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Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by RealityKings: 4:24pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:I like your perspective, you are intelligent |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Kobojunkie: 4:30pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Can't quite remember as this was from over 12 years ago when I used to be what some might have considered a professional "troll" in the Nairaland Politics section. |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by mariahAngel(f): 4:38pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: That long? Ok. I relate (with the signature) because minorities are usually very aggressive with victim mentality. There’s no point trying to reason with them for the sake of your peace and sanity. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Kobojunkie: 4:42pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Yep, I used to be a regular feature until I left in 2012. I came back last year during the Covid-19 forced break and have stayed on since. |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by mariahAngel(f): 4:50pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Ok. How is nairaland now compared to then? I hear it’s not what it used to be... How was it then? Nairaland was kind of a mental haven for a lot of people during the lockdown. |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Kobojunkie: 4:57pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Before the tribalist/racists arrived you mean, Nairaland Politics was a place to spend time sharpening ones mental on happenings around the world, particularly in Nigeria. People from different works of life and with different views sparred daily on topics and issues without grudge. It was an interesting place to be back then. During the lockdown it was a needed escape since there was no where to go and nothing else on TV except news of Covid-19 killing the world. |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by OssyMalik: 5:40pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
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Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by ekineme: 9:59pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Op Get a diary and document your activities; First step, try going to the Coca-Cola company where he worked,it will be easier for you now that you are a student, meet the manager, explain yourself and record the feedback. If you can get information like his community and Local government of origin, then you can bring it up here, you don't need to travel to his village, people around that vicinity will do it for you, You are on a right track, he is your dad no matter what had happened, you deserve to know him and have a talk even if you won't be part of his life. Wishing you a fruitful search 1 Like |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by cococandy(f): 10:18pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Harrykn: I think your advice should be directed to deadbeat fathers 1 Like |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by smallsmall: 12:13am On Sep 09, 2021 |
Doradorwa: She is Vain, Arrogant and Selfish (Apologies l have to state such facts, about your loving Mum). In trying to sustain her bloated ego, she is psychologically traumatising you and depriving you of the love of a father. That is the most selfish thing a Mother can do, to put SELF INTEREST over CHILD. Of what benefit is it, to gain the whole World and lose one's Soul? Start asking all the Nwafors you come across on FBook. Make some friends at the Top Mgt level of Coca Cola in Benin and then tell them your Story, his Files might still be available there. You will find him one day, if God tarries and you will experience a sense of fulfilment, just dont give up. BTW: There is nothing wrong in having a relationship withhim, he is your father, your blood and your DNA, you are 50% him! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by smallsmall: 12:25am On Sep 09, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: You. you just go about sounding like you are some Encyclopedia that knows everything but you are full of BS. because you lack real life experience. I can tell you for a fact that what that person said is correct, too many examples to reference. Girl Child will always look for their dad and will love him no matter what anybody tells them about him, except if he is not interested in seeing her. Ditto for Boy Child and their Mums too. It is a natural affinity of "Unlike Poles Attract". What happens after them meet, is a different thing entirely and does not invalifate that truism 1 Like |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Exceed15: 10:24pm On Dec 12, 2022 |
What makes you think he would wanna reunite with you? When people just concluded he never made effort to look for the child I marvel . Some women can take the child far away from you and Deny you access? Wetin u wan d man do? Kill himself... Abegiii |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Exceed15: 10:26pm On Dec 12, 2022 |
hmm... You are right but I'm not trying to be part of his life too, the both of us have gotten people we can call family over the years but I just believe I have the right to know him. I love your thought but who told u he doesn't want u to be part of his life. Meet him first, u go hear unbelievable stuffs ur mom did to him. |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Exceed15: 10:31pm On Dec 12, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Are you fatherless? |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Exceed15: 10:33pm On Dec 12, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: You are wrong too |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Kobojunkie: 10:36pm On Dec 12, 2022 |
Exceed15:What's wrong with being fatherless? Are the orphans out there less humans than those who have fathers boku or what? |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Kobojunkie: 10:38pm On Dec 12, 2022 |
Exceed15:Wrong about what exactly? |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Exceed15: 10:40pm On Dec 12, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:u Now I get you because your comment lacks wisdom. |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Kobojunkie: 10:49pm On Dec 12, 2022 |
Exceed15:Look who's talking! |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Jollos(m): 7:37pm On Jun 28 |
OnlyDeCapPlease: Best advice here |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by Jollos(m): 7:46pm On Jun 28 |
I understand your mum very well. The fear of loosing you to someone whom maybe abandoned her when she needed him most will be trauma for her seriously. I won't say u should not look for your Dad. But some puzzle are better left unsolved. Don't do something you will later regret. You may also become threat to the family he has built along the line. |
Re: Do You Know This Man? He's My Father. by celeiyke1(m): 9:43pm On Jun 29 |
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