation. You saw everything pointing to the fact that the Op made this story up,yet you chose to ignore. Na people like una dey vote for who would obviously suffer you.

Aha! The guilty ones are beginning to speak up.
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by eagleonearth(m): 7:35am On Jun 12, 2021
Neverwill:
bros you know when you are under a lot of pressure na. Normally the act disgust me even tho I'm learned enough not to judge anyone. I just feel so dirty. Babe Knows something is off with me, I'm in the seating room here just so filled with guilt. We promised never to hide anything from each other, I have never cheated on her with a woman and this. I have brushed my teeth More than 20 times, have had a bath since Wednesday more than 10 times even twice this morning but I still feel dirty and guilty
If this story is true, then God's eyes are keenly on you. If you had that anal penetration, it's finished, you get automatically initiated and demons take their places in you, then you become an ass smasher overnight. The deadliest end result is hell fire followed by a divorce. From your story, your trust in your maker is not strong and I want you to take care of that flaw for there is no limit to the help he can render to his people. 12 years of knowing Him and counting, he has always made a way for me even when my back was against the wall. Just confess to your wife, kneel and pray to God for forgiveness and watch him lift the guilt forever and even open a way for you.

Hoping to see you at the top...
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by eagleonearth(m): 7:45am On Jun 12, 2021
ismoney:
If this story is true, please send me a dm as soon as you can. I will personally train you in an online job that should give you at least #1m every 3 months. You will not put in a kobo. I am touched by your Godly sorrow. Waiting. God bless all faithful fathers with resources.
hello, what job is that? Though the message was for the OP but I'm interested
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by eagleonearth(m): 7:50am On Jun 12, 2021
teabully:
Omo things dey happen for this our lekki, the other days it was some gals going to have some orgy with some rich wealthy men dogs.
all those things are initiation procedures. The moment the dog perform sexual acts on the ladies, boom, there lives get messed up instantly and even the sight of dogs get them highly aroused. They will receive a handsome remuneration though.
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Powerfly(f): 8:44am On Jun 12, 2021
ShopNextDoor:


With 2 WhatsApp phones, idle time, effort and average IQ, you can even scam yourself grin


Lolzzz.... I swear .. I read the screenshots at first... E come be like say I no dey see well...I go read am again.... And do you know that a friend of mine also posted these shit to ask for an advise for a friend yesterday... I ask the niqqa whether him Sabi Op.... The guy come shock..... cheesy grin
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by labisibrass(m): 9:18am On Jun 12, 2021
mranova:


Aha! The guilty ones are beginning to speak up.

You're very dull
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by dbestuncle: 11:22am On Jun 12, 2021
This guy just nailed it. Thanks man.
Tell it to your wife n free yourself the joy n future of your family note some of the advisers here are not married no to talk about people who dont have the type of home that you already have.
samso247:
It is well, What a world we leave in, Thank God you were able to Overcome such temptation, I see no reason telling ur kids, but ur wife ought to know what transpired, and y u didn't get the job.

You will discover that when you tell her, it will be as if a burden was lifted up from ur chest.

Now get ready, a greater offer is coming ur way soon, one that is far better than this. Just be a father to your kids, a loving husband and serve God genuinely.

I have never seen a man that serve God genuinely and God forsakes such a man..

God bless ur home
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by teabully(m): 11:59am On Jun 12, 2021
eagleonearth:
all those things are initiation procedures. The moment the dog perform sexual acts on the ladies, boom, there lives get messed up instantly and even the sight of dogs get them highly aroused. They will receive a handsome remuneration though.
really, so they feel they are having fun, this babe told me once dey are high, "Boom" u won't even feel a dog is making love to you.
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by younglekky19: 12:07pm On Jun 12, 2021
ford101:
as a Young Nigerian tell me what situation have I not seen.am 33 an still single do u think am a fool.even if I marry next yr.it ll be just on child.till I see need that I can take care of more people.so ur story is scripted.

