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Re: Sex In The Church by Paswill(m): 11:12am On Aug 01, 2021
We have a thousand societal problems but best believe, boyfriends and girlfriends having sex or not are not one of them. Let's stop seeing everything through the lens of religion. It's stale and counterproductive. There are countries and economies that don't see sexual intercourse as anything serious but are still decades if not centuries ahead of us in all ramifications.





Our holier-than-thou sanctimonious attitude we always put up just to save face is the problem if you ask me.

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Re: Sex In The Church by Shellsploit: 11:17am On Aug 01, 2021
Lordmustikash:
Look around you, the church, your environment and honestly tell me that sex is the problem. I don't get this chronic fixation on supposed 'immorality' when even in the church there are more pressing issues like jealousy, witchcraft, occultism and most churches these days care about money. Be honest, when last did you genuinely help anyone without wanting something in kickbacks? You know what, since salvation is personal, just live, let's all live.

God bless you.

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Re: Sex In The Church by Lordmustikash: 11:17am On Aug 01, 2021
Judeoxide:
People just go to the very part of sin that the have control over and label it the worse.
If only you know how mighty God is., you will know how funny this your topic sounds.
To me, looking at the Bible from genesis to revelation. Sex is hardly the problem. But self righteousness have blinded this generation to the point that we have become so hypocritical in nature..
It's a wave and will surely pass. Let's deal with our main problem first... Nobody can claim saint when it comes to sex please not even Angels for they came down and slept with the daughters of men
Biko leave me abeg
May God bless you for this.
The all out fixation on sex is so funny, I mean, look around guys, there are more pressing issues to be dealt with by the church, but yeah, it's sex. Personally, I think these people hampering on this sex issues have underlying sexual problems they're battling with and hence judging others too makes it easier to sleep at night

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Re: Sex In The Church by Shellsploit: 11:18am On Aug 01, 2021
This sex, that sex!
Arent you guys tired of this religion thingy?


When was the last time you gave 50naira note to the needy?

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Re: Sex In The Church by philo04(m): 11:29am On Aug 01, 2021
Alex08101558404:



Your are wise man..there is so many things we as human see as wrong not knowing if it's spiritualy in alignment with the set destiny. I dnt judge anyone weather sexual or anyhow sin cos there's more than meets the eye in this world.
people think when God says he looks at the heart they think it's just ur thought he listen to....it beyond the heart thinking even the thinker and the heart doesn't know it.cos your soul and spirit are different personalities working to fulfill a command not satisfied the body...but what people see is the body action

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Re: Sex In The Church by Danniedpastor(m): 11:42am On Aug 01, 2021
Adamgeneral12:
@op you are 100 percent correct.
It happen in one of my church back then,a guy that we all like because he has many talent, he can sing,do mc,beat drum and do support the church financially.
But most of them did not know that this guy was attending our because of a specific girl.
He will carry the girl to his house and have s*x and come back to church( they will come separately) and guy will go and stand in front of us in the church beating gangan while the girl will join the choir.
To cut story short,na one man come from outside in to our church to tell us that God is angry with the guy and if he did not stop na to receive koboko from heaven.
For the girl,when she don play with the guy finish, she no dey take bath when she go just enter church go join choir.
Na so if angel come enter church during service bad odour go come chase am out,but before the angle go live he will drop a little courses on her.


Read this your story again. E make sense for your mind?

I don't support funication (infact, I'm totally against it.) But ,say Angel enter church (to bless God's children o) e come run comot for church (with people blessing) because of one person... I won't buy it at least, NOT IN THE ERA OF GRACE.
Re: Sex In The Church by henrixx(m): 11:45am On Aug 01, 2021
Danniedpastor:



Read this your story again. E make sense for your mind?

I don't support funication (infact, I'm totally against it.) But ,say Angel enter church (to bless God's children o) e come run comot for church (with people blessing) because of one person... I won't buy it at least, NOT IN THE ERA OF GRACE.
omorrrr. Laff Wan kill me dieeee grin grin grin
Re: Sex In The Church by Bmaster(m): 11:49am On Aug 01, 2021
Op,
What of people who couldn't get married,may be some ladies...


