chatinent:


But you were on the other topic telling me how stupid I were for not having sex with a girl!

Is this phariseespocrisy?

Emmanuel224:
Well I am in ur shoes or I'd say I used to be,because I DNT even want to think I'm there anymore , I have just 3 pple I can call frnds and I make the most use of them.

When thoughts come and my head starts to ache, I go out and have a good laugh

Even though I hardly go out, bt I forced myself to do it and it helped a lot

Drop ur number if ur on WhatsApp, let me help u to the best I can

Lilsameey:
Somepeople are just so dumb.....Telling Op he is young,..bla bla bla,..You think judging what someone has passed through in life is by age or what is going through,...A nineteen year old somewhere has achieved more than you are.
I face the same thing Op is facing, but I am trying my best to live through it,..All the friends I ever had in my life are way more older than me,..And most of them became uncomfortable, thinking of me at their age taking on life challenges of their ages. They made me feel somehow, it was so worst, I had to start living like a bat, Very silent and anywhere I am, I just read everyone one after the other. The funniest thing I have been doing lately is predicting people's action, I started thinking ahead, Arranging atleast four different plans for any task. Op, think less of what you think others think of you, Don't let that bother, Don't try to imagine people's emotion towards you.

brosom:
Take the message and leave the messenger.

FaruqMadridCr7:
I've tried so many like this, it works though but for some period.and again it stop working,but I will still try this.Thanks

okoroemeka:
you are still a teenager and you are on that stage of life when your mind and body are undergoing serious transformation to be a man,along the path of manhood your will receive several jolts and knocks of reality on real life issues and problems that I doubt if you will remember to be depressed or anxious again

lonipeter:



I think you should try Jesus

webhead:
Bro.
Your problem is 99% similar to mine–even though mine has reduced.

I'm not 100% sure of what is bringing fear/shyness into your life, but I can talk from my own experience with this.

Almost throughout my chronic shy days (ages 15-19), I blamed it on myself.

I had trouble mixing with friends, feeling confident, and eliminating FEAR–like you.

As time progressed though, I came to realize the two main problems–and I'm 90% sure that it's the cause of your problem too.

Let me cut straight to the point : You likely have a disorder–like ATTENTION DEFICIT AND HYPERACTIVE DISORDER (ADHD)/(ADD), and YOU'RE LIKELY SOMEONE WHO IS ADDICTED TO Something HIGHLY STIMULATING–like porn, drugs, video games.

I want to tell you more but my phone is dying!

Maybe later.

Hi bro
It's been a long time though.i would like your full opinion on this

Creativeace:
it's called nervousness, your heart beats at a rate that suprises Even you, you just can't explain it but it feels as if you perceive this overwhelming discomfort coming your way,that gets you really confused. Shyness usually comes with many disorders man. Just don't let it get to your soul, it could cause a psychiatric condition, continously talking to yourself, becoming terrified of public places, creating a fantasy world in your mind etc. Just stick to developing yourself, have quiet times with God, you'll feel peace, the kind of peace that makes any awkward situation mean nothing to you.

webhead:
Bro.
Your problem is 99% similar to mine–even though mine has reduced.

I'm not 100% sure of what is bringing fear/shyness into your life, but I can talk from my own experience with this.

Almost throughout my chronic shy days (ages 15-19), I blamed it on myself.

I had trouble mixing with friends, feeling confident, and eliminating FEAR–like you.

As time progressed though, I came to realize the two main problems–and I'm 90% sure that it's the cause of your problem too.

Let me cut straight to the point : You likely have a disorder–like ATTENTION DEFICIT AND HYPERACTIVE DISORDER (ADHD)/(ADD), and YOU'RE LIKELY SOMEONE WHO IS ADDICTED TO Something HIGHLY STIMULATING–like porn, drugs, video games.

I want to tell you more but my phone is dying!

Maybe later.

Hausa:
Bro., how're you doing?
I've been battling this but I was researching cos I needed someone close to home to ask questions - as compared to foreigners.
Please how did you deal with your ADHD?