citywal:
I just don't get it at all, I swear I don't. How can a girl know that you love her, like she knows legit.

I told her times without numbers reduce the way she goes out with friends, she lives in the mainland n I live at Ajah (lekki axis) her mum recently opened a restaurant and she should be helping the woman... Like I advice her alot.

I came across pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaching that says "you saw her the way she was before you married her and it you didn't change her then why change her now"
Heaven knows I tried but if she can't stop we can't get married and I can't date her.

I can't keep getting worried anytime she goes out considering the dangerous times that we are now.

I am not a simp but fact is sooner or later y'all calling yourself redpillers will want to settle down.

I mean if this is how looking for a partner is hard I'll just get myself a baby mama n focus on my life n kid. I'm legit tired of all this...so pissed this night.

citywal:
bro I like respect and I also give respect to be able to receive respect, we not dating don't make her trash man. No soft spot

citywal:
I just don't get it at all, I swear I don't. How can a girl know that you love her, like she knows legit.

I told her times without numbers reduce the way she goes out with friends, she lives in the mainland n I live at Ajah (lekki axis) her mum recently opened a restaurant and she should be helping the woman... Like I advice her alot.

I came across pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaching that says "you saw her the way she was before you married her and it you didn't change her then why change her now"
Heaven knows I tried but if she can't stop we can't get married and I can't date her.

I can't keep getting worried anytime she goes out considering the dangerous times that we are now.

I am not a simp but fact is sooner or later y'all calling yourself redpillers will want to settle down.

I mean if this is how looking for a partner is hard I'll just get myself a baby mama n focus on my life n kid. I'm legit tired of all this...so pissed this night.

citywal:
like she's changed totally, bro late nights and all n this is something she doesn't do before. And many more the. Other day she was posting how she wants to take molly n all sorts c'mon man I know what I'm saying

citywal:
I just don't get it at all, I swear I don't. How can a girl know that you love her, like she knows legit.

I told her times without numbers reduce the way she goes out with friends, she lives in the mainland n I live at Ajah (lekki axis) her mum recently opened a restaurant and she should be helping the woman... Like I advice her alot.

I came across pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaching that says "you saw her the way she was before you married her and it you didn't change her then why change her now"
Heaven knows I tried but if she can't stop we can't get married and I can't date her.

I can't keep getting worried anytime she goes out considering the dangerous times that we are now.

*I am not a simp but fact is sooner or later y'all calling yourself redpillers will want to settle down.*

I mean if this is how looking for a partner is hard I'll just get myself a baby mama n focus on my life n kid. I'm legit tired of all this...so pissed this night.

DonCandido:
Op, you won't like this, but it has to be said;

No REAL man breaks up with his girlfriend for such a FLIMSY EXCUSE as given by you.

It is apparent from your write up that you are a control FREAK who is clearly getting out of control. You unreasonably seek to DOMINATE the spirit of a clearly extrovert girlfriend (not even a wife o) by constituting yourself into a MONITORING SPIRIT.

You need to see a PSYCHIATRIST IMMEDIATELY to help you out.

You are not your girlfriend's father, mother or husband and thus you don't get to have a say in her choice of friends. NOBODY has appointed you to monitor her movements. Her parents are still alive, so let them do their duty.

LEAVE her alone and look for another girlfriend you can turn into an household upholstery.

If your fear -as I suspect- is that she is cheating or likely to cheat while out with her friends, just ask her to allow you to be part of these outings sometimes.

Op, has it occurred to you that if eventually she agrees to marry you, some of her friends may end up being part of circle of family friends?

DON'T cut your nose to spite your face op. You will not lose anything by respecting your girlfriend; by trusting her choice of friends; by not attempting to restrict her movements; by trusting her absolutely without any preconditions.

Remember always that she is not your charge at this point having not married her legally, PLEASE allow the poor girl to EXHALE!
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NewSoul:
I see Op doing soapy

I see Op getting tired of soapy and calling his girl to apologise

I see Op buying gifts to placate the lady

I see Op impregnating the lady but refusing to marry her

These I have seen!

citywal:
I just don't get it at all, I swear I don't. How can a girl know that you love her, like she knows legit.

