Coldie:

Girls as a whole are complicated, I no longer stay in Nigeria so I know what am saying.

They are trying to break me, cause lately am nursing that feelings in my heart that with the way my life is going I might not get married.

It's just d way it is

Lastly, if you are handsome, most women would only want you as boyfriend or someone to use as showoff to friends. Try and define your relationship with them. If you don't want, any sexual relationship with a particular girl, there is no need getting close to her when that is exactly what she had intention of while approaching you (vice versa).

In summary, bro, you have no issue. Keep working hard and earn a living. You would meet the girl of your dream when you least expect it.

NB: Some of the points listed especially with the gossip own is based on experience. Never underestimate the height people would go to say untrue things about you to a girl you fancy.

Herrick:
Its spirit wife, na their way,Go seek the face of God.

Coldie:

Sorry...

But it's very confusing. I don't believe in witches or all those spiritual things, but I can't seem to know the reason y for absolutely no reason at all I have never really dated any girl in my life.

Coldie:

Girls as a whole are complicated, I no longer stay in Nigeria so I know what am saying.

They are trying to break me, cause lately am nursing that feelings in my heart that with the way my life is going I might not get married.

It's just d way it is

azraeljaheel:







That girl really did you strong thing


I won't curse her, I'd just pray for her to connect with you and ask for forgiveness so you know all girls ain't the same...


I know if you have sisters you won't dare call them hoes

Makaveli217:
I wonder Why a grown ass man will be depressed because a girl refused to talk to him, what are men turning into? Weaklings, or will I call them bitches cause they all bitch about women, can't you guys do without ladies for once, at least have some respect for yourselfs, you guys talk about women like its your only goal in life, to sleep with anything sleepable.

Coldie:

Am trying my best, me once I close that door I don't know how to open it o. It might become forever. That's y I try to prevent it.

I know people that we haven't spoken since primary 6 till today for this same reason, till today I don't know what happened

michaelpop50:


You are 100% correct. Most of them you see on nairaland romance section, creating threads about women are very empty with no ambition. Soapy done blind them

DAramis:
Lastly, if you are handsome, most women would only want you as boyfriend or someone to use as showoff to friends. Try and define your relationship with them. If you don't want, any sexual relationship with a particular girl, there is no need getting close to her when that is exactly what she had intention of while approaching you (vice versa).

In summary, bro, you have no issue. Keep working hard and earn a living. You would meet the girl of your dream when you least expect it.

NB: The points listed especially with the gossip own is based on my experience. Never underestimate the height people would go to say untrue things about you to a girl you fancy.

Coldie:

Sorry...

But it's very confusing. I don't believe in witches or all those spiritual things, but I can't seem to know the reason y for absolutely no reason at all I have never really dated any girl in my life.

Stewart883:


How old are u? Are u still in your early 20s?

koladata:
why are you being pained over a friend that doesn't want to be your friend, find a male friend , why are you keeping a female friend in the first place. get a girlfriend or get a male friend. if you love her tell her your intention from the onset. Some guys needs proper sex education and psychology test to help them detect where they belong. Be friend with your fellow man. are you a woman?

michaelpop50:


You are 100% correct. Most of them you see on nairaland romance section, creating threads about women are very empty with no ambition. Soapy done blind them

fineberry:
At op I know your type, no doubt you're a nice person that goes out of his ways to always treat people nicely ( especially ladies) ... But people like you always end up been use and dump "that's just the bitter truth bruh"

The thing is, the more you treat people nonchantly, offhandedly with less importance, the more they grave and want to know the kind of person that you are.

The more you respect, the less you're respected. The more you show care, the less you're cared for. The more you grave for attention, the less attention is giving to you. Bro I can go on and on. Its well.

azraeljaheel:



What you see all naija girls as first??

Cheap??

NwaAmaikpe:



The Hausas have a proverb that says, 'there is no use in training a blind horse'.

Your female friends see you as a blind horse because you brozone yourself by yourself.
So while you keep playing brother and Mr.Nice Guy to them they are out on the streets hunting for a real man who is willing and ready to spread their legs apart and whip them with his preek.

Bigfish121:
Same issue I am currently facing with a neighbour just because I come Bleep one girl for my house this girl nor gree talk to me again. But as a guy man,I nor send ooo.if you nor talk to me,I nor go talk to you nah so my life be.most of the time I tell my guys to keep male friends because Nigeria girls mata get as e b.

Coldie:

Swears.

I am that kind of person, but after I moved to a new environment I just try to be friends with everyone, just to build my network.

Now it's beginning to back fire, the most annoying thing I ever heard in my life that almost lead to a confrontation between me and a guy some days ago.

Me being me, I always buy this guy beers when visiting him, I always try to at least accommodate his flaws. This guy even bottle water he has never gotten for me before.

We were in a group bus going to work normal staff talk, dz same guy open mouth look me finish say I stingy. I bring matter up ask him if he has bought me chewing gum before, the guy can't defend himself, next thing I see the guy start to keep face for me.

That was the last straw to me trying to please people, I have made up my mind to face front.

Anybody that mistakenly or jokingly talks or says any rubbish to me I am not sure I would hold back saying my mind

fineberry:
That's how people are, you will be doing good to them all the time but the day you're unable to do that, they will forget how you've help, support them in time past. Me I don learn tay tay... E nobi today.

But never stop doing good to person's that are truly deserving oo... E sure for you.

koladata:
why are you being pained over a friend that doesn't want to be your friend, find a male friend , why are you keeping a female friend in the first place. get a girlfriend or get a male friend. if you love her tell her your intention from the onset. Some guys needs proper sex education and psychology test to help them detect where they belong. Be friend with your fellow man. are you a woman?

Coldie:

These days I dae mind my business like never before. If I enter anywhere winch people dae I go just wear ear piece lock up.