So they won't have sex the whole of their life
Re: Sex In The Church by Danniedpastor(m): 11:49am On Aug 01, 2021
LONGPREEK:
I have bleeped a redeemed Pastors wife, a christembassy female pastor, and counting. Churches are just too overated in naija. Na choir mistresses I dey target now and na ontop pulpit i wan Bleep them.after practice

Be deceiving yourself, Mr bleeper.
You better repent
Re: Sex In The Church by ezugegere(m): 11:51am On Aug 01, 2021
I think the love of and worship of money has done more harm to the Church of Christ than any other thing.
Re: Sex In The Church by fuck419: 11:55am On Aug 01, 2021
It's a true message and I am guilty. Oh Lord give me the Grace to sin no more in Jesus name. Amen

I think the solution is to get married. The Church can help & support by ensuring that every adult @ 25 must get married. When a man is struggling to meet ends, how is it rational to take a wife? If one is still trying to meet ends and the body is fully grown, it takes exceptional Grace to tame the burning sexual hunger in both genders.

I think we need to redefine the narrative.
Most people are actually married but don't know. The moment you consent to have sexual intercourse with someone, you're both married automatically.
This send I.V, rent event centre, do traditional and church wedding is mere ceremony.

The problem is living a polygamous marital life, either out of lust or ignorance of the fact that you're actually married.

Let's stick to one partner and realize that you're married to anyone you've ever slept with. So instead of indulging in more immoral sexual activity, anytime you feel the urge, go and get it satisfied with your partner. It's not a big deal.
Man must fu*k. It's because we shy away from sex as man's basic need, that's why there's high sexual violence and immorality going on everywhere in the world today.

I have discovered that people who attend to their sexual needs are happier and sound minded. Pretenders are the ones committing all the sexually related crimes because they have been starving for long.

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Re: Sex In The Church by elonmuskbaby: 12:03pm On Aug 01, 2021
Righteousness2:
Sex: One of the Greatest tools the devil is using to destroy this Generation and pack souls to Hell.
The other two are,
What to Eat and
What to Drink.



GOD Give us Grace to run this Race to the End.
ok pastor I wan ask you question so if sex is only allowed in marriage and konji dey catch bachelor meanwhile he never still find wife marry,how e wan curb the heat of konji?
Re: Sex In The Church by xproducer: 12:05pm On Aug 01, 2021
"Now concerning the things of which you wrote to me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband." - 1 Corinthians 7:1-2

"But fornication and all uncleanness or covetousness, let it not even be named among you, as is fitting for saints" - Ephesians 5:3

"Therefore, brethren, we are debtors—not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh. For if you live according to the flesh you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live." - Romans 8:12-13

It is vital to read the Holy Bible and pray continuously! (1 Thessalonians 5:17)


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"Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” - Matthew 26:41 (Mark 14:38)
Re: Sex In The Church by almarthins(m): 12:07pm On Aug 01, 2021
Righteousness2:

The other two are,
What to Eat and
What to Drink.



GOD Give us Grace to run this Race to the End.[/i]

Summarize as money
Re: Sex In The Church by kingdave(m): 12:07pm On Aug 01, 2021
Intelligently analyzed.
post=104305678:
For the record, we believe that the context God designed for sex is between a man and woman, married to each other for life.

We also realize that fewer and fewer people share that conviction with each passing year. Increasingly, the view we hold is the view of a small minority. 

But the fact that some church leaders hold a minority view means the way we talk about it becomes more important every year.

Consequently, we are convinced that how we talk about sex needs to change.

Given the tone of some of the current dialogue, the damage done by the way we talk about sex may actually rival the damage done by sex outside of marriage itself (or inside marriage…married sex isn’t always harmless sex).


DON’T JUST TALK ABOUT SEXUAL SIN, TALK ABOUT CHURCH SIN TOO.