You are naive
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by ford101: 12:13pm On Jun 12, 2021
younglekky19:


You are naive
what do you know?
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by eagleonearth(m): 2:25pm On Jun 12, 2021
teabully:
really, so they feel they are having fun, this babe told me once dey are high, "Boom" u won't even feel a dog is making love to you.
she's already possessed. I pray she gets delivered someday. She will stop having feelings for a man and be dying for dogs until she becomes free again
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Meself: 3:18pm On Jun 12, 2021
I have also read similar story like this last year or so
what if he was another guy who fell into the same guys trap
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Nobody: 5:42pm On Jun 12, 2021
Wtf shocked
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Iheakonye(m): 8:06pm On Jun 12, 2021
Story la fake
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by luluosas(m): 7:37am On Jun 13, 2021
Number 1. He will encounter JESUS CHRIST RAW.
And number 2. His nightmare shall become a thing of the past by the grace of GOD. I will stop there for now.

Youngsage:


I'm curious though, when he visits your Church, what happens?
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by advanceDNA: 12:09pm On Jun 13, 2021
Neverwill:
I didn't have to post this but I would. Thanks for your abuses when I needed advice..I guess you can't get that from strangers. When wifey gets back from the shop I would tell her. Thanks and let's never take advantage of anyone needing help

So how did u trick him to send screenshot the chat...?? I go like use this trick some day...
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Chidexsco8448(m): 4:14pm On Jun 13, 2021
Nawa oh, una still dey bubble with OP ontop his acclaimed pitiful story
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by rosy4u(f): 5:08pm On Jun 13, 2021
I would’ve easily believed your story if not for that fake screenshot.
You just use your hand cast yourself OP

Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Nobody: 6:04pm On Jun 13, 2021
yeye story
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Kryzboy(m): 6:54pm On Jun 13, 2021
I Saw this two days ago in another blog

Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Kryzboy(m): 6:57pm On Jun 13, 2021
McCoy662:
https://www.nairaland.com/6598890/please-should-confess-wife-kids

I knew this is a fake story from onset. OP and this very person, who is saying the truth? Who is the main victim?
check the Time then you will know the real owner
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by McCoy662(m): 8:21pm On Jun 13, 2021
Kryzboy:
check the Time then you will know the real owner
None of them owns the write-up. Nobody can copy a post on NL to repost on NL. They copied it somewhere.
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by mranova(m): 8:25pm On Jun 13, 2021
labisibrass:


You're very dull

You're quite smart.
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Kryzboy(m): 8:38am On Jun 14, 2021
McCoy662:

None of them owns the write-up. Nobody can copy a post on NL to repost on NL. They copied it somewhere.
alright
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Highter1(m): 8:22am On Jun 16, 2021
Neverwill:
I met a man here on nairaland that nearly or should I say took advantage of me and made me nearly commit an abomination which I nearly did. I wanted to keep this to my self till he sent me a message this last night again

I would keep this brief and I hope I find closure with this as I have been so sad since Wednesday and I couldn't sleep

I had to create a New moniker to post this because this is shameful

I'm 29 and a very handsome man. I have a young family with a beautiful wife that I don't even think I deserve because she is an Angel and I have 2 beautiful girls that means everything to me.

I lost my Job during the pandemic last year and it has been hard getting another Job and it's even harder watching my kids starve and my beautiful wife cry at night

I know my responsibility as a man and top most is me providing for my girl's and their Mom.

My wife have been shouldering the feeding responsibility at home since March because after i paid my girls school fee in February my account became empty

Even though my wife does everything she has never been rude to me or shown me the normal "Nigerian" women attitude

She has never denied me sex or spoke to me rudely since August of last year. She meets men, richer men that wants a relationship with her but this lovely woman tells me all, she even gives me her phone to chat with them

In all of this I kept on looking for a job because I feel like I'm failing my girls

On Monday I was in a thread here on nairaland and I made a post that I needed a job so badly and I got an email from here and I replied the email and I and the person started talking and he invited me to his office in the island

I was excited, baby was excited and the girl's were excited as well and I got to his office the next day which was on Tuesday and I submitted my CV to him and he went through it and was impressed and we spoke even more and he said something to me 'what can you do to get this job' and I said anything because I need to start providing for my wife and the girl's as I was feeling the pressure from home and he said something again. 'You are very handsome and I would want us to be closer and if you agree to this you would get even more than a job

