| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by MrOposter: 7:44pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
 xtervaganza:
You don’t need the truth cos you already know the truth
That child is not yours. Stop being a poocee |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by tonysunkan: 3:22pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
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| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by seyz91(m): 3:24pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
Vagina people are so cunning ehn  Imagine the series of format she been giving you just to boycut the test MrOposter:
It's a bit lengthy pls bear with me
I met a lady through 2go in 2014. I asked her out online and she accepted, weeks later, we met one weekend and had sex on the first day! The sex wasn't great, I stopped half way and went to shower. The following day I snooped and discovered that she already have a boyfriend and the guy is in the same school with her. I dissolved everything between us and left for my lodge (I was schooling too but in another school but same state)
She didn't call to apologise and I also locked up. Fast forward 6 month later, she messaged me on Facebook that she was 7 months pregnant. I did my calculations and Instantly knew something was wrong somewhere. I denied being the father, she went on my friend list and dug up my my uncle's profile and chatted him about the pregnancy. My uncle messaged me
Calm me down and request I go see the baby with my parent. We went to her parent house, saw the baby immediately started investigating about dna test. I was humbled by the price of the dna test (200k as at then) because there is no way I was going to raise that kind of money while in school.
Long story short, my parent and I have been taking care of the baby ever since then, I finished school around 2017, travelled out of the country almost immediately after graduation and assumed responsibility on my own.
I came back late 2019, I requested we do a dna test upon my arrival. I went straight up to a known diagnostic center and made enquiries of the price and what to bring before the dna test will be done..
I was told to bring any official means of identification for myself, the birth certificate of the baby and the mother will also have a means of identification too and she will also be present to sign the consent form.
I told her about the requirements and ask her if she had any means of identification herself. She said No! I went back to the diagnostic centre and told them if there is any substitute, they said she can present her NIN slip. I told her immediately to get the NIN slip, days later she told me there were too much people on the queue and that she can't continue to waste her time endlessly. We went back and forth about the NIN slip till the whole of 2020 ended.
The beginning of this year I told her that I'll stop giving her money for the baby's upkeep if she can't provide the NIN slip. With as low as 2500 she can get hers from the local shops.
She called and called for me to send her money for the first 3 months of this year. I didn't budge. I kept to my words. No dna test, no money. School fees time came, she called, I was forced to go back to the diagnostic center this April and pleaded if there is a way we could do the dna test without requesting any form of identification from the mother of the child. They called the head office in lag and told me that we can do the test without the mum's mode of identification. I was elated and called her to bring the baby with her on the 5th of April (Easter Monday) to the my shop, then from there we will go to the diagnostic center. She said OK.
I waited for her to bring the child over, she didn't. She called me 3 days after saying that she went for a church program. I was furious. I told her to show bring the baby the following day (Thursday) she said she will come. Again she refuse to show up. She called 5 days later to tell me that she's sorry. I ended the call and told her that she isn't serious.
She rang me days ago to tell me that the baby is not feeling too well and that she want to see me, she urge me to pls send her something to take the baby to the hospital for treatment.
I'm in a dilemma, I don't know how to go about this. It's obvious that she is deliberately not allowing me to go for the dna test and I don't want to be a deadbeat dad either.
How do I lure her to go for the test? I don't want my daughter to have a bad perception about me that I wasn't there through her childhood (if eventually she turn out to be mine).
Help! |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by ivolt: 3:24pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
I don't understand your story.
You don't need the mother's ID card or consent for DNA.
You can even do it without her ever knowing. |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by lkillbrokehoes: 3:26pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
I no dey put my mouth for this kind matter, go carry your cross yourself. |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by Nobody: 3:27pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
MrOposter:
It's a bit lengthy pls bear with me
I met a lady through 2go in 2014. I asked her out online and she accepted, weeks later, we met one weekend and had sex on the first day! The sex wasn't great, I stopped half way and went to shower. The following day I snooped and discovered that she already have a boyfriend and the guy is in the same school with her. I dissolved everything between us and left for my lodge (I was schooling too but in another school but same state)
She didn't call to apologise and I also locked up. Fast forward 6 month later, she messaged me on Facebook that she was 7 months pregnant. I did my calculations and Instantly knew something was wrong somewhere. I denied being the father, she went on my friend list and dug up my my uncle's profile and chatted him about the pregnancy. My uncle messaged me
Calm me down and request I go see the baby with my parent. We went to her parent house, saw the baby immediately started investigating about dna test. I was humbled by the price of the dna test (200k as at then) because there is no way I was going to raise that kind of money while in school.
Long story short, my parent and I have been taking care of the baby ever since then, I finished school around 2017, travelled out of the country almost immediately after graduation and assumed responsibility on my own.
I came back late 2019, I requested we do a dna test upon my arrival. I went straight up to a known diagnostic center and made enquiries of the price and what to bring before the dna test will be done..
