AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.



Ehhh let her continue being afraid na when the time comes she might not see you again cos another girl will take her place.

We do some of their bills and the only thing they can or might offer she's depriving you of it, well I may say she might be contributing in one way or the other aside sex.

Since she can't give in to a man easily my friend if you truly love her then go ahead and marry her. She will make a good wife not like the loose one's in our society today so brother fornication is grave sin and she has saved you from the wrath of fornication, marry her she deserves it.

Go and look for sex mate,
Or you do
the needful
And Bleep her
All your life

Rozcol:
Marry her and have all the sex you want with her,that's the right thing to do.

You must be an Arsenal fan cos we can be mumuishly patient

Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?

If you want to have her, just stop asking her for sex for the next 3months to 6months. Any time you don't have enough cash or you are sex starve, don't invite her but when you have enough and you are not sex starve, invite her, play together, eat together but don't spend much time, as in don't spend more than 1hour and then hurriedly discharge her. In addition to that, make sure you cancelled at least one of your meetings in a month then come and give us feedback in 3months time.

myynd44 on my mind

4 years no sex and u here askin us wat to do
Ok just hang in there

Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?

She is most probably in another committed or long distance relationship.

Rozcol:
Marry her and have all the sex you want with her,that's the right thing to do.

Who be dis one,marrying that girl will be your demise

U know whether she get HIV?

ogkrakkid:

Abegi make we hear word. Celibate celibate na so LIB drop one gbam u still they dia. Dey ur dey abeg no Yan shit here abeg. Dem no Wan sex but dem dey bring bills directly nd indirectly like family last born.infact make I no change am for u o.

What of the ones that don’t bring bills?

This is the type of relationship im looking for,
no sex, yes, until marriage.
No sex, no spending a dime.
We take care of our needs by ourselves,
no dime flows from me until, we can have sex, or get married.
Im okay with it.
Shes smarter than you bro, if she says no sex, then you too hold your cash back, simple,

1. "There is this girl[b] I dated till last year[/b][i][/i] before I got tired of everything".

2. "Am tired of the relationship sef"

3. "and I don’t want to force somebody oo"

4. "What should I do?"


Janus faced liar!

Can't even get his story right!!!

Stankovic22:
I dated my girl for 3½yrs before on her own she trusted me with her body.

In that 3½yrs I was celibate, faithful and focused...

I was busy working and planning for a future for us. She saw that and freed herself after believing she can trust me.

If your girl is a good girl, stay put and focused.

Sex isn't a big, I wonder why we magnify it... First day I made love with my fiancee, the roof didn't fall, I didn't see it as a big deal.

Don't join the bandwagon that girls are everywhere, yes they are everywhere but not all of them are worthy to be laid down.

I have two friends who are well to do but were chronic cheats, not keeping one woman but jumping from one pussy to another. Now they are looking for wife but have no woman they can call their own or have built something over the years with. When we are outside, they form champion but within they are troubled because marriage is calling but with their money it is hard for them to trust just any lady with their home.

When you come to a stage of maturity, you will seek to keep a good woman and grow with her rather than jumping from one nyash to another because of sex.


Is she worth it? If she is, wait for her to offer it herself...

I don’t understand, is it that premarital sex is no longer a sin? It’s like I’m not moving with times.

In as much i don't support fornication, but i must telling you the truth, u didn't define your goal in the first place.

There is something u are not telling us, there's was something else that was keeping u all this while.

If truly you guys didn't had sex all along then. You both are guilty, bc obviously you been doing it with someone else likewise her.

If she is not giving u, she is giving someone else

Another mugu sighted.4 good years.o boy you were just her ATM you pay why another guy the Bleep hell out of the wide pussy to red.she no be virgin self.you are a disgrace.New format use by girls if you no wise.she doesnt contribute anytin tangible to the relationship.if you check over millons don go you spend on her.Even the sex she think gat to offer she no still give you.O BOY count ur losses move on before you commit suicide.Stop dating Liability parade themselves as girlfriend.Who quote me hug transformer.

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I need a SINGLE lady for serious relationship. Not divorcee. Not married before.
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Deveryib:
She is seeing some one else, or is she a virgin?

I doubt if she's still a virgin. She has expressed her fears from the past...

Romanoff:
If you ask 90% of those encouraging Op to dump her, they will call themselves Christians.

Yet 90% of d females dat commented did nt condemn the female 4 eating up d guy's money.

She's a very good and responsible girl you would have sleep with her and still left her. Thank God the girl get sense if you were responsible before naw if it's not just sex you're after both of you should be married she won you just want to use her and dump her naw you can go after your type and leave her to get a responsible guy! You're so immature you're leaving a good wife material because of 5mins of stupidity anyway bye bye �

[quote author=Adeesther56 post=104422516]
U are a wicked person,so u want to have sex with her then it would results in unwanted pregnancy then u abandoned her,why can't u think are u a dog that can't live without sex,,think.. because fornication is a sin,u sef know it,and u call yourself a Christian,you are a disgrace to christians aswear, it gona clock 4 years this year that hav been a celibate..just pity your life aswear....[/quote

may you never find what you seek

Shalommy:
Chaaii..Marry her and enjoy her kpekus for life. Men and sex.

Damn! ... Is dat u? .. Mke i marry u. So u can be giving me dat position every of ur life.

Silentgroper:
Yet 90% of d females dat commented did nt condemn the female 4 eating up d guy's money.

How much money and did she put a gun to his head to give her money?

If you want to give a woman you're in a relationship with money, do it cause you want to, not cause you have expectations.

I advocate against premarital sex. State in the begining of the relationship, if the guy is not Christian to agree to it, waka, till you find a Christian to date. Even in such Christian relationships, you can give gifts to each other.

If the money he was giving her was in hope she'd render the services of a sex worker to him, he should have stated it.

Rozcol:
Marry her and have all the sex you want with her,that's the right thing to do.

I just tire for boys of these days.

Why date her for 4 years and the only concern is "no sex"?

Adeesther56:
U are a wicked person,so u want to have sex with her then it would results in unwanted pregnancy then u abandoned her,why can't u think are u a dog that can't live without sex,,think.. because fornication is a sin,u sef know it,and u call yourself a Christian,you are a disgrace to christians aswear, it gona clock 4 years this year that hav been a celibate..just pity your life aswear....

Take your preaching to Convention.

Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?

LMAO
She's keeping you for the future while she's busy exploring. Wise up and don't be Ozoed

adanny01:


She is most probably in another committed or long distance relationship.

Trust women at your peril

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Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?

Romanoff:


How much money and did she put a gun to his head to give her money?

If you want to give a woman you're in a relationship with money, do it cause you want to, not cause you have expectations.

I advocate against premarital sex. State in the begining of the relationship, if the guy is not Christian to agree to it, waka, till you find a Christian to date. Even in such Christian relationships, you can give gifts to each other.

If the money he was giving her was in hope she'd render the services of a sex worker to him, he should have stated it.

Dust.. Small time nw. If a threads pops up abt a guy nt giving a girl money nw, all of una go dey shout stingy man nd be disturbing our peace. Nw it's a matter of a gun wasnt placed in his head.
Besides, if she's nt a primary virgin. She has no friggin right to nt let dat nigga in there. She's just a bloody hypocrite.

Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?

Boda wey mumu