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Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by pafra(m): 12:57pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
Cousin9999: Na wa for you ooo. Did you say different categories of boarding school don't exist? Learn to humble yourself and format your mind. Since you hold strong to your beliefs peace. |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by Cousin9999: 1:01pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
No disrespect, but I feel like people defending boarding school so strongly are: 1. Parents defending their laziness or lack of love for their own babies. 2. People who feel insecure about attending one, or their parents' motivation for sending them. 3. Employees of boarding schools. 4. People who fear they made the wrong choice for their kids. I'm sure there are people who had great experiences, but I also feel some of these people are being dishonest about bad things they've seen. I think people should consider the origin of boarding schools and why they're no longer relevant. We know better and have better. 1 Like |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by Nobody: 1:02pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
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Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by Jabar2017: 1:02pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
boarding school ke,day anytime cos i no just enjoy my boarding school days for government college ikorodu,senior seyi nd senior ugo may God continue to bless u wherever u are,senoir raheem you will never go unpunish for the terrible beatings u give back den. |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by Whois(m): 1:12pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
SUPERPACK: I can relate ![]() |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by kingxsamz(m): 1:13pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
silibaba: Lmao, what is this fvcking lie? |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by Cousin9999: 1:18pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
pafra: Okay, I admit that statement was unfair. But my point is that even in an expensive school, your child can still be victimized by child abusers, terrorized by peers (including s**ual assault), and ultimately not emerge as the person they should be or what you imagined. |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by Sunkyapogee(m): 1:20pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
When you have a child that always want the mum to bath, feed,wash the clothes, can't wash plate after Eating,doesnt do home work, play play pikin, dullard in class, always sleeping after school, and especially making some bad friends at home and you Don talk tire.. Please send that child to a boarding school and see good changes in the next holiday. 1 Like |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by Cousin9999: 1:21pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
SUPERPACK: Has it ever occurred to you that this mentality may be unhealthy or the result of abuse? Don't get me wrong. If that's your personality, it's okay. But people generally are not like this unless something is wrong. 1 Like |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by Nobody: 1:21pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
SUPERPACK: The school damaged you. I also have the same problem. I find it hard to associate with my siblings and people in general. I find it hard to approach women. I be soapy lord before. All thanks to boarding school. My children will never go to boarding school 1 Like |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by Youngstar76(m): 1:23pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
Though I attended boarding school through out my junior secondary school days, as I grew older and wiser to the point I could make decisions for myself, I never returned to boarding house all through my senior secondary school education though I attended the same school. It was a good school though, One of the most expensive in my state up till now. Disadvantages of boarding: _ Bullying (especially for young folks in lower classes) - Punishments for even minor offences by fellow students in (authority) Prefects - Theft rate is high - Inadequate food, like you dont eat to your satisfaction and you don't eat your choice of food. - Strict time table activities schedules that may not suit everyone equally. - Forced religion etc its basically a prison. |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by SUPERPACK: 1:25pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
akpokpo:That it damaged you doest mean it damaged me, I can have conversation and relate to girls as any other person, I am happy with mine. It shaped my finance, lifestyle; don't smoke, drink or womanize. It only becomes abnormal when the person sees it as a limiting factor. |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by ignis: 1:28pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
hakym619: Sorry, I'm not your dad please. |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by SUPERPACK: 1:34pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
Cousin9999:that's my personality. When I say I find it hard to associate, I simply mean I don't base my happiness, sadness on people around me, I believe in doing every single thing in life by myself no matter how challenging it is. Just see me as an Omnivert, I have the qualities of an introvert and half of an extrovert and can shield any. |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by Nobody: 1:39pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
