Womanizer:
I'm sure the friend activated Okafor's Law when the babe came to visit him

what is Okafor's law abeg?

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

The guy just did the right thing

He should free the bitch and enjoy his life

HRHQueenPhil:


If u say so, all I know is many men cheat as well, let's stop all this pretense

Men can cheat but still loves their wife dearly

Women goes as far as killing their husband to satisfy their fuckboy

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Any of my ex that comes to visit me in my house will be banged, no exceptions

That one dey

Fear ladies, same thing happened to me when I was dating a lady like that.I had to end the relationship asap.

Mmmmm really age is not sense imagine a woman in her 30s you think should be wise?! So how is she going to advise her husband in marriage?! She's a fool!

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

ARE YOU SERIOUS?
IF HE IS YOUR BLOOD BROTHER, IS THAT WHAT YOU WILL TELL HIM?

Simple solution: he should stick to the decision of cancelling the wedding. The lady is not serious. She said she was bored and went there to hangout. AND GET BANGED!!!

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

RUUUBISH! FORGIVE WHO? WHO SEE A SLOT A MARRY HER BECAUSE OF STUPID FORGIVENESS? YOU LADIES THINK YOU'RE SMART

Chidimma people

If her intention was pure, the US guy wouldn't have had to find it out by himself. She's still in love with her ex, sex or no sex, mhen! Good riddance!

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

Such a person needs to pay consultation fee before I advise him. My aza is not far fetched if be request for it

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

Ok. I want to ask if he had married the lady would he take her along with him abroad? He should thank his stars God has rescued him from impending heartbreak. God loves him too much. From records it has been noted that marrying a Nigerian lady and taking her over mostly turns out bad. So he should thank God. She just revealed to him the tip of the iceberg.

Another "Nigerian man killing his wife" in USA story loading. Op, use your head, that girl is definitely going to cheat on you when she gets to US. Leave her now and know peace!

A very stupid question.

A 33 year old aunty went to visit her ex boyfriend after being engaged, and you still think there is doubt about what happened.?

A 33 year old aunty o. She is not a 22 year old child that does not know right from left.

Aunty went to seduce her ex boyfriend and get a nice goodbye bang.

If you still marry her, well, good luck to you.

Your friend did the right thing. Get him some chilled drinks to make him forget about the foolish girl finally

Ladles are crazy. At times, they don't know what they want sef

Womanizer:
I'm sure the friend activated Okafor's Law when the babe came to visit him

Bad man.

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

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Very stupid comment.
Where do u ladies actually keep your senses??

She's from the streets and to the streets will she return

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

Tell your friend to stand on his decision to call of the wedding . The red flag cannot be ignored ..no matter how bored She is , she would 've gone to visit her mother , father , brothers and sisters ....infact a female friend woukd 've been better ...but she decided to go Bleep her ex boy friend. ..I can bet you , she wil, be comparing who is sweeter amongst both of you. To me she had already told me the kind of person she is....she can't be contented with one prick. ..

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Any of my ex that comes to visit me in my house will be banged, no exceptions

Bruh you know what's up

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

Forgive a cheating partner? You forgot STDs abi? Fathering another man's child abi? How old are you by the way?
Op that is not a wife to be,but a community pusee. Your frds should adopt children,rather than paying for a public toilet as a wife.. At her age ,she is still stupid.. So I think even at 60 she will be more stupid.

Carchoice:
If you live abroad and date a lady back home, OYO.

I won’t try it.

She’ll use one hand to pick your call while the other hand is stroking a flaccid DiK to get erection.

When you notice foul play and voice it, she’ll accuse you of insecurities to make you dumb and feel sorry for accusing her.

I'm happy there are a lotta OG's right here.

See as she mumu herself

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

I'm so happy for him, kindly help me to congratulate him. In fact, he should thank his stars.

He should forget about the b!™ch (she ain't faithful and won't ever be)

He should leave her and even forget about her so as not to have himself to blame at the end of everything.

I'm sure, he would have been thinking of returning to the US with her, then she would plan of bringing her ex and when your friend challenges her she will just call police...

#lobatan.

Womanizer:
I'm sure the friend activated Okafor's Law when the babe came to visit him

Lol, no make the guy commit suicide.

If any of my ex girlfriends visit me while just gotten engaged, I will thank her profusely by giving her the greatest bang of her life.

I go fucckk am like say the thing wan finish.

HRHQueenPhil:


forgiveness is a rare virtue and d secret to many lasting relationship, men do worse so it's not becos they are not caught that makes them righteous.. it's so disgusting .can we stop pretending

Men do worse and women should do worst too, right?

As expected...

Belafonte:
I don't understand why Nigerian men in the diaspora think it's a good thing to come marry wives from Nigeria. It is always a foolish thing.

Nigerian women are extremely sexually active, and I can just imagine the body count of a 33 year old Nigerian woman. This kind of woman cannot stay unsexed for more than a few weeks at most.

Stop fooling yourselves. If she's not a virgin don't bother coming to pick a Nigerian wife. If you cannot marry a woman in your immediate environment, you don't deserve to have a wife.

Hopefully, other men learn from this unfortunate episode



You're either trolling or naive. The mature thong for him to do is actually cancel marriage plans and move on. The woman has no business visiting men behind closed doors, least of all her ex boyfriend.

The lady went to share palliative to her ex...


I don't know y some ladies do that.

I really don't understand why people can't keep away their exes. Especially when they are already in another relationship. I can't imagine myself with an ex in close doors. Always respect your partner na, is it that hard??

The kind of relationships ya'll have now ehn.....