Everyone has sins they focus on and sins they ignore.
The tendency, of course, is to focus on the sins of others and ignore your own.
The church is no different.
So here’s our proposal:

Deal with the church sin everyone in the church seems to tolerate.

Let us explain.

When you explore a passage like Galatians 5: 16-26, you notice that included in the same list that speaks of sexual sins is a long list of what we call church sins.

Church sins are sins Christians engage in all the time that frankly, no one talks about or addresses.

Right alongside sexual immorality, impurity and ‘wild parties’, Paul lists:

hostility

quarreling

jealousy

outbursts of anger

selfish ambition

dissension

division

envy

jealousy

arrogance

If you add gossip and gluttony to the list, you’ve pretty much got a complete list of church sins we too often tolerate.

This list of sins actually describes the life of too many churches and too many people who would declare themselves to be ‘mature’ Christians. (I wrote about why we need a new definition of Christian maturity here, and shared some thoughts on what’s wrong with Christian discipleship here.)

Let us stop here for today.
Have a lovely sunday Everyone.
We Rise

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Re: Sex In The Church by tenpipsperday: 12:09pm On Aug 01, 2021
Righteousness2:
Sex: One of the Greatest tools the devil is using to destroy this Generation and pack souls to Hell.
The other two are,
What to Eat and
What to Drink.



GOD Give us Grace to run this Race to the End.


The greatest sin today is not sex. You lot beat about the bush. The greatest sin today is lies and hatred and that is what has kept us where we are. This sex of a thing is super overrated.


Many are harlots today because the politicians have cornered the common wealth and impoverish them. You guys should face reality.

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Re: Sex In The Church by Donpraiz: 12:10pm On Aug 01, 2021
I just dey passby

Re: Sex In The Church by titusmichael27(m): 12:22pm On Aug 01, 2021
Societal problem is always going to be there whether you like it or not. It was there before you and you will experience it and probably die and leave it but the choices you make out of this turbulent society is what counts in the matter of salvation. Have you ever seen a nation without a societal problem? These things was foretold before you came in here, so don't connect what the op said with societal problems. Sexual immorality is a person stuff but societal problem is not. That's why salvation is personal. You as an individual is what the op is targeting. Sodom and Gomorrah was destroyed because ......

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Re: Sex In The Church by Mystery9(m): 12:25pm On Aug 01, 2021
LONGPREEK:
I have bleeped a redeemed Pastors wife, a christembassy female pastor, and counting. Churches are just too overated in naija. Na choir mistresses I dey target now and na ontop pulpit i wan Bleep them.after practice
No wahala, the keep on taking the grace of God for granted.
Re: Sex In The Church by JordanMichael(m): 12:36pm On Aug 01, 2021
I think OP is obsessed with sex
Lordmustikash:
Look around you, the church, your environment and honestly tell me that sex is the problem. I don't get this chronic fixation on supposed 'immorality' when even in the church there are more pressing issues like jealousy, witchcraft, occultism and most churches these days care about money. Be honest, when last did you genuinely help anyone without wanting something in kickbacks? You know what, since salvation is personal, just live, let's all live.
Re: Sex In The Church by evil1: 12:37pm On Aug 01, 2021
Thank You
people just quoute rubbish just to dissuade others and make some persons feel like they can't make heaven.
They are so judgmental especially when it comes to topic like this.

As for me I will encourage sex before marriage at any time even if it was my child.
Sex is one thing that can keep or break a marriage not even love or tolerance.
if two partners are not sexually compatible, my dear forget it that other partner will look for a solution hence cheating and adultery which is not even allowed in our christian doctrine.


omoolokunEsin:
Please, leave sex out of the Category of sin. There are worse sins in the Bible. If sex were such a big sin as people often emphasise, God wouldn't have permitted it! Or was it Sex that caused Adam and his wife Eve expulsion from God's presence?