afroxyz: Walahi, my thought too. One thing I wished for even up till now, is that I went to a boarding secondary school which I never did. The sense of independence, the sharpness, the academic excellence, the street smartness, the desire to learn many profiting skills, these are the characters one must definitely learn when they go through boarding schools, especially secondary school. I personally have not seen anyone who went through boarding school and is not smarter or cleaner or ‘ more up and doing’ than me. Boarding school it is biko, even if we are living in the abroad. Modified Train your child in the way he should go so that when he grows he will not depart from it. If you discipline your child in the 1st 10 years of his life with you at home, I can bet he will not depart from it when he goes to boarding secondary. IMO! |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by Faustymama(f): 1:45pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
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Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by BlackSan: 1:46pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
SUPERPACK: Ah jeez I can't believe you just said this lol From being assigned one guardian per student to a group of students per teacher. Sigh... You are Wrong!!! I don't know how you came up with this assumption, not all students get assigned to teacher. Next.. |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by SUPERPACK: 1:48pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
BlackSan:Speak for your school. |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
afroxyz: Sound!!!! |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by grandlexuz(m): 2:02pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
BlackSan: You don't have anything reasonable to say.. I spent seven years in a boarding school, My daughter just got through seven years of boarding school. I saw three siblings through boarding schools. Last month several children from day schools across Cameroon were involved in home po-nographic amateur display. The shot themselves involved in all kinds of nasty behaviours from alcohol to group sex and later uploaded on social media. Kids in the age bracket of 14 to 17 who leave their homes daily and never make it to school. It took screams from their orgies to draw the attention of neighbours... |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by Nobody: 2:04pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
silibaba: So day students don't have lesbians and gay? 1 Like |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by afroxyz: 2:14pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
Cousin9999: Stop leaving in a fool's paradise. Who told you that you would know your child well if he is a day student? So people do not pick vices when they finish from secondary school? I'm very sure you would send your child abroad to get an education despite the fact that drugs, homosexuality and gangs are ravaging kids there. Why dont you tell him to remain in Nigeria so that you can monitor him? You want to breastfeed your child and expect him to turn out a well rounded adult without entitlement mentality. Do your job as a parent and train him on what to expect from life's challenges and how to respond to them. Train your child to be an adult not to remain a child. |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by makavelli80(m): 2:15pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
So many secondary school children in nairaland |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by Flamemignon1(m): 2:17pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
BlackSan:Environment plays a huge role in sexual orientation development. It's the core of the "born this way" trope |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by BlackSan: 2:23pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
SUPERPACK: Listen to yourself dude One guardian per student, does that make sense to you? How many teachers are in the school? or are you implying people are hired just to act as guardians for kids? Gawd... |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by Cousin9999: 2:23pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
afroxyz: Nothing you're saying relates to any of my points. I'm very sure you would send your child abroad to get an education despite the fact that drugs, homosexuality and gangs are ravaging kids there. Why dont you tell him to remain in Nigeria so that you can monitor him? Again, nothing you're saying relates to any of my points. You want to breastfeed your child and expect him to turn out a well rounded adult without entitlement mentality. Again, there's no relationship between anything I've said and what you're saying. Do your job as a parent and train him on what to expect from life's challenges and how to respond to them. Train your child to be an adult not to remain a child. Sending your child to boarding school is essentially abandoning your duties as a parent. Someone else is "training" your child. Not you. |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by bilulu(m): 2:24pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
SUPERPACK:thats were most people learnt it from |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by Emeka71(m): 2:26pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
Bigredmachine:You're right. |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by BlackSan: 2:27pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
Flamemignon1: Yeah, I later admitted that one's environment influences their attitude and behavior. 1 Like |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by afroxyz: 2:31pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
Cousin9999: Whi told you that it is only the parents duty to train a child? So you have not heard of agents of socialization? The home front provides the foundation for training and prepares him for life. Why dont you home school your child or conduct church services at home because you dont want to negate your responsibility as a parent. Most probably you would even marry a wife for him. |
Re: Boarding School Vs Day School: Which Is Better? by Cousin9999: 2:40pm On Jul 21, 2021 |
afroxyz: Again, you're spouting pure nonsense. |
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