Dabronze:
Women commit crime as well as man but our society are brainwashed to believe women should be given less penalty for same crime men commited because women are weak vessel.

this is factually weong , men commit far more crimes than women - especially violent crimes .

Yes of course it deserves jail time. But it's not pedo. It's statutory rape.

It was a good dialogue. Take care.

neyoohhh:


If you sleep with a 14 year old as a 30 year old man in the west, you're going to spend a long time in jail.

Anyways let's move on.

Fuckyoumod:
this is the problem with people, people fail to see the root cause of problems.

The man is mad sure, but where is the father and mother of this girl?
In others words, failed parenting is the reason for this nonsense!
Blame it on her father and her mother!

If you ignore this part of the whole problem, because of your hate for men, forgetting that you are a product of the sperm of a man, then your daughter might end up at the hands of a mad man like this at age 9.

the root cause of the problem is the man who decided to be a paedophile. That is the root cause .

A woman in the US was give 100 years in jail 2 weeks ago for sleeping with 5 teenage boys she was teaching...not a sixsome though!

Dabronze:
My question if it was a boy that is the minor a matter like this do you think the woman would be charge for defiling the boy.

angelfallz:
Yes of course it deserves jail time. But it's not pedo. It's statutory rape.

It was a good dialogue. Take care.

Nice dialogue indeed.

It's statutory rape under pedo/ defilement clause's, a child can't give consent, even if the child willingly participated, it's still pedo, the pedo aspect nullifies consent, hence statutory rape. You can't seperate the act from the consequences.

A 30 year old man sleeping with a 14 year old is a pedo.

Take care.

Dabronze:
those that reason like cow are the one that see women as somebody that can do no wrong you gat it
When Chidima Killed Mr Ataga it was because they reason like cow that why they arrest her bcuz a girl cant commit crime.

Why are you trying to turn the tables and start bashing women on this tread ? Are you a mentally deranged pedophile ?

FutureIsFemale:
I will edit it to "male".

Hmmm...
Na u sabi

Adakintroy:
As we progress down this lines of thoughts we will have to revisited our existing g laws what constitute fundamental truth.

All societies has their taboos. In Africans men vs men sexual acts constitutes a taboo. Weras in the west child sex and not men sex constitute taboos. Who is right and who is wrong. That's a matter of subjective reasoning.

A man sleep with a 12yts old does not meet any criteria of rape or abuse. Not in the slightest bit. If he had sex with her, was it a willing act?, if he take her to the hospital and pays for the bills. Does that constitute an abusive act?..if so in what sense. How do we define an abuse. If he is still willing to take care of her and nuture her, we're is the " heart" of malevolonce?

I think we humans should be less rigid with our laws. If a girl can get pregnant at twelve it means nature and not the man has granted approval to her maturity. We are all strangely a servant to nature dictates. The subjective nature of things mean not all women mature at thesame pace or time. Some are approved earlier.

The whole ideal that a woman should reach a definite definite age before sex act is permissive is just plain rationally primitive. A man should not go to jail or has his whole life taking from him for something as silly as that.

Are you advocating for Pedophiles??

Pedophilia is a disgusting act, don't engage in it and never support it.

koning:






But not too young to get pregnant. There is something wrong in the biological make up of the female gender. If the age of consent is 16, nature/biology should have made it possible for them to only get and carry pregnancy from the age of 16. Something is not right.

Don't confuse societal values with biology, a girl that young may get pregnant although the society frowns on her getting pregnant or having intercourse at that stage of her life.

ifyken:

Why are you quick to support chidinma but fast to condemn ataga.
Seriously anytime I see radical feminists talk, I think within my mind that you are actually doing more bad than good in your support for female but you don't realize it

FYI, she's not a feminist, she's just a mere misandrist, she hates the male gender with passion irrespective of whether they're good or bad. Her endgame is not really equality of gender but the dominance of the female gender, which she has shown by the poisons she has spurned concerning men. You shouldn't really give much thought to her shenanigans, the opinion of such an individual is inconsequential.

Abba114:
she is not a minor pls she got pregnant and she delivered a,baby girl do minors get pregnant ?

What do you think is the meaning of the word "minor"??

neyoohhh:



Even when there's consent it's still peado because children can't give consent.

Will you allow a 12 year old to rule your nation? Or perhaps your business?

They're too immature and mentally underdeveloped to even understand sex.

I won't bother you with the civilisational aspect , this should be obvious to you.

Exactly sir, they are called 'minors' for a reason.
A minor is a person who is not yet old enough to have the rights of an adult.

angelfallz:
Define paedophilia.
If children can't give consent then it is rape and not paedophilia. Stop confusing the 2.

