Lizzyangel:



Stop being a sissy man!
You were wrong and you've apologize even sent people to beg her for months.

mariahAngel:
https://www.nairaland.com/6613935/wife-cries-husband-starves-sex#102947418

If the woman on the above thread could survive 4yrs without sex, I'm sure you could... After all, so many comments (by men) on that were like Is sex food?

Find a way to pacify your wife for body shaming her and hurting her!
After you killed her confidence, you expect her to sleep with you?

Playfully kor! Playfully ni!

mariahAngel:


That's why it's important for couples to be friends... So that they can joke about anything.
People should go for someone who matches their sense of humour.
Like me, I don't enjoy the company of people that are too serious.




I gbuola op final!

mariahAngel:


Secretary? K'owu vice president

ollins:
I Really don't know what to do anymore as I am so tired and frustrated of begging my wife for sex.
Ok,let me try and explain my plight,I have been married to my wife since 2010 and we have been blessed with two lovely boys.
This whole issue of my wife not wanting sex with me started in December last year 2020 when we were watching a documentary about people loosing weight and I told my wife playfully that she needs to loose weight but I regretted the words immediately I said them as she is sensitive about her weight,before then we had no problem whatsoever .
2 days later ,she told me that I made her angry by suggesting to her that she was fat and that she would never ever forgive me .
I immediately apologized that I was only joking but she said she would never ever forgive me,I went down on my knees to apologise but all to no avail,I then enlisted the help of my brother in law and mother in law to beg her for me,I even asked her best friend whom she is very fond of to beg for me but none of them could change her mind.
She then moved out of my room but we still maintained our marriage and House.
Right now she has vowed never to sleep with me,at a stage I started suspecting if she had someone else as she is always on the phone chatting but I have no proof that she is cheating.
I have tried everything I can to apologise to her all to avail,I am thinking of going to her church now to report to her pastor or something (we don't attend the same church).
The most painful thing in all this is that my wife knows I have high libido for sex and she chose that to punish me.
Please advise me on what to do because I am so confused and I can't believe my wife has refused me sex since December last year till now.
I am tired of masturbating,(a married man o,�)I have cried and all that to her and she told me something last night that chilled me to my bones which I am still trying to understand,she told me she can stay without sex for years if she is not interested, please � women in the House,is that possible?for a Married woman
.

teegurl2:
Honestly I don't understand. After my first baby, my husband said I have become fat....I started to work out and lost weight. Second baby same thing. He even said babe you are going out of shape. Lol

How can I take offence in that. Instead I saw it as a motivation to put in more effort in my weight loss goal.

I didn't find it insulting at all. I felt he just wanted me to look my best.

AutoChick4U:
Mtcheeeeeew. The mistake you made was begging. See when you beg much you come across as weak but when you stand your ground as a man, no woman will use you shine.

ollins:
I Really don't know what to do anymore as I am so tired and frustrated of begging my wife for sex.
Ok,let me try and explain my plight,I have been married to my wife since 2010 and we have been blessed with two lovely boys.
This whole issue of my wife not wanting sex with me started in December last year 2020 when we were watching a documentary about people loosing weight and I told my wife playfully that she needs to loose weight but I regretted the words immediately I said them as she is sensitive about her weight,before then we had no problem whatsoever .
2 days later ,she told me that I made her angry by suggesting to her that she was fat and that she would never ever forgive me .
I immediately apologized that I was only joking but she said she would never ever forgive me,I went down on my knees to apologise but all to no avail,I then enlisted the help of my brother in law and mother in law to beg her for me,I even asked her best friend whom she is very fond of to beg for me but none of them could change her mind.
She then moved out of my room but we still maintained our marriage and House.
Right now she has vowed never to sleep with me,at a stage I started suspecting if she had someone else as she is always on the phone chatting but I have no proof that she is cheating.
I have tried everything I can to apologise to her all to avail,I am thinking of going to her church now to report to her pastor or something (we don't attend the same church).
The most painful thing in all this is that my wife knows I have high libido for sex and she chose that to punish me.
Please advise me on what to do because I am so confused and I can't believe my wife has refused me sex since December last year till now.
I am tired of masturbating,(a married man o,�)I have cried and all that to her and she told me something last night that chilled me to my bones which I am still trying to understand,she told me she can stay without sex for years if she is not interested, please � women in the House,is that possible?for a Married woman
.

CharisEleos:
Serves you right! Next time , you watch what you say to a woman. Especially one who loved you enough to marry you. Mind you, it was marriage to you and the birthing of your children that made her fat. You still have the guts to rub it in her face by body shaming her.


Even though I don't support the aspect of unforgiveness on her part, I think you deserve to be taught a lesson or two for jam-talking.
One thing you should know is, everybody is not the same, as we all have different tolerance level and a limit to what we can stomach. Our attitude and reactions to issues also differ. So don't expect everyone to handle matters lightly.