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Re: Sex In The Church by Nobody: 12:39pm On Aug 01, 2021
evil1:
Thank You
people just quoute rubbish just to dissuade others and make some persons feel like they can't make heaven.
They are so judgmental especially when it comes to topic like this.

As for me I will encourage sex before marriage at any time even if it was my child.
Sex is one thing that can keep or break a marriage not even love or tolerance.
if two partners are not sexually compatible, my dear forget it that other partner will look for a solution hence cheating and adultery which is not even allowed in our christian doctrine.


Re: Sex In The Church by Hotspotbro(m): 12:40pm On Aug 01, 2021
"God is watching all those that are having sex with people they haven't married."

Does he also have boners?
Re: Sex In The Church by tiswell(m): 12:41pm On Aug 01, 2021
Adamgeneral12:
@op you are 100 percent correct.
It happen in one of my church back then,a guy that we all like because he has many talent, he can sing,do mc,beat drum and do support the church financially.
But most of them did not know that this guy was attending our because of a specific girl.
He will carry the girl to his house and have s*x and come back to church( they will come separately) and guy will go and stand in front of us in the church beating gangan while the girl will join the choir.
To cut story short,na one man come from outside in to our church to tell us that God is angry with the guy and if he did not stop na to receive koboko from heaven.
For the girl,when she don play with the guy finish, she no dey take bath when she go just enter church go join choir.
Na so if angel come enter church during service bad odour go come chase am out,but before the angle go live he will drop a little courses on her.
we knw say na you be d guy but continue

Re: Sex In The Church by Hotspotbro(m): 12:41pm On Aug 01, 2021
"God is watching all those that are having sex with people they haven't married."

god i fit dey watch am with u o.

Re: Sex In The Church by tiswell(m): 12:43pm On Aug 01, 2021
philo04:
When God told prophet Hosea to go marry a prostitute (olosho) wetin u think say church member go think ? Popular olosho for that matter

Abi when Judah was sleeping with his son's wife and also passing her round among his children till he impregnated her check the Bible....
Finally conclusion don't judge people base on what you think you know ...my brother in Christ there are so many things going on you can't think of let alone know.leave judgment to God.he knows better
same Judah is Jesus' lineage
Re: Sex In The Church by EAkoteyon: 12:44pm On Aug 01, 2021
omoolokunEsin:
Please, leave sex out of the Category of sin. There are worse sins in the Bible. If sex were such a big sin as people often emphasise, God wouldn't have permitted it! Or was it Sex that caused Adam and his wife Eve expulsion from God's presence?
Chai! May God have mercy on you.
Re: Sex In The Church by tiswell(m): 12:44pm On Aug 01, 2021
philo04:
When God told prophet Hosea to go marry a prostitute (olosho) wetin u think say church member go think ? Popular olosho for that matter

Abi when Judah was sleeping with his son's wife and also passing her round among his children till he impregnated her check the Bible....
Finally conclusion don't judge people base on what you think you know ...my brother in Christ there are so many things going on you can't think of let alone know.leave judgment to God.he knows better
same Judah is Jesus' dna lineage
Re: Sex In The Church by Emissary1(m): 12:46pm On Aug 01, 2021
Men's opinion is useless when it contradicts and disagree with God's Word.

Nothing can be done against the trust.

Sin is sin, no matter how anyone paints it.

You can truly live a holy and pure life. If only you submit yourself to God and seek His interest through the word by the Spirit.
Re: Sex In The Church by erinazi(m): 12:51pm On Aug 01, 2021
Lordmustikash:
Look around you, the church, your environment and honestly tell me that sex is the problem. I don't get this chronic fixation on supposed 'immorality' when even in the church there are more pressing issues like jealousy, witchcraft, occultism and most churches these days care about money. Be honest, when last did you genuinely help anyone without wanting something in kickbacks? You know what, since salvation is personal, just live, let's all live.
True talk but don't judge him
Re: Sex In The Church by Nobody: 12:58pm On Aug 01, 2021
EAkoteyon:

Chai! May God have mercy on you.

You needn't say it; He's my Merciful God - this I KNOW!

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