Have you ever viewed yourself in a way that you really weren't
Like did you think you were fat, but weren't much at all?
Did you think you were a friendly, caring person but were actually pretty selfish and not too nice?
Did you think you knew a lot about something in particular or about everything in general, but actually didn't know anything much at all?


I'm assuming that all of us have made false judgments about ourselves only later to realize how wrong we were. Sometimes these falsehoods come to light an hour later, or even a decade later.

I'm assuming that these false images of ourselves do cause tremendous difficulties in our lives and forever change our destinies. Even as we age, we might still have many of these illusions, but I'm guessing most of them occur while in the schooling years and 20's,
And this does have very much to do with relationships, because if we can so badly mistake who we are or how we look or what we do, how can we expect someone else to truly love us for us? Does your partner only love you for your false mirage you proudly glare, would he/she still be there if your true self was exposed? Or does your partner actually know your true self more than you could ever know your own self? Is it just a blindness we have as humans not to be able to look inward?

deal_ordea.  Bro. is your brain divided into 7? 

Na
she doest understand
*reads again*

respond to other people's threads, even if your views are freakier than a four legged chicken.

it takes courage, i know, but you have to start somewhere.

it will help your self esteem too, and allow you to reconnect with the real online world.

@ poster.

@iice, Thanks for the respond, you can take Tpia as an example, She never pay attention to herself,