Many women in marriage have lost the sexual attraction they have for their husband. Having sex with their husband is therefore no longer enjoyable. That's why they mostly deny their husband of sex...
But when they have the opportunity to have an affair with a young single guy, their boss, their customer, or online acquittance, they always look forward to the sex...and with little effort the man can make them cum...
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I find this interesting and funny.
I believe extramarital sex will continue because It's sweeter for many women than when their husband fvck Dem because of see finish...dey don see their husband preeq finish...so new preeq is sweeter . ...
Infact..for many married women the sex they enjoy is the one they get outside even though the preeq may be smaller....

Sex is delusional. It's a manipulation of reality through your mind and imagination.
Sex isn't what people say or think it to be.

Sex begins from those exaggerated thoughts and imaginations until you finally get to carry it out in reality and discover it is not what it is. Sex in reality is a disappointment to the false impulses.

The false imaginations paints it to be something, reality shows it to be something else.

That is where the confusion and dilemma comes in for everyone.

In order to make the reality meet up with the false feelings, people resort to different styles, positions, hard drugs, aphrodisiac and then switching from one partner to another which all will never give that satisfaction, therefore the whoring about continues till death.

Here is the wisdom in sex, the earlier you're able to accept the reality the better and this gives you the freedom over your feelings but if you want to measure up to the false feelings, you become a public dog and slave who continues running from one partner to another or whatever shiit the lust in your head demands for each moment.

The only thing you owe sex is just that 3 - 10 seconds release, which might be a biological debt, any other false psychological exaggerations are irrelevant. This biological debt a single partner or spouse can do for you. Pay that debt whenever it's necessary through a single spouse and use your time and money for more productive things.

If most people are able to get back all the time, stress, effort, money, body, health etc. wasted on fulfilling false feelings which will always end in some 3 - 10 secs release, many lives would be far better.

Many people have died just because of 3 secs release.

Most especially when it comes to sex, men are at the losing end although the they're made to falsely believe otherwise.

Abeg wetin Nairaland guys dey smoke this days?

Gratefulheart1:
Sex is delusional. It's a manipulation of reality through your mind and imagination.
Sex isn't what people say or think it to be.

Sex begins from those exaggerated thoughts and imaginations until you finally get to carry it out in reality and discover it is not what it is. Sex in reality is a disappointment to the false impulses.

The false imaginations paints it to be something, reality shows it to be something else.

That is where the confusion and dilemma comes in for everyone.

In order to make the reality meet up with the false feelings, people resort to different styles, positions, hard drugs, aphrodisiac and then switching from one partner to another which all will never give that satisfaction, therefore the whoring about continues till death.

Here is the wisdom in sex, the earlier you're able to accept the reality the better and this gives you the freedom over your feelings but if you want to measure up to the false feelings, you become a public dog and slave who continues running from one partner to another or whatever shiit the lust in your head demands for each moment.

The only thing you owe sex is just that 3 - 10 seconds release, which might be a biological debt, any other false psychological exaggerations are irrelevant. This biological debt a single partner or spouse can do for you. Pay that debt whenever it's necessary through a single spouse and use your time and money for more productive things.

If most people are able to get back all the time, stress, effort, money, body, health etc. wasted on fulfilling false feelings which will always end in some 3 - 10 secs release, many lives would be far better.

Many people have died just because of 3 secs release.

Most especially when it comes to sex, men are at the losing end although the they're made to falsely believe otherwise.

Good points...
But is it related to extramarital sex?

Who post this insane and senseless topic abeg ... The Admin receive sense in Jesus name

ReneDaniels:
Who post this insane and senseless topic abeg ... The Admin receive sense in Jesus name

Point out the insane part of the write up...let's see your own perspective

Gratefulheart1:
[s]Sex is delusional. It's a manipulation of reality through your mind and imagination.
Sex isn't what people say or think it to be.

