In your heart, you have had more than enough of the abuse.
In your heart you have walked away several times.
In reality, you are still giving him one more time.

You are wishing and secretly praying that he should change, though you know that this may never happen. So, you are still sticking around waiting for a miracle to happen and save or rescue you from the ‘hell’ of a life you are living.

Why are you waiting for a miracle to happen when you can just get up and leave. Do you call that ‘love’ or it’s ‘plain stupidity’?

Okay and yes, you love him but clearly, he doesn’t love you back. You can’t create love in a heart that is not with you and is not for you. Love happens naturally and it must be in two hearts going in the same direction for it to happen. It’s either it’s there or it’s not there.

Don’t try to convince yourself that you are not good enough for another person. Nobody is ever good enough until they find someone who treats them very very special.

And there is always someone, somewhere searching for someone like you, to love, to cherish and to keep. But you may never meet that ‘nice’ person, until you have the courage to walk away from an abusive relationship that has given you the worst kind of harassment, intimidation, disrespect, painful heartbreak and ‘fake’ make=up.

The courage to walk away comes from the awareness that you are special and that you deserve nothing less than to be treated nicely and beautifully.
You are a great gift to the world, so never hesitate to ask for a better deal.

Walk away from an abusive relationship while you can. Don’t wait until you have passed your prime, at which time, you would settle for whoever and whoever is available, even when ‘the whoever’ is clearly not who you desire and is never available in body, soul and spirit, for you.

https://ayietim.com/2017/02/11/relationship-why-are-you-tolerating-an-abusive-relationship/

Stockholm syndrome.

Stigma

Sometimes the feeling of starting all over again after a person may have spent time & resources to build the said relationship... No matter hw hard the decision to leave one's abusive relationship is,. It is better than living with regrets all thru ur lifetime... Life has no duplicate as there often say.

If you wan die quick, stay in an abusive relationship.

This life too hard abeg..

Na money now.

Ask yahoo boys this question, they'll tell you a lot.
Dem go beat girl, pursue her self, lock her outside, she no go free go o.
Why?
AC for room, AC for car

Freebies, enough shopping and so on.
Life wey dem no fit chop for house dem dey chop am.

You con talk say make she leave because of ordinary beating?

For where? She go endure

dacblogger:
This life too hard abeg...
Love is just not worth the stress.
Do you know how hard it is to walk away from someone you love?
Its like dying over and over again .
Stay sane,stay away from love...

From all I've been through, I agree with you.
Stay sane, stay away from love.
Love is not worth the pain.