hello nairaland

I got married first 2015 to a girl I met during my NYSC in a secondary school, we got married, things was not going well with me then Cox I have no job at that period. She was tolerance to my knowledge, she still stay with me, I never knew her mum wasn't happy about my condition then, she's a capitalist. Alot of people knw her in that community, I never knew her real attitude Cox I came for NYSC then. She was expecting I will soon get a job and alot of misconception she has on me, Finally, she pushed me to the world and I gave her the beaten of her life Cox she abused my late father whom she has never seen him for once, her parent especially the mum insisted on divorce, which I refused but later I HV know option than to divorce her.around 2017, I got married she got married too,but to be frank she's always in my mind I don't knw for her, I control myself as a man and move on, but almost every single day I dream of her But I have never called her for once in my life, just yesterday she call me after all these years I was surprised. that she needed me to help her with something. abcox am doing well now alhamdulillah.. Am confused upon all d insult now she needed something for me.And even my ex wife will have the audacity to call me seeking for help? This is the last thing I expect, pls what do you think could be the reason?

why dont you ask her?! you dream about her everyday, and now that you have a chance to talk to her again, you come here with stories!!!

MrBrownJay1:
why dont you ask her?! you dream about her everyday, and now that you have a chance to talk to her again, you come here with stories!!!

Good to see you around again.

aboki80:
hello nairaland

I got married first 2015 to a girl I met during my NYSC in a secondary school, we got married, things was not going well with me then Cox I have no job at that period. She was tolerance to my knowledge, she still stay with me, I never knew her mum wasn't happy about my condition then, she's a capitalist. Alot of people knw her in that community, I never knew her real attitude Cox I came for NYSC then. She was expecting I will soon get a job and alot of misconception she has on me, Finally, she pushed me to the world and I gave her the beaten of her life Cox she abused my late father whom she has never seen him for once, her parent especially the mum insisted on divorce, which I refused but later I HV know option than to divorce her.around 2017, I got married she got married too,but to be frank she's always in my mind I don't knw for her, I control myself as a man and move on, but almost every single day I dream of her But I have never called her for once in my life, just yesterday she call me after all these years I was surprised. that she needed me to help her with something. abcox am doing well now alhamdulillah.. Am confused upon all d insult now she needed something for me.And even my ex wife will have the audacity to call me seeking for help? This is the last thing I expect, pls what do you think could be the reason?

op i am more confused than Smalling in this picture

MrBrownJay1:
why dont you ask her?! you dream about her everyday, and now that you have a chance to talk to her again, you come here with stories!!!

Brownjay nwanne, where have you been?

If you love yourself, stay faraway from her. Move on dude! It's commendable you didn't try to contact her, now it's time to forget about her.

Hathor5:


Good to see you around again.

thanks sista... good to be around.

Ishilove:
Brownjay nwanne, where have you been?

hey sista, i had to stay away from NL as it was getting to a point where it wasnt enjoyable any longer.

MrBrownJay1:


thanks sista... good to be around.



hey sista, i had to stay away from NL as it was getting to a point where it wasnt enjoyable any longer.

I feel you. This place has become very toxic

Thats shit bro

She do comes to your mind even after you still got married

Bro what is gone is gone

Focus on your new baby and life

If i hear that you started chasing her around

Then you need beating

Concerning her requesting for help thats life

Well you can help her if you can