Sex begins from those exaggerated thoughts and imaginations until you finally get to carry it out in reality and discover it is not what it is. Sex in reality is a disappointment to the false impulses.

The false imaginations paints it to be something, reality shows it to be something else.

That is where the confusion and dilemma comes in for everyone.

In order to make the reality meet up with the false feelings, people resort to different styles, positions, hard drugs, aphrodisiac and then switching from one partner to another which all will never give that satisfaction, therefore the whoring about continues till death.

Here is the wisdom in sex, the earlier you're able to accept the reality the better and this gives you the freedom over your feelings but if you want to measure up to the false feelings, you become a public dog and slave who continues running from one partner to another or whatever shiit the lust in your head demands for each moment.

The only thing you owe sex is just that 3 - 10 seconds release, which might be a biological debt, any other false psychological exaggerations are irrelevant. This biological debt a single partner or spouse can do for you. Pay that debt whenever it's necessary through a single spouse and use your time and money for more productive things.

If most people are able to get back all the time, stress, effort, money, body, health etc. wasted on fulfilling false feelings which will always end in some 3 - 10 secs release, many lives would be far better.

Many people have died just because of 3 secs release.

Most especially when it comes to sex, men are at the losing end although the they're made to falsely believe otherwise[/s].

You are just saying nonsense, tell me have you seen anyone that died from 3secs release?

Why did u say guys are at the losing end, kindly explain

Gratefulheart1:
Sex is delusional. It's a manipulation of reality through your mind and imagination.
Sex isn't what people say or think it to be.

Sex begins from those exaggerated thoughts and imaginations until you finally get to carry it out in reality and discover it is not what it is. Sex in reality is a disappointment to the false impulses.

The false imaginations paints it to be something, reality shows it to be something else.

That is where the confusion and dilemma comes in for everyone.

In order to make the reality meet up with the false feelings, people resort to different styles, positions, hard drugs, aphrodisiac and then switching from one partner to another which all will never give that satisfaction, therefore the whoring about continues till death.

Here is the wisdom in sex, the earlier you're able to accept the reality the better and this gives you the freedom over your feelings but if you want to measure up to the false feelings, you become a public dog and slave who continues running from one partner to another or whatever shiit the lust in your head demands for each moment.

The only thing you owe sex is just that 3 - 10 seconds release, which might be a biological debt, any other false psychological exaggerations are irrelevant. This biological debt a single partner or spouse can do for you. Pay that debt whenever it's necessary through a single spouse and use your time and money for more productive things.

If most people are able to get back all the time, stress, effort, money, body, health etc. wasted on fulfilling false feelings which will always end in some 3 - 10 secs release, many lives would be far better.

Many people have died just because of 3 secs release.

Most especially when it comes to sex, men are at the losing end although the they're made to falsely believe otherwise.

Stupidquestions:

Good points...
But is it related to extramarital sex?

Sure. It is related to extramarital affairs, which is the essence of the post.

Sexual lust is a function of manipulations of mind and imagination which paints false fantasy about sex, whereas sex in reality is not that great as the mind paints it.
Most people live all their lives trying to satisfy the false exaggeration of lust instead of accepting the simple reality that nothing is really special about sex.
To satisfy this lust, they go into extramarital affairs, drugs, afrodisiacs etc, but sad truth is lust cannot be satisfied, that is why after some time they keep looking for more partners, drugs, styles to make sex experience great like the false fantasies in the mind.

Extramarital affairs or whatever you do to satisfy the false lust doesn't bring sexual satisfaction, it only brings temporary relief. You'll only end up living a daily slave to the burning insatiable lust.
The only way out is to accept sex is not spectacular as it is being falsely presented, manage that single partner/spouse for your sexual relief when that biological necessity comes, wear back your trousers and face your life.

There are different productive and positive ways to have fun and pleasure in life, instead spending all your life, money, time, health, salary etc., trying to satisfy a so called sexual lust that you cannot really satisfy which eventually end up destroying people's lives, family, work, reputation, self-esteem and the rest.

