I am graduating this year and I just fall for 200 level girl, she is doing five years course. She always talk about how she will love to visit me in Abuja and during my NYSC next year. This girl is really my kind of girl, although she doesn't have it all but I am very comfortable with her. I didn't ask her out for a relationship, we just grow bond and become really close and the night before she traveled we kissed. We didn't have sex because I wanted to be sure of the relationship.

My dilemma now is that can this relationship work? As a soon to be graduate, can I date an undergraduate that will lead to serious something? How can this relationship work if I want to do it? I have my fears because I know what undergraduate students especially girls can do. In your opinion should I hold on to this relationship? Can I gamble this love? Your sincere opinion is appreciated.

Yes you can just experience life simple

Goldbw122:
Yes you can just experience life simple

How? Please explain more.

Demigod22:


How? Please explain more.

Relationship is like a story which you can't predict how it will end it is just like you enjoying every moment and making each second's count. Well your distance relationship will be tested by many factors of life, so just sit back and enjoy ..

Goldbw122:

Relationship is like a story which you can't predict how it will end it is just like you enjoying every moment and making each second's count. Well your distance relationship will be tested by many factors of life, so just sit back and enjoy ..

Thanks so much for this advice.

If you can TRUST and treat her right then you can make the best out of the relationship..

Don't put pressure on yourself biko. Allow the love to flow. If it works, it works. If it doesn't, it doesn't.
P.s: communication is key. You guys should talk about everything. That way you'd be able to know if it's something you guys can carry forward or just be casual friends.
Anyways, all the best.

Can you wait for her to finish her tertiary education without you digging lady's borehole? If yes, then you are good to go

Na tears go end am.

Ekun Lo na gbeyin e.

Skullano:
If you can TRUST and treat her right then you can make the best out of the relationship..

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Thanks man

Spicylate:
Don't put pressure on yourself biko. Allow the love to flow. If it works, it works. If it doesn't, it doesn't.
P.s: communication is key. You guys should talk about everything. That way you'd be able to know if it's something you guys can carry forward or just be casual friends.
Anyways, all the best.

I love this insight

frankkydee:
Can you wait for her to finish her tertiary education without you digging lady's borehole? If yes, then you are good to go

LoL, I can wait for her to finish her school, but is not like undergraduate girl is going to be faithful though.

danietohbadt:
Na tears go end am.

Ekun Lo na gbeyin e.

That's my only concern.