i had a call from a girl i gave an asssistance in my office a month ago. my g/f then started war with me that am cheating on her. i then ask for a brekup since she doesnt trust me but like cuzing trouble for me even in public.
whenever i walk with her she complains i stare at girls too much, she even select the street we go or not, market to go or not, she fight me too much.
fellow nairalanders what do i do to this girl!

My dear, there is no true love that is devoid of jealousy. If you do sincerely love her and the only problem is that she is jealous, please talk you her and she may understand

that babe will poison you one day just becous of jealousy. RUN WHILE YOU STILL HAVE THE CHANCE

It sounds as though, from your vantage, that your girlfriend is insecure in your relationship. Perhaps she needs more reassurance from you that she need not fear for the strength of what you and she have together.

OR, perhaps she is being controlling in hoping that you will tire of her machinations and end the relationship when it is really she who wants out.

na woman u take dey play i pety u, u better let her be so that u can look for another babe.


kevo1

Your girlfriend is crazy,insecured and nagging. She is one control freak, abeg dump her jare, her jealousy is too much. Why are you wasting your energy and time on one crazy bitch{sorry for my profanity} that doesn't respect you or apperciate your kindness. Like some said early " RUN FOR YOUR LIFE BECOS IT ISN'T LATE YET". Btw is this the kind of woman u want to marry, I can't imagine how hot your house would have been.

She's turning u into a sissy, so wake up and smell the coffee while is still fresh, this girl isn't right for you oh. There are so many fishes in the ocean that u can pick from but has far u re not UGLY and got dough.

kaesey:

she even select the street we go or not, market to go or not, she fight me too much.

You're in real bondage.

How would you allow a girl to detect where you should go and where you shouldn't go?
I don't think this is love. You're being controlled by the lust you have for her. And the sooner you realise this, the better for you.

I call dis 'witch love' total bondage,Guy run b4 she chain u 4live.

THAT GIRL IS A BURDEN IN UR LIFE ,MR

BETTER TALK TO HER WOO ,THATS IF U STILL LOVE HER

WHY DOES SHE HV TO BE SO JEALOUS LIKE THAT

MAYBE U CAN HELP URSELF W THE OTHER GAL,LUCK BOY

E GAL U GV ASSISTANCE IN UR OFFICE ? IS UR REEDEEMER,

SO MY FRIEND BETTER RUSH 4 HER B4 SHE IS TAKEN

CHILL OUT

Abeg stop shouting jare we can hear you, so plz stop writing in caps

OMO EKO

i write in caps coz that what i feel like at that moment,it doesn't show my mood at all

so please if it affects u in any way

i am very sorry

okay

na it's cool jare no problem

@poster,

Which kind LOVE be this?
oh my God i cant imagine that, selecting the street and the market u go to
brosieee better wake up when u can still wake up b4 itis too late for u to wake up.
@ omoeko,
Thanks o jare 4 ur contributions, its as if u have doctorate degree on this thread,
i wouldnt mind knowing u more but no string attach.

kanmosyl:


@ omoeko,
Thanks o jare 4 your contributions, i[b]ts as if u have doctorate degree on this thread,[/b]
i wouldnt mind knowing u more but no string attach.

Haba you made it seem like i was jobless , i was just giving advice ni o.

@omoeko,
Na so jare
na just advice but what i meant was ur advice was da bomb keep it up
but what happened to the part of knowing u or u dont want me to know u?
plz let me know u.

@kanmosyl
Oh iight thanks , well sorry to disappoint but all my friendship stays on NL and no outside world communication with any Nlander