Bmedels26:
Why did u say guys are at the losing end, kindly explain

In animal social behaviors, usually it is the male counterpart that searches for the female or makes the move for mating.
In humans, this is not different, perhaps it's even more stressful.

Most times, the guy hunt for the female, once you get her, she starts forming, you keep putting effort, all your time and money to get her. Maybe after days you finally get her.
Then you start looking for a place to use where there won't be disturbance depending if you're single or it's extramarital affairs. After that, you start thinking on how to impress her in bed and also get value for your money - drugs, exercise, foods you eat etc. When the day finally comes, different things going in your mind before and during the whole thing.
During the process, you start bend your muscles, exerting all your energy just to get the best and satisfy her till you release.
Some sources say, semen is produced from the best of your blood and body nutrients.
You go more rounds, you lose more from your body. If you're a very active man, you would definitely feel the effect of those releases for some time because the body won't be that agile like before.

Come to think of it, she enjoyed the whole thing more than you because you just did her a favour. A woman with clit enjoys sex more than a man, that's reality.

After the whole thing, it looks like she did you a favour, your sense starts calming down and now that you release, the feeling you have is disappointing compared to how you felt initially before sex.

After maybe one week, you're already tired of her, she no longer satisfies your cravings, you start looking for a new mate and repeat the whole process all over again.

Even if sex is free and women do all the running after men instead of the norm, sex still benefits women than men.

Thinking of sex under this buhari regime is a crime against humanity

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Gratefulheart1:
Sex is delusional. It's a manipulation of reality through your mind and imagination.
Sex isn't what people say or think it to be.

Sex begins from those exaggerated thoughts and imaginations until you finally get to carry it out in reality and discover it is not what it is. Sex in reality is a disappointment to the false impulses.

The false imaginations paints it to be something, reality shows it to be something else.

That is where the confusion and dilemma comes in for everyone.

In order to make the reality meet up with the false feelings, people resort to different styles, positions, hard drugs, aphrodisiac and then switching from one partner to another which all will never give that satisfaction, therefore the whoring about continues till death.

Here is the wisdom in sex, the earlier you're able to accept the reality the better and this gives you the freedom over your feelings but if you want to measure up to the false feelings, you become a public dog and slave who continues running from one partner to another or whatever shiit the lust in your head demands for each moment.

The only thing you owe sex is just that 3 - 10 seconds release, which might be a biological debt, any other false psychological exaggerations are irrelevant. This biological debt a single partner or spouse can do for you. Pay that debt whenever it's necessary through a single spouse and use your time and money for more productive things.

If most people are able to get back all the time, stress, effort, money, body, health etc. wasted on fulfilling false feelings which will always end in some 3 - 10 secs release, many lives would be far better.

Many people have died just because of 3 secs release.

Most especially when it comes to sex, men are at the losing end although the they're made to falsely believe otherwise.

U are not wrong bro and the OP is also right. What d OP wrote is happening.

Extramarital sex is sweet but a deathtrap. Let those who have ears hear.

Pweetiedude:
Extramarital sex is sweet but a deathtrap. Let those who have ears hear.

You people always forming pope and Jesus ....shay Dem swear for una ni....Where in the post did I ask the effect of extramarital....una geh problem gan

Say 'NO' to baby friendly!

JaneYave:
Say 'NO' to baby friendly!

What do you mean?

Sex is sex whether extra marital or not.

Get It Right.

The only difference is how you feel for each other at that particular time of sex.

Stupidquestions:
I find this interesting and funny.
Infact..for many married women the sex they enjoy is the one they get outside even though the preeq may be smaller....

Divoc19:
Sex is sex whether extra marital or not.

Get It Right.

The only difference is how you feel for each other at that particular time of sex.

Exactly.... thats an honest perspective...the feeling or lust at the time the sex happens actually determines the sweetness of the sex

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!