Mgtow8:
How will you see the problem when you are a great simp

legallyminded:
You're a female moniker disguising to be a male

drealaz24:
Guy, can you just stop already. Either you're not staying in Nigeria or just a single young chap with no experience. Just marry a single mother and come back after 15yrs to these post.

The most successful single moms are those who left the baby with a family member and move on with their life (yes with d new husband in d know)

AfroKnight:
It’s like you have chosen not to understand. I say I do not frown upon, dislike, and I am not against single mothers. That is not what the thread is about. It is about demonising my choice and her keeping the boy away from our discussion until she felt I was committed and I had feelings for her.

And as for your first paragraph, I wonder why you’re working overtime to rationalise living with a stepchild. I just said I don’t want the peculiarities of that situation. Is it not a valid choice anymore? Some people want it, but I don’t. Plus, I don’t think I should be the bad guy like my friend and other women on this thread have insinuated.

drealaz24:


I don't think she's shameless. That's just reality for u.

She probably thought going back to the father of her child to continue her life is far better than going into another relationship whc might become complicated because of her child.

More especially when she thought the baby daddy has changed for good because he probably came back to beg with a batallion from his family.

MrBrownJay1:


... and this your above contribution is the smartest thing you could come up with?! so you sat down, thought very carefully about what to write on this thread....and saying that a man who is not afraid to date/fukc or be with a single mother is automatically a great simp?! lol

you see, people like you are the reason why this redpill movement is now bastardized by men who dont even know what the movement is about. they just make unintelligent statement against women and/or against anyone who they dont understand that aint afraid of women. you fear women so much that anything that may benefit a women you will look down upon without even using what you have between you ears. what a sorry state of mind.



if the above makes you feel better about yourself, then so be it. maybe next time when i stand for animal right, tyou will now say that i am a zebra or a cat, abi?!?!?

if you have nothing intelligent to say on the subject at hand, just stay on the sideline and keep following this discussion in the background quietly.



if thats "your" definition of a successful single mother then no wonder you dont understand this discussion... IMHO a successful single mother is one that was able to raise her child on her own and provide that child with all the necessary care/love affection coupled with the child emotional/financial and physical needs. i guess we have a different definition on the matter.



you have to be reasonable in this discussion, and its obvious you aint. the question i asked was very simple:: if you as a man dont show your flaws/fears/weaknesses to women when you 1st meet them, why would you expect these single mothers to be any different on the matter?!

AfroKnight:


I don’t see why the way I think should make any woman hide the fact that she’s a single mother.

She should be upfront with it once a man asks her out. Not after he has begun to develop affection for her and then she springs it on him. No. That’s manipulative.

If he knew from the beginning then he could make up his mind whether or not to continue.

adanny01:


When you attend a job interview and you face a question such as, what are your flaws? Will you answer, I smoke weed if you really did?

You just reek of selfishness and self righteousness, you cant be that perfect. You also need to do full disclosure before you collect a girls contact, lets see where that gets you because you certainly must have your own flaws.

AutoChick4U:
Why u go wan Beat her kid? Is it that you dragging to come first before her kids? Can't you share in d affection? Must it be a competition?

UcheforGod:
So you are saying that pre-marital sex is good?

lilvicky68:

Okafor's law of congodynamics states that once a woman has been 4ked.. the 4ker has every tendency to 4k the 4kee at any given time..

As for baby mama stuff.. the father of the child can still 4k the mother even during visitations..

AutoChick4U:
Now this is where communication is very important. A single mom who still sees, talks to d baby daddy is a suspect. Besides the lady in this your story is a very dumb fvck.

Many single moms are not in contact with their baby fathers and managing alone just like me. Theres minus zero possibility of such happening in my case anyways

Austineva:
. Thank u, bro

MrBrownJay1:


You have to be reasonable in this discussion, and its obvious you aint. the question i asked was very simple:: if you as a man dont show your flaws/fears/weaknesses to women when you 1st meet them, why would you expect these single mothers to be any different on the matter?!

adanny01:


Let me tell you where you are wrong especially the highlighted.

Does this lady have the right to find love again, if I may ask you? She certainly does. You dont expect her to tell every man she meets on the street that she has a son. Do you expect her to wear a T shirt saying I have a son so that people like you can just stay clear of her.

You have your rights, your rights starts where others end.

If you wish fairness, you also need to think of the father of the child whether women do to him what you did to her.

I am not saying you were wrong to bail from the relationship that never started, I am saying when you bailed like that, you make it look like she did you wrong but actually she never did. She is also looking for the same thing you are looking for and she never lied to you. In fact, your relationship was not there yet.

Please, next time before you ask a girl for her contact, endeavor to ask her if she has a child so this would not repeat. Dont blame if you dont ask.

