kay29000:


It was way worse during Sodom and Gomora times of the Bible...why didn't the world end then?

Ynix:

I already figured what I wanted to do with my life before leaving primary school.
Something like 20 years ahead of my classmates in terms of thinking. They often called me ITK then until they realized my passion and uniqueness

Farid24224:


What's your problem cabroñ

Fiscus105:



Show me a society where a father won't accept bride price just cos his female child is not a virgin, I will accept whatever you say, but if you can mention a single country in the whole universe where as low as 25% of her female teenagers are virgin, I will agree ur head is turned upside down when you are dishing out comment

SenecaTheYonger:


For one you don’t have sections on FB. For two, you can’t keep at archive of photos on your profile. Okay, smooth rain?

SomeRandomWeeb:
There's this thing called puberty, you see...

Holak:
Social media is just bringing all these to limelight and making it easier. Else, it has been there from time immemorial. I attended village school in the 90s and relationships were also like if you are not doing, you don't belong, from JS 1 to SS 3. I believe that even now, children with proper orientation could still approach it with sense

Efe42:


What's that ??

Debra911:

You don't have to force someone to accept what you believe, he just spoke from his own perspective and what he believes exist. To think that there are no virgins in this present generation is absurd. Everybody is not conforming to the society , so long ppl are living differently and the way they wish, certainly you should expect the good and bad.

SomeRandomWeeb:

Puberty?, A phase in life that turns children into different people, entirely different, somewhat stupid too, it's exciting at first yunno, when the boys start seeing increases in the sizes of their reproductive organs, but then they meet disappointment when they realize it comes with hair growing in between the ass cheeks , and other things I wouldn't want to mention

Hndrrxxx:
STONEMAN

Ynix:
I am the bold type, I just figured it out too early that it was a waste of my time.
I began reading about the History of Nigeria at 8, I began studying about purpose and vision at 9. At 12-13 I already concluded to either be a lawyer or engineer, of which presently I am an engineer.
I did a detailed study on beauty between 12 and 14 and learned that beauty fades.
Till date I am consumed by being purposeful and making impacts than crushing after ladies up and down. If I were interested in a lady, I don't waste time I just ask for a yes or no.
May be I am not romantic, for me there is more to life than wasting my emotions away

Tadeknkeepcalm:

Ok
Cool.
Hope you've achieved (or achieving) your dreams.

Ynix:
It's normal, na puberty dey cause am, just that they need proper orientation and guidance.
I see nothing wrong in a teenager falling in love, all that matters is that the paradigm of boundaries be taught and followed. Also the need to checkmate negative peer pressures for them.
For me I never had a girl friend all my teenage days because I was way ahead of those things.

Efe42:



You're full of shit!!

KGD10:


Even in developed countries, You can only be admitted into university at 18 yrs old except for special kids such as some altruistic Kidz who needs to get their brain working.

Of course if you've got everything settled at a young age (education, finance, emotional intelligence etc) and you meet a capable mate, it's not wrong to settle down at a young age if that's what the person wants. But what we see here today is people who can't even take care of themselves let alone children yet bring forth children that will become nuisances to the society in future!

loswhite:
it has nothing to do with young age. We also have old ppl that cannot take care the ones they have produced... Blame it on bad Economy bad Governance and bad labour laws.

C505:


It's normal for a teenager to fall in love?

That's why there are few doers of the word and loads of listeners. The world provides the trend and people jump in thinking it's normal.

It's only the truth that'll set anyone free and that's only if you know the truth.

What's their purpose of even going into a relationship?

Ynix:

Ok, it seems you are an overt spirikoko, tell us the truth were you not having moody feelings for someone as a teenager?
I want to see whether you will tell a lie or not.

C505:


Brother, moody feelings is normal for all puberty boys which I had too. I love what you said earlier that they need proper orientation and guidance

Going into a relationship at that stage is what is wrong. Now I really need you to imagine and not think. If you had a teenage daughter, what would you advice her?

OneMarvee:
Many teenagers have recently joined the dating pool. Every secondary school student now has a "special someone".

I am quite appalled at the staggering rise at which teenagers enter relationships just to join the trend.

Going into relationships without being friends first, for financial and sexual benefits, to update Instagram and Facebook?
It gets worse after several months of love-playing and exhausting infatuation, one party becomes bored and wants to try someone else and then the night falls on your undefined relationship. You then proceed to "chop breakfast".

No long term goals or aspirations, no detailed commitments. Just vibes and fulfilled emptiness.

Young people need to reevaluate their decisions and stop jumping on bandwagons. Focus on your education and your goals, that is what matters most now. And if you must, be with someone who you can grow with, share each others goals and ideas, have meaningful conversations, pray or attend religious gatherings.

Let your relationship be purposeful.

Shower thoughts with OneMarvee- E1S2

Emmyreal4:
They want to taste the forbidden fruit