wat should i do, and she lied to me but later to me the truth,she is truly sorry.
should i forgive her cos i love her.talk to me guys.

Ask her why she recieve the car in the first place

If her ex buys her a car and you are sure he did it as just a mere gesture,then i suggest you should let her be.

Hi Guys, You see sometimes it is very good to always share some issues around us with one another especially some complicated ones like this.
ogon
all i will say is that in a relationship that is sure of turning to a marriage, 100% truth must not be told because of one reason or the order. I love what sammy wrote but i really condem pacino for being too ash concerning is advice.
You see is like u have even settled the mater yourself. (1) u said she is truly sorry
(2) u said You really love her, then why cant u frogive her.
the only thing i can tell u to do if u are not still confortable is that, she should try and return the gift if she truly love you and still want to have u.

you're finished!!!

lmao. don't panic every thing's under control.

LMFAO - Omo dont stress yoslf, enjoy the perks

when a guy gives a babe a costly present, he expected payment. that is if she no pay b4 the
guy gives the present

thanx pals,she told me she is sorry,il ove the girl ,am watch things.the car in question is even havin problems
as she has not even driven the car up to a week. so i might ask it to be retuned.

y not sell the car ?

buy her a car maybe you really have no imagination of what sustains love -MONEY. She is going to dump your ass sooner or later. You better minimize your losses by telling her to sell the car so that you can get a cut- eye wey see go chop

I can see that you are still sleeping, wake up and let your eyes be clear. You keep on saying you love her, what manner of love is that? If care is not taken, that love would send you to early grave. Is it until you enter the grave that you'll wisen up? Even if the car is returned now, is that the end of their relationship? Be a man, brother and leave her for that guy, period.

there goes an adviser. claps hisses

u r finishedoh, in short u dey for river water soap dey enter ur eyes! bros abeg make ur babe tell u wetin dey.

i suggest you take a stand now!! or its the end of the relationship.

i'm speaking from experience.
what happened in my own case was the he rented a place for her to stay when she was in school.
And i made the mistake of thinking that there was nothing wrong in the gift.
it then went from going out for "harmless dates" to show appreciation, after all he is just a friend
and to cut the long story short, she is now engaged to the guy.

Shine your eyes

8inchplus:

she is now engaged to the guy.

Yes na. 14inchplus na.

@8inchplus,
what did u expect?

@Bolarge
lol

Guy  don't even think about it twice   !!!!!!   it is either she returns the car or she sells it and hands over the money to u, to do what ever u like . In  the first instance she lied about the car ,that was a very big crime she committed.
Brother u have to act fast and decisive in matters like this, or else u will  find that the rug has been pulled right from under ur feet, Take control of this relationship or simply end so as not to look stupid in the end.

''When a small boy is cutting a tree, elders will tell him the direction it will fall"

That means she has been seeing the guy behind you. Remember Okafor's law " a hole once visited can always be revisited".

Wisen up. If she has truly repented, then let it be after she returns the car. Change her SIM card without letting her know.
Copying of existing nos from the old sim to the new should be done by you. Na hard work sha as you say you love am.

Guy,
Such is life and life is such. Don't be a juvenile, once a criminal can be a pastor, once a harlot can be virgin marry in spirit try to find out the exact mystery behind the car gift before taking any decision

@ Thoniaslim

How can you be clapping and hissing at the same time? Let's see your advise to the poster,, pls.

ye ba ri ba  
i no understand ooo ma guy na naija u 4rm, wetin u dey slack 4 abeg just leave dat girl or better still vex buy the girl trailer so she go know say u be da very guy

if i be u i dey go shoot dat her ex boyfriend  bagger

ogon, you love the girl quiet alright but let me assure you that she doesn't love you cos if she does the first thing she would have done is to tell you about it and make sure that you where there at the presentation, but if you still like her, the only thing that will bring her back is , BUY HER AN AEROPLANE.

should she have waited for you?

Abegi, maybe the girl found the car irresistible

Confusion Break Bone! You shouldn't stop her progress now; she is doing it for both of you.

If the girl was my chick? I can definately not put up with it. She is not worth keeping. Why the hell on earth would you accept gifts from your ex? I know I wouldn't. Someone is using your treasure trove while you are not at home. Women are dime a dozen. Look for one who is not too materialistic like the one you have currently.

Not just any gift , A Car

i know this would make most guys feel bad
like i cant get u a car and he can
but nothing do Una jare
she can give him a lift to wherever he wants, lmfao

@poster
My guy u're d "ex-";
He's da Real McCoy.

If her ex bought her a car, there is danger ma brother. What made your girl accept in the first place? Bleep it! She is a real back stabber.
Look here pal, i suggest you get yourself another chick before you feel the hit. The ladies here won't agree but its the best option for you dude.
These girls sucks pretty bad. Your story is cool cuz you're a guy. You should be able to handle situations by letting your LOVE for her die.

awww thats the kind of ex am looking for