Romanoff:


Even condom dey break. Well wait sef. So if that happens, what next?

Abortion, keep the baby?

MrBrownJay1:


morning after pill...

Romanoff:
Yet, if you tell both male and female to stop fornicating, they will come for you.

Many are having premarital sex and children are one of the consequences of premarital sex.

You people frown at people doing abortions but won't marry a single mum or won't abstain from sex.

If your partner gets pregnant for you, na una go first say make she abort am, yet, some of you won't marry a woman who has done abortion before.

Una no see say this premarital sex thing no worth am las las?

Davash222:

Ask 99.7536% of Nigeria single mothers about the father of their child/ren, this is always their response.

Does it mean they are foolish or blind to open legs for irresponsible men?

When dating a single mom, always remember, her child comes first before you. Also remember, the father of the child has 100% access to her kpekus.

Godspeed to all prospective Single mothers' attendees.

Davash222:

Ask 99.7536% of Nigeria single mothers about the father of their child/ren, this is always their response.

Does it mean they are foolish or blind to open legs for irresponsible men?

When dating a single mom, always remember, her child comes first before you. Also remember, the father of the child has 100% access to her kpekus.
I am presently dating a single mother, five three years now, her son is always first, I am just like second hand in the home. She always put her son first. She even bought a land in the name of her son bearing the child surname and they feed from me while she keep her welth for her son

Godspeed to all prospective Single mothers' attendees.

Davash222:

Ask 99.7536% of Nigeria single mothers about the father of their child/ren, this is always their response.

Does it mean they are foolish or blind to open legs for irresponsible men?

When dating a single mom, always remember, her child comes first before you. Also remember, the father of the child has 100% access to her kpekus.

Godspeed to all prospective Single mothers' attendees.

Austineva:
pls, state d Okafor's Law. I really want to know it. Thanks

AfroKnight:


You call me selfish? Lol.

Why are you calling her child a flaw? I don’t think her son is a flaw. He is actually a child who needs care but I am not interested in caring for a stepchild.

Would you keep the same energy if you met a single father who hid the fact that he had a son, until you started falling for him and calling him everyday? Would you be selfish too if you decide you don’t want to deal with him meeting his baby mama?

madridsta007:


1. Her child comes first before you, whether dating or married to her.
2. There will always be a third party in the marriage or relationship.
3. She can exit your life any given time. She has built herself to be independent and she can revert to that whenever she suspects you.
4. And yes, she will always suspect you.

This happens in most of the cases. They dont normally heal after the pregnancy incident (pregnancy, coping with family, the child, etc) and the next guy will bear the brunt of that hate for men.

Romanoff:
Yet, if you tell both male and female to stop fornicating, they will come for you.

Many are having premarital sex and children are one of the consequences of premarital sex.

You people frown at people doing abortions but won't marry a single mum or won't abstain from sex.

If your partner gets pregnant for you, na una go first say make she abort am, yet, some of you won't marry a woman who has done abortion before.

Una no see say this premarital sex thing no worth am las las?

MODFIED

Women, from the response my comment is getting, it's safe to say you're on the receiving end.

These guys won't marry you with a child, they won't marry you if they know you've had an abortion or abortions, they won't marry you if post pills mess with your fertility.

Is it not best to close your legs till you get married?

The posts about dating or marrying single mothers should be a deterrent, cause them plenty for Romance section. They will quote Okafor's law for you as a reason to not marry a single mother.

Ladies, close leg o.

mikovo2002:
I am presently dating a single mother, she had never review the father of her son. All she always tell me is that she didn't know the wereabout of her child father. She put her son first. I am just like second fiddle in the house
She even bought a land in the name of her son bearing the child surname. She save her money for towards the upkeep of her child while my money is for us.
She always take offense when ever I deciplaine the young child of 11 years old

Romanoff:
Yet, if you tell both male and female to stop fornicating, they will come for you.

Many are having premarital sex and children are one of the consequences of premarital sex.

You people frown at people doing abortions but won't marry a single mum or won't abstain from sex.

If your partner gets pregnant for you, na una go first say make she abort am, yet, some of you won't marry a woman who has done abortion before.

Una no see say this premarital sex thing no worth am las las?

MODFIED

Women, from the response my comment is getting, it's safe to say you're on the receiving end.

These guys won't marry you with a child, they won't marry you if they know you've had an abortion or abortions, they won't marry you if post pills mess with your fertility.

Is it not best to close your legs till you get married?

The posts about dating or marrying single mothers should be a deterrent, cause them plenty for Romance section. They will quote Okafor's law for you as a reason to not marry a single mother.

Ladies, close leg o.