Imanuelle:

kk, Guys nd ladiez xpecialy, make una no vex,
I noticed a situation where a lady*z ex called her, she didnt want to be rude and d call continued till about 30minutez,
D husband was very furious,

if "not being rude" to the caller was more important to her than "being rude to her husband" then this lady has lost the plot

Bsides she spoke aloud so dat d husband would hear every conversation dey made,

does that make her act any different if she knows that it aint right in the eyes of her partner?!

Guys, tell me, wuld u allow an ex to call your wife?? Knowin that he had slept with her b4??

to me, i dont mind at all. whats the big deal?! if you are insecure, thats all on you bro! you are definitely worrying about the wrong things in life and should have thought about this nonsense before marrying this damsel.

I bliv no man ever wantz to set eyes on any man dat has slept with hiz wife b4, U guys knw dat!

if you are SO worried about that issue then i suggest you go and marry a virgin for peace of mind.

Any man who chases after married women is highly irresponsible.This is why ppl keep using magun on those foolsih men who are addicted to married women.

babe!
Itz clear i didnt change d topic,
I was only tryin to cite a case 4 nlanders to judge if d ex's calls culd justify d reason why a woman should or should not change her number.

^^You sha still wanted to divert 'our' attention. Remember your question at the beginning didn't have anything to do with Justification.

Don't mind me abeg. It's all good. 

after changing numbers they should wear a mask so they arent recognised by former lovers , funny topic

Why marrying her? You think u can ever know who are getting married to? Me delete her cell once she is getting married. Dem chicks no dey like am at all. However I dey try give my fellow man less wahala to deal with.

If it calls for it why not?
I cnt even count how many tymz av changed mine
Nevamind when u married and itz da last thing u want, exz or guyz in general wanting a thing with u.
Unless ofcourse u dnt luv or cherish ur man/marriage

As long as married men change their numbers too then its all good!

@poster & fellows, if u all agree that the women change their numbers , what happens to old numbers of guys ( husbands ) too? . This is selfish. Am at ur post.

The question is dis,dat s t possible?if yes dat means d married woman will loose enof contact on her phone.

Marriedmen too should change their phone numebers ande mail addresses after marriage

A married woman must change her former line after marriage if she has been a player, she must close her yahoo, facebook, Badoo, and all social network sites once married and start a fresh one. The reason is that for the phone a dumb ass might just one day send a crazy mail to the wifey not knowing her new status and this may get into the hubby's hand, depending the kind of hubby it may lead to world war. Similarly if old social network sites are not closed hubby may stumble on some old romantic messages that suggest some wild romance wifeyy had been involved in and that may lead to the end of the whole union.
Just to be on the safe side a wifey got to start on a clean slate from the moment she is married to avoid problems.

I think men are just so insecure. So old bfs have your wifes number. What is the big deal? All the way to email and facebook? Na wah o this is insecurity of the highest order. I still use my fone number, my email since 99, my facebook account that proudly says married and I see no reason for either me or my husband to change.

yes they shud. and they shud delete all their social network account/chat rooms

angelhair:

I think men are just so insecure. So old bfs have your wifes number. What is the big deal? All the way to email and facebook? Na wah o this is insecurity of the highest order. I still use my fone number, my email since 99, my facebook account that proudly says married and I see no reason for either me or my husband to change.

We are talking about exceptions, if you read my post well you will see that i said for women who have been players before they got married. If you are sure of yourself then no cause for alarm you can keep all no issues, but for crying out loud check out the walls of some babes today some guys will even go as far as telling the whole world what happend in the dark. I believe you understand the point i am making the good girls surely have nothing to worry about but the notorious girls who have skeleton in their cupboards to avoid trouble and for national peace its better they delete all past records and start afresh.

Make sure you impregnate her every year so that she wont be attractive to her ex-boyfriends. GBAM

Not unless it's absolutely necessary.  Being newly married myself (9 weeks), I didn't change my phone number or delete any of my social networking websites.  When I decided to move on with my life from them, I cut loose all "exes" and "unhealthy" relationships so I can start a new life.  Eventually, they didn't remember my phone number nor do I remember theres.  There would be no reason to keep in contact with them since I have no "ties" to them.  If a person is dealing with an "unstable" person who can't let go or what have you, then the person may just have to take the necessary precautions to keep the "undesirables" out of their life.

angelhair,

Letz be realistic,

Even with d *married* on ur fbk profile,  du u wana tel me dat no one has tried to ask u out on fcbk directly or indirectly??

If *no* den no ish,

Bt if *yes* , du u tink ur man wuld just smile if he cums accros dat msg??

livedit:

Not unless it's absolutely necessary.  Being newly married myself (9 weeks), I didn't change my phone number or delete any of my social networking websites.  When I decided to move on with my life from them, I cut loose all "exes" and "unhealthy" relationships so I can start a new life.  Eventually, they didn't remember my phone number nor do I remember theres.  There would be no reason to keep in contact with them since I have no "ties" to them.  If a person is dealing with an "unstable" person who can't let go or what have you, then the person may just have to take the necessary precautions to keep the "undesirables" out of their life.

Exactly.  

The ideal thing to do for MOST sane persons is to take care of the past baggage BEFORE moving into a new relationship that way there wouldn't be any lingering problems but SOME people are too selfish that they want to hold on the past and the future not giving a damn if it may cause issues in their relationship or marriage.  

SMH.

livedit i wana bliv u ddnt have much dum.b stalkerz cuz if u did, am sure dey wuld stil have ur number.

I am a man, but i fear we are having more selfish and insecure men today, than we are having promiscuous ladies. Mrs Chima i dey your side on this one.

Yep, she must change her number after 'I do'. Genius idea! Because everyone knows that a marriage contract renders a lady physically incapable of getting new numbers.

Roland17:

I am a man, but i fear we are having more selfish and insecure men today, than we are having promiscuous ladies. Mrs Chima i dey your side on this one.

U call someone fuwaduing ur wife ur insecurity. U don follow women with their different definitions baa?

Zahnda:

Yep, she must change her number after 'I do'. Genius idea! Because everyone knows that a marriage contract renders a lady physically incapable of getting new numbers.

Exactly, why do we men worry ourselves over nothing. Change her phone, sim, FB,NL etc. a wayward wife is a wayward wife. Just marry someone u can trust that's all. Even is the ex calls her 20X a day, you can go home and sleep with two eye closed

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No damn wonder.

Why change phone number/ sim after marraiage when women by design her very retentive memories when it comes to things of such?. Whatever design you put in place to secure her loyalty, only a woman knows when to burst the tape and do the dew!!!!!!.

Never put yourself in jeopardy for a woman's course, they are naturally gifted as serpents.

Chao!!!!!!

D man gonnna change is number 2?

jay bee:

D man gonnna change is number 2?

Did you changed your number?

Not yet married but def wouldn't be doing that if and when i do

Its common these days but No, I didnt change mine

Why would I change my number and risk losing very important professional contacts . . . . just because I got married