Exactly why it was termed "statutory rape".

The attention you give to this guy called manna,why not channel some to your parents who suffered and labour to get you a meaningful life,even though it's obvious it has all been a futile endeavour.

FutureIsFemale:
Actually, it is near-impossible for a woman to think of such not to talk of doing it.
It is believed that men have high sex drive but it's quite unfortunate that they can't control their sexual urge.

And your parent paid money for u to go to school and u think this dumb to conclude abt male having more sex drives than female? U better read well b4 u utter rubbish from your thoughts

wirinet:
See primitive reasoning. You are reasoning as if you still live in the dark ages.


Which fundamental truth? A very warped primitive fundamental truth.


Taboos change according to time, culture and enlightenment. In my culture, just 50 years ago, twins were a taboo and they were killed immediately after birth. Even in the west, gays were a taboo just 200 years ago. Marriage of pre-teen girls were the norm even within the aristocrats.


You are truly a sicko. Maybe you were abused when you were 12 or less and delight to see other pre-teens suffer to feel good about yourself.

A 12 year old is mentally and physically immature to understand the rudiments of marriage, child bearing and child raising. It's like a new yam. It's just too immature to be eaten, no matter it's size. People have to wait for it to mature before they can cook and eat it.

A girl getting pregnant at 12 put her life at great risk. Her body is not rope enough to withstand the trauma of child birth. Even her pelvic bone has not started expanding to accommodate the passage of a baby. Millions of girls die in the north as a result of VVF and other birth complications, but remain largely unreported. Governor Yerimah's Egyptian child bride died during child birth and it was not reported.

It is not subjective matter, it is an objective fact that girls (and boys also) are not mentally and physically prepared for child bearing.



You are the primitive one here. Scientific evidence as well as historical evidence has shown that girls are not given the responsibility of adulthood until they reach at least 16 years of age.

I can't debate you. You too full of insults. That the direction am leaving.

That man is a good man period. Some will rather sleep with 12 yr old than with a man. Everyone is entitled to their own taboo.

neyoohhh:



Even when there's consent it's still peado because children can't give consent.

Will you allow a 12 year old to rule your nation? Or perhaps your business?

They're too immature and mentally underdeveloped to even understand sex.

I won't bother you with the civilisational aspect , this should be obvious to you.

A 7yrs old Child can give consent on issues as complicated as gender reassigned surgery. But apparently they can't give consent to sex at 12.

The world is fooling you my friend. That man is not a bad man. He took his wife to hospital. Ask her if she is being abuse or loved correctly and hear her.

Dybala11:

Are you advocating for Pedophiles??

Pedophilia is a disgusting act, don't engage in it and never support it.

Homosexaulism is a disgusting act.

Sleeping with a 12yr old is a normal act. She is a woman at least and she can be pregnant. She delivered well and he is still with her.

Adakintroy:



I can't debate you. You too full of insults. That the direction am leaving.

I am glad you are leaving. What you are writing here is the most disgusting thing I have read on this site. Justifying a fully grown man impregnating a 12 year old kid.

That man is a good man period. Some will rather sleep with 12 yr old than with a man. Everyone is entitled to their own taboo.

How can you compare sleeping with a man with sleeping with a 12 year old?

An adult man is a consenting adult, a 12 year old cannot consent and so is rape.

You sound like a homophobic paedophile.

Adakintroy:



A 7yrs old Child can give consent on issues as complicated as gender reassigned surgery. But apparently they can't give consent to sex at 12.

The world is fooling you my friend. That man is not a bad man. He took his wife to hospital. Ask her if she is being abuse or loved correctly and hear her.

Where in your wrapped world can a 7 year old give consent to anything. I won't be surprised if you say a 7 year old can consent sex and marriage.
I think you are one of those religious nut cases that justify all sorts of rubbish like incest, multiple wives all in the name of religion.

You are the one that gave the gave the 12 year old in marriage to know they are married? And you live with them to know he loved her correctly?

I really wish we know the real identities besides monikers on nairaland. I would avoid anything to do with the families and even generations of people with your value system.

Adakintroy:


Homosexaulism is a disgusting act.

Sleeping with a 12yr old is a normal act. She is a woman at least and she can be pregnant. She delivered well and he is still with her.

I don't like homosexuals too, same as I dislike pedophiles. Sleeping with a 12 yr old is not a normal act, not in my society. It is all shades of wrong, quite disgusting.

