That man married you so that you can live to please him. He didn't marry you so that you can lord over him and fight for right to have an opinion.

If you wanted to be a "non-conformist" or a fierce feminist have who has opinion, you could have stayed in your father's house.

He married you so that you can live your life to please him

Please him like she's a sex slave, a maid or a puppet or what?

MufasaLion:
Please him like she's a sex slave, a maid or a puppet or what?

I am not understanding too.

faithfull18:

I am not understanding too.

Lol

He's sick.

What's wrong with being a partner?!

@Amopeekun

What's wrong with being a partner?!


@me
Do you mean partner in somethings or all things?

ToastingAllowan:
That man married you so that you can live to please him. He didn't marry you so that you can lord over him and fight for right to have an opinion.

If you wanted to be a "non-conformist" or a fierce feminist have who has opinion, you could have stayed in your father's house.

He married you so that you can live your life to please him

please try to be explicit. Nigerian Men not Men in general

Also, those Men with such kinda mentality goes for girls they can control and easily manipulate. Not all girls can take shit from any man. Not all girls beg to be tagged Mrs somebody. They don't joke with their peace. Anything out of that, they gladly take a walk.

Between a husband and a wife, there should be an unwritten, an unspoken agreement to support eachother!
It doesn't have to be spelt out. If the wife gets more pay and decides to pay the school fees, so be it! If the man is the better cook, fire on! There is an understanding that nature and our beliefs, as Africans, have separated some roles, yes, and if the couple decide that's the direction they want to head, no wahala. All I believe is no one is a slave and no one is a master. Mutual respect and understanding is all we need. Simple!

Vision101:
@Amopeekun

What's wrong with being a partner?!


@me
Do you mean partner in somethings or all things?

ToastingAllowan:
That man married you so that you can live to please him. He didn't marry you so that you can lord over him and fight for right to have an opinion.

If you wanted to be a "non-conformist" or a fierce feminist have who has opinion, you could have stayed in your father's house.

He married you so that you can live your life to please him

Eyah, so because this was what you observed in your home while growing up you think that is what marriage is all about.

Abeg look for a woman like your sister who was also raised to be a "conformist" because it is for your best interest, no go hook up a woman with a different perspective and try squeezing her into your mould, you may not be alive to recount your ordeal!

ToastingAllowan:
That man married you so that you can live to please him. He didn't marry you so that you can lord over him and fight for right to have an opinion.

If you wanted to be a "non-conformist" or a fierce feminist have who has opinion, you could have stayed in your father's house.

He married you so that you can live your life to please him

Message like this are for Western wome and not for Nigerian women.

Western women can make marriage look fake.

greenie77:


Eyah, so because this was what you observed in your home while growing up you think that is what marriage is all about.

Abeg look for a woman like your sister who was also raised to be a "conformist" because it is for your best interest, no go hook up a woman with a different perspective and try squeezing her into your mould, you may not be alive to recount your ordeal!

Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha