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| My Story by enyinwa1: 9:21pm On May 24, 2011 |
hello my people am confused i do not know what to do he ask me to move dawn to Nigeria if i want anything serious with him i do not want to get stranded as i do not even have a permanent resident over here i am kind of confused please help me |
| Re: My Story by BABE3: 9:27pm On May 24, 2011 |
---this is my song, Praising my saviour, all the day long--- LOL---mOVE down to 9ja? Where're you first of all? Ghana? Anyways--more info is needed for me to drop any tanible solution/advise.  Info. like "do you really like/love him?", "How long have y'all been 'together?'' |
| Re: My Story by Odunnu: 9:28pm On May 24, 2011 |
enyinwa1:are you a Nigerian? How old are you? What do yo do in Godknowsthecountry?What does your man do in Nigeria? |
| Re: My Story by victor08(m): 9:32pm On May 24, 2011 |
If the guy is not financial capable don't even take the risk. You know what I mean. |
| Re: My Story by CrazyMan(m): 9:36pm On May 24, 2011 |
@poster. Try and take your time when next you make a post. Try and express yourself properly so that people would know the kind of reply to give to you. Finally, if you love him, then you can come over to Nigeria; but if you don’t and you’re scared of being stranded when you come as you claimed, then it’s better to remain where you are. |
| Re: My Story by enyinwa1: 9:36pm On May 24, 2011 |
i dont and cant say his finacial postion for now we have been together for one year and we are in austria am 27 he is 33 |
| Re: My Story by MMM3(m): 9:37pm On May 24, 2011 |
op the film sorry d story is not complete.  |
| Re: My Story by 190: 9:38pm On May 24, 2011 |
enyinwa1: is his name amefi |
| Re: My Story by MrsChima(f): 9:40pm On May 24, 2011 |
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| Re: My Story by MrsChima(f): 9:42pm On May 24, 2011 |
enyinwa1: So basically your guy do not have any money and you do not want to be stuck anywhere you can't get back home? Did he proposed to you? |
| Re: My Story by 190: 9:43pm On May 24, 2011 |
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| Re: My Story by enyinwa1: 10:05pm On May 24, 2011 |
at mrs chima men we all know u cant push them beside i feel he should be the one to voice it out i like him and from all indication he will i just dont understand why he want me home |
| Re: My Story by MrsChima(f): 10:08pm On May 24, 2011 |
Did he asked your hand in marriage? |
| Re: My Story by Nobody: 10:24pm On May 24, 2011 |
@poster its called BLACKMAIL and you fell for it. A) no man that loves you would force you to do anything that you dont want to do aka no smart person should do anything they are not willing to do) B) if HE is so decided on moving then let him go and make everything ready for you to come (IF THATS WHAT YOU WISH TO DO in the long run) C) why are you where you are?! are you happy with your life? do you really think marriage will solve all your problems/desires? you better sit down and think seriously about WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF LIFE, before thinking about what some guy you are dating is willing to offer you! D) even if he proposed and you wish to get married with this "stranger", you should use your head and decide how best to go about it. if GOING BACK HOME with him is the only thing he is willing to hear then he is a very selfish person (to say the least) |
| Re: My Story by enyinwa1: 10:25pm On May 24, 2011 |
look i cant say , just want to be too forward over that all i know is that he keep saying he cant bring up his kid here i mean in abroad |
| Re: My Story by tpia5: 10:26pm On May 24, 2011 |
i went through your posts and got more confused than before. |
| Re: My Story by enyinwa1: 10:31pm On May 24, 2011 |
mr brown jay why do u thing he will want my dawn fall i mean i dont understand (blackmail  ? please am confused |
| Re: My Story by MrsChima(f): 10:48pm On May 24, 2011 |
MRbrownJAY: MBJ! You are wrong for that! You know that heffa do not understand nothing you just posted! You have to talk to her like she is Jerry Lewis' child. |
| Re: My Story by Nobody: 10:51pm On May 24, 2011 |
@enyiwa FIRST "to bring up your children in Europe" means that you would have to lived there together. if he leaves then you can take time to figure out a way to get better in your r/ship BEFORE thinking of children. this is a trick to force you into following him. just tell him this:" me too, i wouldnt want to raise children in Europe but that doesnt mean that A) i will follow you wherever you go without thinking and B) that i have to have children NOW when i am not ready" SECOND blackmail is when someone is using something such as "the continuation of a r/ship" into forcing you to come with him to Africa. ask yourself this simple questions: do you want to go? are you READy to go? is that a move profitable to YOU or HIM? what will you do in Africa? THIRD this man wants you home because HE has decided that HE wants to go, HE wants to get married and HE wants children. . . . . . . . .you are just the person he wants to use to achieve HIS dream. Mrs.Chima: lol, be nice to her! |
| Re: My Story by Odunnu: 5:14am On May 25, 2011 |
Na wa o. The thread is getting more confusing. @Poster: I need to understand somethings please: Are you a Nigerian? has this man proposed to you? After a year, he wants you in Nigeria, is he going to stay/live with you in Nigeria?What do you mean by you dont know his financial position, is he a student or worker? |
| Re: My Story by enyinwa1: 9:41am On May 25, 2011 |
@ndunnu read me. A .well i have mention everything u ask on the trend .B. about the finacial issue it was a reply on someone question thnxxx |
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