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Never Use A New Relationship To Heal Your Broken Heart ! by Nobody: 12:55pm On Jul 28, 2021
If u seriously loved this guy but he still chooses to dump u for another, fine !!!

Do yourself a favour...HEAL FIRST !!!

There are ways you can actually heal from a highly emotionally committed relationship that ended... look it up on google.

Do not take this seriously... it's not true that the quickest way to heal from a broken heart is to start another relationship... starting another relationship is transferring some emotional burden on this new guy... most of your expectations will be extracted from your previous relationship and brought foward into the new one... the innocent ignorant guy would appear as a physical representation of the other guy and when he is failing to replicate the other guys characteristics it becomes a problem and even if he does, he will just be used as a healing tool to you and after he accomplishes that mission. You dump him !!!grin


Some ladies will never get over their first love ... some guys are actually dating ladies that are emotional hurt from their previous relationships.... and these guys are just mere puppets that are being used by her to feel better before being dumped !!!

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Re: Never Use A New Relationship To Heal Your Broken Heart ! by TheUndercover: 12:58pm On Jul 28, 2021
grin

In scenarios like this, the new guy was simply just a tool to be discarded when the mission has been accomplished. Once the other guy comes around, there's a high probability that she either breaks up with the new guy or cheats in the relationship with the other guy. Most of the times, the new guy was the girl's fallback plan or plan B (probably a guy that was disturbing her for a relationship before the incident)

So she will feign love for him, and the new guy will quickly become attached without knowing her intentions. She might even relate her former boyfriend's story for him in other to gain sympathy or compassion from the guy. This new guy (a typical simp in this case) will promise to treat her better and "prove" his worth. This will lead to the new guy investing a lot in the relationship, and when the other guy comes around, she will either keep the new guy around for his resources or cheats on him with the other guy.

Women know how to play this game better than men. Only few men can beat women at their own game. This is why it's in your best interest as a man to avoid damaged women at all cost.
Re: Never Use A New Relationship To Heal Your Broken Heart ! by Nobody: 1:06pm On Jul 28, 2021
Even lalasticlala and Rocktation know I'm rightgrin

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Re: Never Use A New Relationship To Heal Your Broken Heart ! by Nobody: 1:08pm On Jul 28, 2021
TheUndercover:
grin

In scenarios like this, the guy is simply just a tool to be discarded when the mission has been accomplished. Once the other guy comes around, there's a high probability that she either breaks up with the new guy or cheats with the other guy.
on pointgrin
Re: Never Use A New Relationship To Heal Your Broken Heart ! by Nobody: 8:45am On Jul 30, 2021
Typing...
Re: Never Use A New Relationship To Heal Your Broken Heart ! by Nobody: 3:42pm On Jul 31, 2021
BadRadio:
If u seriously loved this guy but he still chooses to dump u for another, fine !!!

Do yourself a favour...HEAL FIRST !!!

There are ways you can actually heal from a highly emotionally committed relationship that ended... look it up on google.

Do not take this seriously... it's not true that the quickest way to heal from a broken heart is to start another relationship... starting another relationship is transferring some emotional burden on this new guy... most of your expectations will be extracted from your previous relationship and brought foward into the new one... the innocent ignorant guy would appear as a physical representation of the other guy and when he is failing to replicate the other guys characteristics it becomes a problem and even if he does, he will just be used as a healing tool to you and after he accomplishes that mission. You dump him !!!grin


Some ladies will never get over their first love ... some guys are actually dating ladies that are emotional hurt from their previous relationships.... and these guys are just mere puppets that are being used by her to feel better before being dumped !!!
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