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No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by fineboynl(m): 6:46pm On Jul 26, 2021
Sex is nothing and I hate it when a girl is making it to be something as I will never be interested. I once break up with a virgin even when she was crying still I revoke her as I never wanted one and will never forced one neither value it.

She thought i would be excited when she told me she was a virgin even wanted me to carry Her to the hospital to check and confirm it myself.

But I wasn't really interested in anything to do with it as I keep telling her that virgin means nothing to me and I think she has got the wrong guy. And it's best she look for someone else, atleast who will value it but definitely not me and in fact for that reason I was mean to her and broke up with her for her own good.

It's not true that I don't like or love her, but I have a principle and rules of engagement, if by this my age I don't know what I want and what excite me it all means I don't know what I am doing in life.

But Yet she never wanted to leave me and crying, it took her 1year to fully get ever me because once in a while she will call even when I blocked her and delete her contact.

Maybe she knows I was a good guy and very sincere in my nature of person and it wasn't a manipulation or something I was just the wrong guy. I'm only attracted to girls who don't see sex as anything and because you sleep with them shouldn't be a yastick of some sort or to get myself entangle into something or trouble. Same fate has affected so many girls in the past I can't make mentioned of. Sex should be mutual and come naturally, i like and value my peace.

Look like it will repeat itself again.

Here is the brief story. I meant this mature girl recently and we have a thing for each other as the interest was there. She is now so fond of me to the extent she is worried and not happy if she doesn't heard from me. The problem now is she has make a rules "no sex until marriage" I know want to get married but should that be at my peace? what I will be doing in such a relationship?

Each passing day I don't call less than 30minuts call. Even the call she called me I am the one that sent her the card. When I go visiting her she want me to buy something when coming. I am investing money, time in all this while she just sit there and enjoying it. Initially she said no sex before marriage I just wave it like a joke which many girls always says. But it's seem she is taking it too far.

The reason I was still communicating with her I don't want her to feel I disappeared because she said no sex. But relationship doesn't work like that by making her own condition.

Just this evening I was beginning to stop picking her calls and start ignoring her. Another thought was telling me to make my own condition too and maybe by that she will run by herself. I am not really interested to sleep with her anymore. Because like I said up there I don't do sex when it becomes a big deal or something worth discussing. I have a past of abandoned women in their pant or even unclothedness because just before it they make a condition for wanting to have sex with me.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by DaddyRochie1642: 6:55pm On Jul 26, 2021
All these Because of Kpekus grin
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by fineboynl(m): 7:00pm On Jul 26, 2021
DaddyRochie1642:
All these Because of Kpekus grin
not really. If you read everything you should understand my point.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by Demigod22: 7:14pm On Jul 26, 2021
I perfectly understand you bro. We share the same belief in that aspect. I can't be in a sexless relationship. One girl like that gave me that condition, she is good, caring and loyal, but I told her to move on because I will hurt her. I was sexually active before she came into my life and I won't stop having sex because of her.

Life is one and very short. Do what pleases you. Anything that cost you your peace of mind is too expensive. Ghost the girl and live your life according to your pace.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by larryking540: 7:15pm On Jul 26, 2021
to me when a lady makes a condition of no sex till marriage,my people just let her be , mostly if she isn't a Virgin ,who day deceive who ,.if a lady is fully in support of no sex in the relationship ,just tell her hope she wouldn't be angry if no financial commitment also , since na standard we wan set ,
most people have or had a one nite stand and it let to marriage most people did no sex in a relationship for virgins oo,and it went to marriage ,and less I forget ,no sex relationship be you a virgin or not ,you as the lady have a bigger role and responsibility to play in the empty relationship

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by Machinegun91(m): 7:22pm On Jul 26, 2021
People do spend more time on pussy matters than God's wonders
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by Nobody: 7:27pm On Jul 26, 2021
fineboynl:
Sex is nothing and I hate it when a girl is making it to be something as I will never be interested. I once break up with a virgin even when she was crying still I revoke her as I never wanted one and will never forced one neither value it.

She thought i would be excited when she told me she was a virgin even wanted me to carry Her to the hospital to check and confirm it myself


How is this test done? Is it the doc that carries out the test on her and tell you the result or you have to go into the lab with the doc to see everything for yourself?
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by Nobody: 7:31pm On Jul 26, 2021
Lol
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by fineboynl(m): 7:45pm On Jul 26, 2021
Carchoice:


How is this test done? Is it the doc that carries out the test on her and tell you the result or you have to go into the lab with the doc to see everything for yourself?
actually I don't need a doctor to check it. I can examine it myself.

Many virginity tests are done by the “two finger” method. The examiner (often a doctor, community leader, or member of law enforcement) places two fingers inside a girl's vagina, checking for an intact hymen (tissue at the vaginal opening) and/or vaginal laxity (a “looseness” that could suggest sexual activity).
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by BigDan69: 7:54pm On Jul 26, 2021
fineboynl:
actually I don't need a doctor to check it. I can examine it myself.

Many virginity tests are done by the “two finger” method. The examiner (often a doctor, community leader, or member of law enforcement) places two fingers inside a girl's vagina, checking for an intact hymen (tissue at the vaginal opening) and/or vaginal laxity (a “looseness” that could suggest sexual activity).


Lol this one don go google am
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by Nobody: 8:15pm On Jul 26, 2021
fineboynl:
actually I don't need a doctor to check it. I can examine it myself.