I told her times without numbers reduce the way she goes out with friends, she lives in the mainland n I live at Ajah (lekki axis) her mum recently opened a restaurant and she should be helping the woman... Like I advice her alot.

I came across pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaching that says "you saw her the way she was before you married her and it you didn't change her then why change her now"
Heaven knows I tried but if she can't stop we can't get married and I can't date her.

I can't keep getting worried anytime she goes out considering the dangerous times that we are now.

I am not a simp but fact is sooner or later y'all calling yourself redpillers will want to settle down.

I mean if this is how looking for a partner is hard I'll just get myself a baby mama n focus on my life n kid. I'm legit tired of all this...so pissed this night.

vickydevoka:

Guy I de fear olosho, I no no y. Me na soapy I prefer. De last time I Bleep okpo I no sleep for 3 days. I go hospital to know whether I do contact

iamadonis2:


Avoid the temptation to live a life that seeks to blindly copy that of another mortal. Be original.

Number1benue:



You ain't falseprophet1.
So pls stop taking another persons work
Is rude you know

NewSoul:
I see Op doing soapy

I see Op getting tired of soapy and calling his girl to apologise

I see Op buying gifts to placate the lady

I see Op impregnating the lady but refusing to marry her

These I have seen!

Brunicekid:
How can a guy be his "girlfriend's husband"... This one off me ooo

stunnert:
Just use condom next time and nothing go happen

NewSoul:
I see Op doing soapy

I see Op getting tired of soapy and calling his girl to apologise

I see Op buying gifts to placate the lady

I see Op impregnating the lady but refusing to marry her

These I have seen!

vickydevoka:

When u start loving her she will become a problem. Women are naturally wicked and troublesome. I de see my babe as my first daughter not my partner. Cus if u de see her as my partner I fit leave her. Because a partner in anything u do that does not contribute is not a partner. In most cases I see her a my responsibility. Coming closer to a 9ja glad be like say u de come closer to fire. She must hurt u.

Swit18:
Exactly my brother that's how one guy I was in relationship with and loved so much was doing me anyhow but thank God we are no more. Mr poster always remember that you only stay where you are needed and appreciated so if you feel the relationship is not working just pack completely a better person will come that's why it's a relationship not marriage.

JBoss25:
Na see finish dey cause am na why

AFONAMARO:


No matter how you look at it, the word "dump" is highly suggestive and seedy, shouldn't be used for humans in the ongoing subject matter

arthurwillia:


Nice one

Jeetech01:
Relationship is complicated.

Most times, one person need to act a fool for it to work.

citywal:
yes she is young in her early 20s, but bro why are good guys meeting the worst girls that don't know we also bleed n cry n all why?

vickydevoka:

Oga my neighbor gist me of his STD experience. He spent 600k to treat it. Him buy drugs like tomorrow no dey. N na him gal friend give am. Base on raw things.

vickydevoka:

Thank you. The only thing woman de hold man down, na dat pikin way Dem de born. Dats y any woman way no born pikin for en husband house is useless. They themselves know. Most atimes de get more bothered than de husband.

# Dem no de use totot hold man na pikin in most cases. In American you must give child support. In Germany n Canada Every child u born get money way de woman go de collect from government for child support. I wen to Germany Edo gals way de dere just de born anyhow.

int0x80:
What did you expect from a 20yr old kid? Is she done with school yet? Give her some time, she will turn around!

Nzel:
@citywal it's nice you noticed the change in behavior. Since you've talked to her and she doesn't want to listen, move on with your life. I wonder why this my gender will choose to stay out so late with strangers even with the much danger roaming around. Another thing is the friends she associates with.

Blackdisciple:
Take a little of her off your mind for now and keep watching her while you continue your hustle.......

Jeetech01:
Relationship is complicated.

Most times, one person need to act a fool for it to work.