Then he told me his office would get back to me and he gave me #15k as transportation and while I was heading home he texted me and said if I'm free tomorrow he would like to see me

My mind told me something was off , I knew but I just couldn't imagine or believe something of that nature could happen to me, I replied his text and told him I would be free and he told me he would get back to me and Wednesday morning he sent me a text that we should meet in one of the biggest hotels in lekki

I asked him why an hotel and he said he has an appointment with a client and he would want me to see the client with him so he accesses my ability In convincing a client to partner with us

Then I got to the hotel by 10am and I called him I was there and he invited me to his room and when I got in it seemed odd

There were 2 glass and a bottle of wine and we started talking and we spoke a lot while we drank and I actually felt comfortable around him and we started talking family and he told me his wife and kids are in America

Then when it got to my turn I told him about Nike and my girls and I got very emotional and started shedding some tears because I'm failing my family even tho it's not my fault, even though I look for job everywhere and every day both on jobberman and LinkedIn and Twitter and Facebook

Then he told me how much I want the job and I said so badly and he said what can I do to get the job I said anything and he said what can I do to get a job of #150k per month gosh that broke me and I said anything at all and right there he called his personal assistant to draft an employment letter in my name and add a salary of #150k

We continued talking and he told me how much I had left in my account I told him just 3k because I gave wifey the rest of the money he gave to me to prepare something for the kids

Some few minutes later he brought out a bundle of cash and told me it's mine and the employment letter in his email which he showed me if only he has sex with me

Hmmmm

I was stunned and astonished and didn't no what to do

I needed a job so badly, my kids needed the money so badly, Nikky has carried the family enough and I needed to do something and there was an opportunity

If it was you what would you do?

I have never thought I would be in such a situation in all my life but I asked him if it would be painful and he Said no

I'm so sorry for even considering it

Then he showed me a video of how easy it would be

Hmmmm

May God forgive me

I agreed guys

I agreed I'm so sorry babe

I agreed because I have been so broken and empty emotionally and mentally

He told me to pull of my dress and I did and he did as well and I don't know what he rubbed in my ass , maybe a cream he said for easy penetration

Then he kissed me and I kissed him back and in all of this I was just mute, confused, not knowing what to do

I knew I hated what I was doing but I needed a job for my girl's and wifey

Then he told me to give him a Mouth Gig and immediately I held his penis in my hands I remembered how Nike would always say no to other men And the Love we shared and I came back to my senses

And I respectfully told him I can't and he was angry and DISAPPOINTED as I could tell from his look but he told me to leave and I asked him about the job and he told me he would get back to me

I left and immediately went to the church to pray and when I got home babe asked me about it and I said I didn't get the job and at night she wanted us to make Love but I felt too dirty to do that

yesterday morning she wanted to kiss me I felt too dirty to do that also

My kids noticed I was different and asked what's wrong and I told them daddy was sick

I'm confused, I don't know if I should tell her and I don't know how she would feel or if she would even forgive me

My kid's are on midterm and I should take them out today but no money, I can't remember when last we had a family time together in an eatry

I feel so sad right now

I feel so broken right now

God forgive me

Please let's not take advantage of people in their down moment. I nearly fell for this and would have regretted it forever

God help me

Good morning
WOW!!! So people can dis heartless. just becos somehone is in dare need. may God to our rescue and not make our end meet a difficult one. MEANWHILE PLS DONT TELL UR WIFE, SEEK FOR GOD`S FORGINESS AND U ARE GUD TO GO.
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Highter1(m): 8:23am On Jun 16, 2021
Neverwill:
I met a man here on nairaland that nearly or should I say took advantage of me and made me nearly commit an abomination which I nearly did. I wanted to keep this to my self till he sent me a message this last night again

I would keep this brief and I hope I find closure with this as I have been so sad since Wednesday and I couldn't sleep

I had to create a New moniker to post this because this is shameful

I'm 29 and a very handsome man. I have a young family with a beautiful wife that I don't even think I deserve because she is an Angel and I have 2 beautiful girls that means everything to me.

I lost my Job during the pandemic last year and it has been hard getting another Job and it's even harder watching my kids starve and my beautiful wife cry at night

I know my responsibility as a man and top most is me providing for my girl's and their Mom.

