ademidedavid:


Thanks so much for this, will look into it

BROWNEMMANUEL26:

Exactly my thought. Op is one of the weak men out their.
1. For his wife to open her mouth and said that word means op forced himself on the woman or op enticed her with money before marrying her.
2. Op over pampered her during their courtship
3. Op tolerated some rubbish from onset
I do t just understand the kind of men we have this day, so so weakling and simps all over

Xilsbridalhouse:

You are thanking those young guys who are probably jambites for giving you wrong advice ? Okay o!


Kontinue!

Xilsbridalhouse:
Thank God the real men commented more on your post than the so called wannabes Redpillers or Alpha males who might end up planting bad ideas in your head.

I don’t support her saying such to you, but humans are known to say hurtful words they don’t mean to their loved ones when angry, and if you really want to keep your home...you better learn to let it slide, forgive and move on. Later you can discuss this with your wife and how it got you broken.

Xilsbridalhouse:

Sir, why would a female friend visit you ?

SarakiBukola:
Pele. Sad to read.

But you're not in control...at all.

Kondomatic:
My confusion here is not what she said but why she said it.

So being married means that I will have to give account of every penny spent from my own wallet?

Xilsbridalhouse:

And you are not married ? You are dishing out home breaking advice to a man 10years ahead of you in marriage ?

Kandeed:


I’ve got a limited IQ....the fact that I'm not married doesn't mean I've not got to experience different marital cases of friend and families. let's call spade a spade OP should man up

rafikii:
The amount of disgust I felt while going through this thread is uncalled for, at the rate OP's marriage is going I expect another post from him on this section soon enough complaining about how his wife runs his home and makes every minute decision and tells him when to eat and shit...if every marriage go be like your own then I'd advice every single man out there to die in the arms of olo.shos and baby mamas.

Think about your life OP.

rafikii:
The amount of disgust I felt while going through this thread is uncalled for, at the rate OP's marriage is going I expect another post from him on this section soon enough complaining about how his wife runs his home and makes every minute decision and tells him when to eat and shit...if every marriage go be like your own then I'd advice every single man out there to die in the arms of olo.shos and baby mamas.

Think about your life OP.

Kondomatic:
My confusion here is not what she said but why she said it.

So being married means that I will have to give account of every penny spent from my own wallet?

ImaIma1:
Never ever gone out without your family? Even when hanging out with friends? Men need their time with their friends sometimes. I even refuse some outings because I want "me" time.

She monitors your finances so much that she notices 1k is missing...haaaa . Me I don't even want that kind of monitoring o. It is well.

You know your wife. Use her mumu button for her nau.

rafikii:
The amount of disgust I felt while going through this thread is uncalled for, at the rate OP's marriage is going I expect another post from him on this section soon enough complaining about how his wife runs his home and makes every minute decision and tells him when to eat and shit...if every marriage go be like your own then I'd advice every single man out there to die in the arms of olo.shos and baby mamas.

Think about your life OP.

COOL10:


Form the comments, you could tell that 90% of marriages are like this. Some, even worse.

Daytrader1:
Tell her you want a divorce, since she's regretting, even tho you don't mean it, tell her when she's calm, her reaction would tell you the truth, energy don't lie

pocohantas:


Ask her, she would be in a better position to answer you. Some of us here would say NO, some would say YES. After that we leave you to your troubles and face our lives. Which may be better or worse than yours. . Amen ooo





You really love your wife o, you come dey hype am even inside quarrel. E good make man LOVE im wife, that way the burden of keeping the marriage would be on him too. See as you are running around over your wife matter.

May redpillers never see this home and may madam learn to appreciate what she has.

Amin

crackhaus:
If after 10years of marriage and 3 kids, my wife tells me she hates me and regrets marrying me, I will just start laughing...

reddingtonblack:




Like you get bro, its funny .... topics i read from males on NL romance section sometimes make me doubt if saying there are few real men is not an overstatement.
on another thread one is even asking if he is responsible for a 3month old pregnancy when the r/ship is barely 2months .... is it that people can no longer think n sort themselves or is intuition going extinct

ademidedavid:



Ohhhhh, why please?

She looks more beautiful, well packaged than all these younger ladies and you will never believe she has 3kids.....


you will never ever.......

ademidedavid:



Marital situation is so funny, yes so funny........the yorubas will say enikan lomo.

We become so inexperienced when we find ourselves inbetween the devil and the deep blue sea

all the same....i appreciate bro

Kandeed:
This is hitting you hard because you've been too weak....take it or leave it being to weak on women is a suicide mission.

Read some folks up there saying go to her, pet her bla bla. unfortunately for you OP that's not the language a woman understands. if she said all that, the next thing you should do is not go to her or ask why (you'd only ensure something worse than that is said to again) let her come herself begging .

Tbh I still don't understand how men find it hard to put women in their place and act manly like true House Heads.

Dailyparrot:


You're an irredeemable SIMP

ademidedavid:


Get into it before condemning

Ofadaman:
Rule number one ,never let her know how much you earn, never let her know how much you have saved up, never let her know how much you're expecting to come in.

But have a lawyer and manage your will, take care of home and give her for the family upkeep