I was told to bring any official means of identification for myself, the birth certificate of the baby and the mother will also have a means of identification too and she will also be present to sign the consent form.
I told her about the requirements and ask her if she had any means of identification herself. She said No! I went back to the diagnostic centre and told them if there is any substitute, they said she can present her NIN slip. I told her immediately to get the NIN slip, days later she told me there were too much people on the queue and that she can't continue to waste her time endlessly. We went back and forth about the NIN slip till the whole of 2020 ended.
The beginning of this year I told her that I'll stop giving her money for the baby's upkeep if she can't provide the NIN slip. With as low as 2500 she can get hers from the local shops.
She called and called for me to send her money for the first 3 months of this year. I didn't budge. I kept to my words. No dna test, no money. School fees time came, she called, I was forced to go back to the diagnostic center this April and pleaded if there is a way we could do the dna test without requesting any form of identification from the mother of the child. They called the head office in lag and told me that we can do the test without the mum's mode of identification. I was elated and called her to bring the baby with her on the 5th of April (Easter Monday) to the my shop, then from there we will go to the diagnostic center. She said OK.
I waited for her to bring the child over, she didn't. She called me 3 days after saying that she went for a church program. I was furious. I told her to show bring the baby the following day (Thursday) she said she will come. Again she refuse to show up. She called 5 days later to tell me that she's sorry. I ended the call and told her that she isn't serious.
She rang me days ago to tell me that the baby is not feeling too well and that she want to see me, she urge me to pls send her something to take the baby to the hospital for treatment.
I'm in a dilemma, I don't know how to go about this. It's obvious that she is deliberately not allowing me to go for the dna test and I don't want to be a deadbeat dad either.
How do I lure her to go for the test? I don't want my daughter to have a bad perception about me that I wasn't there through her childhood (if eventually she turn out to be mine).
Help! Tell her the DNA center is a medical facility and you can use that opportunity to also take care of the child.
If truly the child is sick, she should bring her to the place. Also, you mentioned that she was 7 months pregnant while u had sex with her 6 months prior, that's very shady, unless you made a mistake counting the months. Either ways I hope u resolve this soon. 3 Likes |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by FiverrTutor(m): 3:27pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
Cunnilingus:
Bro don't bulge. No DNA NO Money. That child isn't yours.
Few years ago I had a fling it resulted in a pregnancy. The lady in question was in love with me but I wasn't. When she told me she was pregnant I told I had doubts but will do my part till the baby is born then we go for the DNA. Well I actually forgot about the DNA. When the baby was 3 months this girl called me and asked that we go for the DNA within the week. On the said date she was there already waiting for me. Fortunately the boy was mine. Now am in love and planning to marry her You're a very big fool!!! You don't deserve that child!!!So because you did DNA test that's why you're now in love. I just pity that innocent child. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by easiebimz: 3:27pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
Why not take the baby for the test alone since it's obvious she is playing on your intelligence. |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by Nobody: 3:27pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
Congratulations you're a father. Bro man up and accept your child. Pregnancy is not calculated from the date you met, it is calculated from the 1st day of her last period which could be a few weeks before you met her..
At least know the science before performing the act. Congratulations again 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by Romanoff(f): 3:28pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
Tell her to bring the baby to the diagnostic centre so they can run test on him and also do the DNA. |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by sylve11: 3:28pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
Some women get heart o.   |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by mountmoriah(m): 3:28pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
If u don't fear the devil, please fear women 1 Like |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by Wheezy123(m): 3:29pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
That child ain't yours bro. Don't give her a dime. She might be takin from u and the real father of the child.
If she needs d money urgently, let her bring d kid for the DNA test.
While awaiting d result, u can get d meds for the kids yourself instead of givin her cash. |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by mountmoriah(m): 3:29pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
mountmoriah:
If u don't fear the devil, please fear women they will destroy you and act like if nothing happens, fear women 1 Like |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by Nobody: 3:29pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
Romanoff:
Tell her to bring the baby to the diagnostic centre so they can run test on him and also do the DNA. Same thing I just advised, agent Romanoff  |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by socialmediaman: 3:30pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
@MrOposter have you considered going to the court to order a DNA test? Get a lawyer and tell them the same story you told us, they should be able to help you 1 Like |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by tunapawizzy: 3:30pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
U go mumu small sha everybody just dey carry u for handicap the babe dey run u job , d lab too dey run u job, who tell u say u need ur partner's ID to do a DNA test. one thing is sure SHE KNOWS SOMETHING YOU DO NOT KNOW. |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by Cunnilingus(m): 3:30pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
FiverrTutor:
You're a very big fool!!! You don't deserve that child!!!So because you did DNA test that's why you're now in love. I just pity that innocent child. The child is living better than you are though so shove your pity up your ass. Anụ ọhịa 1 Like |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by LONGPREEK(m): 3:30pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
them say u fit bring the child come alone and u dey here dey type trash |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by Romanoff(f): 3:30pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
Afriqan:
Same thing I just advised, agent Romanoff If she has nothing to hide, she won't stay away. |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by Nobody: 3:31pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
it's amazing how many weak men are out there. A woman you have known for 6 months told you she is 7 months pregnant and you are calling the child your own.....Are you daft?