You have really hurt her. Words are like eggs, once spoken/broken, can not be taken back. Right now, a lot will be going through her mind like, so all the while you have been looking at her with contempt and disgust..... You know? And that's why she left the room in case you don't know. So, you have to be careful what you say to a woman. Learn to bridle your tongue.

Yes, a woman can stay without sex for years. Very possible.

Munzy14:

Mba....mosdi wu VP...

poik:




Na the man fault sha

Munzy14:

Yes, that friendship is very Important...And couples kwesiri i nwe level of understanding...I av seen PHd holders marrying a woman weh no even obtain normal degree...chai how will this type of union work na.

I likiri nu i di happy mgbe o bula...na chi ochi gi na....There times one needs to be serious o...before anyhow person mistake u for onye egwuriegwu...

Gbuo OP kwa? Mba o...Nwunye ya wu onye choro I gbu ya o, o wuhu kwa m...

Nwoke a gbabela zamzam ke mgbe 6months... For a high libido guy like him...na big punishment...

mariahAngel:
https://www.nairaland.com/6613935/wife-cries-husband-starves-sex#102947418

If the woman on the above thread could survive 4yrs without sex, I'm sure you could... After all, so many comments (by men) on that were like Is sex food?

Find a way to pacify your wife for body shaming her and hurting her!
After you killed her confidence, you expect her to sleep with you?

Playfully kor! Playfully ni!

mariahAngel:


Forget o! You'd be surprised...
Nwoke ma ihe o huru ma luo ya na.
Wisdom and common sense are not obtained in schools.



There's no other way I'd rather be na...I also get serious when the situation calls for it.




The guy a gaala one side ga gbabere. He just created the thread to seek opinion. He's probably too embarrassed to engage in the discussion. Chai!
Nwaanyi obi ojoo awudikwa onye a na lu-alu o.

cococandy:

Munzy14:

Ike gwuru.....For someone like me, I can't o...Understanding ga adi difficult...PhD vs waec..mba o.
Yes I agree, many things are acquired outside the four walls of classroom.....In fact basic things needed to survive can't be from school.

Good for u.


Lol, He brought an ant infested fireeood home...Ha ya wu zi chuwa ngwere biara la ya holiday...
Nwaanyi ojoo anghi ede ya n'ihu.....Ufodu will act all sweet and rosy until u put a ring, gbam! Real colour will begin to surface....Ya bia mutazie nwa, the hubby a wuzie nkikara akwa.

This is common with our over religious sisters....Ndi daddy GO....Their fanaticism is extreme..

My mom will say, nwaanyi enwe hu church until ya luo di...She follows her hubby to his church..Mana OP, I don't know if he followed the wife to hers...

Or he allowed her worship separately, It's a whole red flag...but he overlooked the whole thing.

There major red flags u have to be conscious about in a relationship, and they are non-negotiable.

The painful thing is that, these things will weigh him down gradually...nwoke na anwu slowly.

If na me, she deh go...I play a lot, but i no like nonsense....I can't keep an extremely wicked partner na....maka sanity.

mariahAngel:


Then onye wu president ha?

Munzy14:

Ubunja na nwaamaikpe deh drag am....Mana ha nwere ike hie ura, kris ma o wu jayson a piara the president from behind...After all overtaking is allowed...

mariahAngel:


Well, it all depends on what one wants in a partner...
A well educated man could want a traditional wife with basic education, and I know many men with little education who are into (successful) businesses and married well educated ladies.





In all, I hope they're able to sort out their issues o...and not taking the cowardly side chic route

Most men these days are just cowards, instead of them to think of ways to sort out their family issues, they'd rather take the cowardly route, and end up destroying their family.

mariahAngel:


Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahakikikikikikikikikiki

Otu ndi ojoo!
Esokwala ha o...if not, lekwe ka I na gahie

mariahAngel:
https://www.nairaland.com/6613935/wife-cries-husband-starves-sex#102947418

If the woman on the above thread could survive 4yrs without sex, I'm sure you could... After all, so many comments (by men) on that were like Is sex food?

Find a way to pacify your wife for body shaming her and hurting her!
After you killed her confidence, you expect her to sleep with you?

Playfully kor! Playfully ni!

crackhaus:

Lol @body shaming... Wahala be like wetin again

If a husband can't make a comment about his wife's weight (whether jokingly or seriously), who then on God's earth should tell her about her weight?

I hope you're not overweight yourself because we don't understand this your comment on the matter, miss sensitivity.


Two days ago, I made a comment to my SO about her bum and that she needs to start patronizing those women that sell yansh cream.
She responded by sending a picture of penis enlargement cream along with the price, straight to my WhatsApp.

The argument that followed only lasted for about 5mins, everyone has moved on.
Some things really shouldn't matter...

crackhaus:
This is what usually happens when you don't have a side-chick, one/two exes, OR some casual FWBs on speed dial... you start sisi-ing up to your wife just because of sex.



Just passing by anyway.

Rozcol:
A potential cheat spotted, I hate you.