you sure have some little work to do, because the background is there.
However, you have to ensure you are in control(not bullying, and being like'i must be the head')
When next she behaves 'heady and stubborn', do sit her down and weigh the consequences of her perceived stuborness, her actions and inactions, drawing points to the merits and demerits there in
that will be a way to conscientise her, at least for a start.

Mind you, at some point the stubborness may come up sligghtly , but ALWAYS TRY TO SUBDUE IT WITH WISE WORDS AND REASON, NOT BEATING OR HARSHNESS. Though, it may be a plus for you at some point, say when she is in defence of your own right in an event. Even at that, applaud her and tell her it is still uncalled for and teach her other ways it cud be doen better.

afterall,'the king of all animals' and the name 'lion' mean the same thing, meaning you proof to her that there are subtle ways to do everything.

the above may not be all round, but will go a long way, ITS EXPERIENCE SPEAKING FOR ME.

oh, u are i good guy da doctor , i will practice that

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it is well

sexylogan:

. . . . and a slap!

sooo true!

smh