My wife have been shouldering the feeding responsibility at home since March because after i paid my girls school fee in February my account became empty

Even though my wife does everything she has never been rude to me or shown me the normal "Nigerian" women attitude

She has never denied me sex or spoke to me rudely since August of last year. She meets men, richer men that wants a relationship with her but this lovely woman tells me all, she even gives me her phone to chat with them

In all of this I kept on looking for a job because I feel like I'm failing my girls

On Monday I was in a thread here on nairaland and I made a post that I needed a job so badly and I got an email from here and I replied the email and I and the person started talking and he invited me to his office in the island

I was excited, baby was excited and the girl's were excited as well and I got to his office the next day which was on Tuesday and I submitted my CV to him and he went through it and was impressed and we spoke even more and he said something to me 'what can you do to get this job' and I said anything because I need to start providing for my wife and the girl's as I was feeling the pressure from home and he said something again. 'You are very handsome and I would want us to be closer and if you agree to this you would get even more than a job

Then he told me his office would get back to me and he gave me #15k as transportation and while I was heading home he texted me and said if I'm free tomorrow he would like to see me

My mind told me something was off , I knew but I just couldn't imagine or believe something of that nature could happen to me, I replied his text and told him I would be free and he told me he would get back to me and Wednesday morning he sent me a text that we should meet in one of the biggest hotels in lekki

I asked him why an hotel and he said he has an appointment with a client and he would want me to see the client with him so he accesses my ability In convincing a client to partner with us

Then I got to the hotel by 10am and I called him I was there and he invited me to his room and when I got in it seemed odd

There were 2 glass and a bottle of wine and we started talking and we spoke a lot while we drank and I actually felt comfortable around him and we started talking family and he told me his wife and kids are in America

Then when it got to my turn I told him about Nike and my girls and I got very emotional and started shedding some tears because I'm failing my family even tho it's not my fault, even though I look for job everywhere and every day both on jobberman and LinkedIn and Twitter and Facebook

Then he told me how much I want the job and I said so badly and he said what can I do to get the job I said anything and he said what can I do to get a job of #150k per month gosh that broke me and I said anything at all and right there he called his personal assistant to draft an employment letter in my name and add a salary of #150k

We continued talking and he told me how much I had left in my account I told him just 3k because I gave wifey the rest of the money he gave to me to prepare something for the kids

Some few minutes later he brought out a bundle of cash and told me it's mine and the employment letter in his email which he showed me if only he has sex with me

Hmmmm

I was stunned and astonished and didn't no what to do

I needed a job so badly, my kids needed the money so badly, Nikky has carried the family enough and I needed to do something and there was an opportunity

If it was you what would you do?

I have never thought I would be in such a situation in all my life but I asked him if it would be painful and he Said no

I'm so sorry for even considering it

Then he showed me a video of how easy it would be

Hmmmm

May God forgive me

I agreed guys

I agreed I'm so sorry babe

I agreed because I have been so broken and empty emotionally and mentally

He told me to pull of my dress and I did and he did as well and I don't know what he rubbed in my ass , maybe a cream he said for easy penetration

Then he kissed me and I kissed him back and in all of this I was just mute, confused, not knowing what to do

I knew I hated what I was doing but I needed a job for my girl's and wifey

Then he told me to give him a Mouth Gig and immediately I held his penis in my hands I remembered how Nike would always say no to other men And the Love we shared and I came back to my senses

And I respectfully told him I can't and he was angry and DISAPPOINTED as I could tell from his look but he told me to leave and I asked him about the job and he told me he would get back to me

I left and immediately went to the church to pray and when I got home babe asked me about it and I said I didn't get the job and at night she wanted us to make Love but I felt too dirty to do that

yesterday morning she wanted to kiss me I felt too dirty to do that also

My kids noticed I was different and asked what's wrong and I told them daddy was sick

I'm confused, I don't know if I should tell her and I don't know how she would feel or if she would even forgive me

My kid's are on midterm and I should take them out today but no money, I can't remember when last we had a family time together in an eatry

I feel so sad right now

I feel so broken right now

God forgive me

Please let's not take advantage of people in their down moment. I nearly fell for this and would have regretted it forever

God help me

Good morning

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