Latinos have a culture of underage marriage

And it's terrible

12 is just too low

FutureIsFemale:
For your information, a woman "seu.n's mother" raised the fund se.un used in building this site and also, without his mom he won't be alive to build this site.

Nevertheless, you claim to hate the male gender and seu.n is a male.

TWLifestyle:
this is factually weong , men commit far more crimes than women - especially violent crimes .

Are you insinuating that women don't commit crimes or don't commit certain crimes as compared to men??

There's nothing to suggest that women don't/can't commit violent crimes both historically and scientifically I believe.

Adakintroy:



I can't debate you. You too full of insults. That the direction am leaving.

That man is a good man period. Some will rather sleep with 12 yr old than with a man. Everyone is entitled to their own taboo.

If that is the case then why do we need an organized society??

Murderers and serial killers too can use your same line of reasoning to justify their acts then, as they are entitled to their own taboos too.

Adakintroy:



A 7yrs old Child can give consent on issues as complicated as gender reassigned surgery. But apparently they can't give consent to sex at 12.

The world is fooling you my friend. That man is not a bad man. He took his wife to hospital. Ask her if she is being abuse or loved correctly and hear her.

Wahala.

Dybala11:

I don't like homosexuals too, same as I dislike pedophiles. Sleeping with a 12 yr old is not a normal act, not in my society. It is all shades of wrong, quite disgusting.

Thats your subjectivity to deal with.. I don't think the elites northern man who does is disgusting. I think it is when a the poor does it.thats when it is.

wirinet:


Where in your wrapped world can a 7 year old give consent to anything. I won't be surprised if you say a 7 year old can consent sex and marriage.
I think you are one of those religious nut cases that justify all sorts of rubbish like incest, multiple wives all in the name of religion.

You are the one that gave the gave the 12 year old in marriage to know they are married? And you live with them to know he loved her correctly?

I really wish we know the real identities besides monikers on nairaland. I would avoid anything to do with the families and even generations of people with your value system.

So the elite muslim that do it are bunch of nuts cases? . They don't function well in society because they marry that way. You are too arrogant with your one sided view.

Dabronze:
My question if it was a boy that is the minor a matter like this do you think the woman would be charge for defiling the boy.

If you were as smart or widely read as you think you are, this question won't come up. This question shows how little you know .

Adakintroy:


So the elite muslim that do it are bunch of nuts cases?

I would not say they are nut cases. I would rather say they are perverts and Paedophiles. Elite Muslim men are obsessed with virgins and are prepared to sleep with 9 year olds to satisfy their fetish.
Besides, elite Muslims don't give out their 12 year old girls in marriage to dirty old men. They send them to universities abroad and marry them out to other elite billionaires or billionaire's son.

They don't function well in society because they marry that way.

Absolutely. Such girls that has been raped and abused can never function well in society. Show me one example of a pre-teen or early teen girl that was married off and had a functional life.

You are too arrogant with your one sided view.

You are just too perverse with your absurd view.

I checked your profile and posts to trying and understand the personality behind the moniker, because I was not even sure of your sex. The name Ada is feminine, but you hold ultra misogynistic and homophobic views.
Apart from this website hold similar views on lots of other issues. We are even both Arsenal and Messi fans.

Having such liberal views on other issues, I wonder what made you so misogynistic and homophobic? No matter how you look at it - physically, mentally or socially, under age marriage is harmful to all those involved and the society at large.

What consenting legal adults do in the privacy of their bedrooms should not concern others unless it is done in the full glare of the public. Whether a man decides to "chook" has "pinus" inside the asshole of another man or another woman is non of my business. He can as well "chook" it inside the mouth, ear or nose of another woman, it does not concern me.

Dabronze:
My question if it was a boy that is the minor a matter like this do you think the woman would be charge for defiling the boy.

yes, they would charge the woman

FutureIsFemale:
The media.

So it was the media that made her tell the very detailed story of how she searched and tented the house with fake story and fake identity, how and her sugar daddy lodged in the house for 2 days prior, how she first slept with the man, how she refused the second time and the man attempted to rape her, how the man attacked her and hit her head against the wall, how she was pinned to the kitchen table and how she reached for a kitchen knife and stabbed him twice in the neck and once in the chest.

It must be the same duress by the media that made her say Mr Ataga gave her his ATM and PIN before just before the fight (instead of him just making an online transfer which would have taken just seconds). So how did she then get his PIN to steal his money.

Abeg listen to the first confession again and explain how she was under duress.

I don't understand how Nigerians can support rubbish. With this her recant and new lies, she is playing with the death penalty, because she is revealing a cold hearted murderer with no remorse whatsoever.