mariahAngel:

You see?



A juwola’m biko!

I am right, it is not only online write ups..lol

Munzy14:



I am right, it is not only online write ups..lol

Ka gi ma.

Maazi Okacha-mara!

mariahAngel:


Ka gi ma.

Maazi Okacha-amara!

Come, do you expect all your children to look like you alone? Some will take after their mom, their uncle's or grannies.

Gasapoto:
So far, we have two children in which one is my exact carbon copy while one did not in anyway resemble me but resemble the mother especially having the same complexion(fair) like my father inlaw who is also fair in complexion and posses some other features like him and my wife but did not in anyway takes after me.Once anybody see the one that is my carbon copy,you dont need to ask who is his father and i am happy for that.

Due to the growing rate of cases of father not being the biological father of his child(children) common these days after DNA test,most times i used to be worried whether i am the biological father of the one that did not in anyway resemble and i dont have the money for now to go and conduct DNA test.

I begin to ask whether its advisable to call my wife and sit her down and her ask to please tell me whether i am truly the biological father of the one that did not resemble me. But i dont know what will be her response or how she will feel if i ask such ?. Its not that i am suspecting her but most times i am scared considering news of whats happening these days in paternity test and results. Please kindly advise on the best way to handle this.

Is it wise to engage your wife out of thin air or suspicion?

Nope!

If you have doubts, do your research aka DNA test.

Also ensure you test that the wife is the mom (if the test is negative) so you have all your facts before engagement.

Don't destroy your home and be wise to know that the phenotype could favor any of the family member.

The worst part of what I read is how cowardly our alpha men are. If you need conduct a DNA on your child, be bold about it.

I have read all the comments. Well appreciated.

It's not really that I am suspecting her but I know men in most cases feel more at home when the child(ren) seem to be their carbon copy than the other way round or be happy when they hear such words from people like "this one no need to be asked who be the father" because of the way they resemble.Again like I said many men prefer that their children look like their carbon copy than their mother as it clears any suspicious or doubtful thought. I begin to think how possible some children cannot posses any of the traits of the father especially the physical look. I know DNA is the last resort of such a doubt though don't have such money for now.

Gasapoto:
I have read all the comments. Well appreciated.

It's not really that I am suspecting her but I know men in most cases feel more at home when the child(ren) seem to be their carbon copy than the other way round or be happy when they hear such words from people like "this one no need to be asked who be the father" because of the way they resemble.Again like I said many men prefer that their children look like their carbon copy than their mother as it clears any suspicious or doubtful thought. I begin to think how possible some children cannot posses any of the traits of the father especially the physical look. I know DNA is the last resort of such a doubt though don't have such money for now.

Which one of your children are you doubtful of, the first or the second one?

bukatyne:

Also ensure you test that the wife is the mom (if the test is negative) so you have all your facts before engagement.

Come this one no follow. If the wife carried the pregnancy, why do testing again?

Regex:


Come this one no follow. If the wife carried the pregnancy, why do testing again?

Babies are switched in hospitals.

bukatyne:


Babies are switched in hospitals.

I know. But rarely does it happen.

Gasapoto:
I have read all the comments. Well appreciated.

It's not really that I am suspecting her but I know men in most cases feel more at home when the child(ren) seem to be their carbon copy than the other way round or be happy when they hear such words from people like "this one no need to be asked who be the father" because of the way they resemble.Again like I said many men prefer that their children look like their carbon copy than their mother as it clears any suspicious or doubtful thought. I begin to think how possible some children cannot posses any of the traits of the father especially the physical look. I know DNA is the last resort of such a doubt though don't have such money for now.

You know nothing.