RELATIONSHIP SAGA

In our generation most especially, we hear alot of sad news about couples and how they handled their martial issues.

It's so sad, we are all quick up judge them and backlash them because one person decided to voice out, even without knowing the full facts as to what transpired.

We have more relationships counsellors, advisers and coaches who can't even manage their life, pin pointing to the wrongs of others.

When a couple is in disarray, most times we hear from one side and chose to make our deductions from what so ever we heard.

The Okoye's, the Idibia'a and even most recently Alex and Fancy we are all anticipating to see the wedding of the year between them before we heard the most beautiful story of the year.

There is alot that happens in any given relationship, we all can't see and can never know of no matter how much we keep our ears to the grounds.

No one is filled with perfection of character hence we accept the imperfections of each other to stay in the union, for God, our children and even the society most times we forget why we got married in the first place.

Many couple are so close but far from each other, there is nothing spicing up the relationship again, we are carried away with our carrier, society and distractions we chose for ourselves and hence hurt our relationship.

Divorce and abject separation has indeed become the norm of our times, we hardly can tolerate each other's flaws and so we are all out to showcase the faults of our partner to the whole world for what gains excatly?

Many of us grew in good homes, had beautiful backgrounds and orientation as to family life, honestly we know the truth but we all chose to do what is our bidding, no one cares any longer.

It's high time we stop and tell ourselves the truth marriage is not for everyone, keeping a relationship you know won't yield any result is a slam on your self, if you must marry stay married and align yourself with your responsibilities.

Pray for the many married couple, alot is going on, wait to get it rigth if you are single now, don't hurt yourself because you want to stay in an abusive relationship, if you must end it, do so amicably.

Ahudiya speaks ©

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