Many virginity tests are done by the “two finger” method. The examiner (often a doctor, community leader, or member of law enforcement) places two fingers inside a girl's vagina, checking for an intact hymen (tissue at the vaginal opening) and/or vaginal laxity (a “looseness” that could suggest sexual activity).

Community leader, law enforcement, two dirty fingers? Barbaric!!
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by fineboynl(m): 8:15pm On Jul 26, 2021
BigDan69:



Lol this one don go google am
google the write word to use.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by Aboks(m): 8:53pm On Jul 26, 2021
Booked space no comment
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by EzegeNdiigbo: 9:36pm On Jul 26, 2021
I----Can't --- Never---Save---A---- HOE
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by doubleZ88(m): 10:58pm On Jul 26, 2021
women r very funny set of species.
u tell me no sex before marriage when ur not a virg*n. then give it to a random guy elsewhere.

they can only give dat to SIMPS and go away with it. if ur my girl u dare not try dat with me coz of have my own terms.

no sex before marriage and watch me shag someone in front of u.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by zexy2030(m): 7:05am On Jul 27, 2021
fineboynl:
Sex is nothing and I hate it when a girl is making it to be something as I will never be interested. I once break up with a virgin even when she was crying still I revoke her as I never wanted one and will never forced one neither value it.

She thought i would be excited when she told me she was a virgin even wanted me to carry Her to the hospital to check and confirm it myself.

But I wasn't really interested in anything to do with it as I keep telling her that virgin means nothing to me and I think she has got the wrong guy. And it's best she look for someone else, atleast who will value it but definitely not me and in fact for that reason I was mean to her and broke up with her for her own good.

It's not true that I don't like or love her, but I have a principle and rules of engagement, if by this my age I don't know what I want and what excite me it all means I don't know what I am doing in life.

But Yet she never wanted to leave me and crying, it took her 1year to fully get ever me because once in a while she will call even when I blocked her and delete her contact.

Maybe she knows I was a good guy and very sincere in my nature of person and it wasn't a manipulation or something I was just the wrong guy. I'm only attracted to girls who don't see sex as anything and because you sleep with them shouldn't be a yastick of some sort or to get myself entangle into something or trouble. Same fate has affected so many girls in the past I can't make mentioned of. Sex should be mutual and come naturally, i like and value my peace.

Look like it will repeat itself again.

Here is the brief story. I meant this mature girl recently and we have a thing for each other as the interest was there. She is now so fond of me to the extent she is worried and not happy if she doesn't heard from me. The problem now is she has make a rules "no sex until marriage" I know want to get married but should that be at my peace? what I will be doing in such a relationship?

Each passing day I don't call less than 30minuts call. Even the call she called me I am the one that sent her the card. When I go visiting her she want me to buy something when coming. I am investing money, time in all this while she just sit there and enjoying it. Initially she said no sex before marriage I just wave it like a joke which many girls always says. But it's seem she is taking it too far.

The reason I was still communicating with her I don't want her to feel I disappeared because she said no sex. But relationship doesn't work like that by making her own condition.

Just this evening I was beginning to stop picking her calls and start ignoring her. Another thought was telling me to make my own condition too and maybe by that she will run by herself. I am not really interested to sleep with her anymore. Because like I said up there I don't do sex when it becomes a big deal or something worth discussing. I have a past of abandoned women in their pant or even unclothedness because just before it they make a condition for wanting to have sex with me.

If u r in Ibadan, then u r dating my gf. We can take it further as my guy man. Because recently she told me, she has never dated two guys...I laffed and I said I will find out soon. Her name starts with F.. I hope she is not the one because that's what she says and does exactly.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by okoroemeka(m): 7:17am On Jul 27, 2021
zexy2030:

If u r in Ibadan, then u r dating my gf. We can take it further as my guy man. Because recently she told me, she has never dated two guys...I laffed and I said I will find out soon. Her name starts with F.. I hope she is not the one because that's what she says and does exactly.
funke!funke!!how many times did I call you,you are fvcking one guy and claiming to be a virgin to the other,only God knows how many other men are shining the pvssy,Guys shine your eyes,love or no love,virgin or no virgin,pvssy is created by God to be fvcked seriously
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by zexy2030(m): 7:22am On Jul 27, 2021
okoroemeka:
funke!funke!!how many times did I call you,you are fvcking one guy and claiming to be a virgin to the other,only God knows how many other men are shining the pvssy,Guys shine your eyes,love or no love,virgin or no virgin,pvssy is created by God to be fvcked seriously

L ;Dl...I'm not waiting for your response, let the op do the answering...pls tell me ur location let's track.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by dhiqson(m): 7:23am On Jul 27, 2021
Relatable experience fam
Most churchy ladies place emphasis on that "virginity" but their character is nothing to write home about.
I tell them, if you say no Sex before marriage then don't bother dating don't sugar coat it
And look at your experience, she's always receiving and never giving!

Abeg abeg
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by Amarisco(f): 7:25pm On Aug 07, 2021
zexy2030:

If u r in Ibadan, then u r dating my gf. We can take it further as my guy man. Because recently she told me, she has never dated two guys...I laffed and I said I will find out soon. Her name starts with F.. I hope she is not the one because that's what she says and does exactly.

Pesin wey get gf dey send private message request?
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by zexy2030(m): 7:46pm On Aug 07, 2021
Amarisco:


Pesin wey get gf dey send private message request?
Common babe, I have my reservations about that relationship, which I can't make public. She claims she is a virgin, no pre-intimacy, no sex, yet she will be with me in same room, I was tired and stopped picking her calls.the relationship clicked a year in June. I was tired and not wanting to continue

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