You are now chasing her for DNA test, is she not the one that should be running around trying to prove the child is yours? 1 Like |
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| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by Nobody: 3:32pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
Romanoff:
If she has nothing to hide, she won't stay away. Exactly... Knowing an average woman's nature, if she ain't playing games, she'd be elated to go for the test. Life sha...  |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by FiverrTutor(m): 3:32pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
MrOposter:
It's a bit lengthy pls bear with me
I met a lady through 2go in 2014. I asked her out online and she accepted, weeks later, we met one weekend and had sex on the first day! The sex wasn't great, I stopped half way and went to shower. The following day I snooped and discovered that she already have a boyfriend and the guy is in the same school with her. I dissolved everything between us and left for my lodge (I was schooling too but in another school but same state)
She didn't call to apologise and I also locked up. Fast forward 6 month later, she messaged me on Facebook that she was 7 months pregnant. I did my calculations and Instantly knew something was wrong somewhere. I denied being the father, she went on my friend list and dug up my my uncle's profile and chatted him about the pregnancy. My uncle messaged me
Calm me down and request I go see the baby with my parent. We went to her parent house, saw the baby immediately started investigating about dna test. I was humbled by the price of the dna test (200k as at then) because there is no way I was going to raise that kind of money while in school.
Long story short, my parent and I have been taking care of the baby ever since then, I finished school around 2017, travelled out of the country almost immediately after graduation and assumed responsibility on my own.
I came back late 2019, I requested we do a dna test upon my arrival. I went straight up to a known diagnostic center and made enquiries of the price and what to bring before the dna test will be done..
I was told to bring any official means of identification for myself, the birth certificate of the baby and the mother will also have a means of identification too and she will also be present to sign the consent form.
I told her about the requirements and ask her if she had any means of identification herself. She said No! I went back to the diagnostic centre and told them if there is any substitute, they said she can present her NIN slip. I told her immediately to get the NIN slip, days later she told me there were too much people on the queue and that she can't continue to waste her time endlessly. We went back and forth about the NIN slip till the whole of 2020 ended.
The beginning of this year I told her that I'll stop giving her money for the baby's upkeep if she can't provide the NIN slip. With as low as 2500 she can get hers from the local shops.
She called and called for me to send her money for the first 3 months of this year. I didn't budge. I kept to my words. No dna test, no money. School fees time came, she called, I was forced to go back to the diagnostic center this April and pleaded if there is a way we could do the dna test without requesting any form of identification from the mother of the child. They called the head office in lag and told me that we can do the test without the mum's mode of identification. I was elated and called her to bring the baby with her on the 5th of April (Easter Monday) to the my shop, then from there we will go to the diagnostic center. She said OK.
I waited for her to bring the child over, she didn't. She called me 3 days after saying that she went for a church program. I was furious. I told her to show bring the baby the following day (Thursday) she said she will come. Again she refuse to show up. She called 5 days later to tell me that she's sorry. I ended the call and told her that she isn't serious.
She rang me days ago to tell me that the baby is not feeling too well and that she want to see me, she urge me to pls send her something to take the baby to the hospital for treatment.
I'm in a dilemma, I don't know how to go about this. It's obvious that she is deliberately not allowing me to go for the dna test and I don't want to be a deadbeat dad either.
How do I lure her to go for the test? I don't want my daughter to have a bad perception about me that I wasn't there through her childhood (if eventually she turn out to be mine).
Help! You're a very heartless human being.... Just fucking go your way. You don't deserve that child. Every child is a gift... 1 Like |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by Isilion: 3:32pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
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| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by tobatele(m): 3:32pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
Na 2go caused all this now |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by tunapawizzy: 3:33pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
perambulator:
it's amazing how many weak men are out there. A woman you have known for 6 months told you she is 7 months pregnant and you are calling the child your own.....Are you daft? U are still asking |
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| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by HoluGraze: 3:33pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
I suspect cook up story 1 Like |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by Romanoff(f): 3:33pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
Afriqan:
Exactly... Knowing an average woman's nature, if she ain't playing games, she'd be elated to go for the test.
Life sha... It's why we all have to be careful about who we lay with. Las las, there's no upside to premarital sex. |
| Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by Kayharry(m): 3:33pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
Find a away to do the test, she might just be scared and not sure herself of whom the father is . |
