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[color=#000000][/color][b][/b]Go to the church where he made the vow, explain everything to the pastor and tell him wen u gonna pay the vow. I'm sure that will solve ur plight

Vickyvice:
Your father is dead and gone. Your dad wasn't d one who appeared to u in whatever form. He has returned to dust in all entirety like Adam and Eve. Hope and pray for the resurrection on last day. hopefully, ur dad may be among righteous ones. It's d hope your dad, like every other person,both dead and alive still has. Forget the lies by pastors say we go heaven when we die. Na lie be that, and they ... Pastors know this too

lol u funny oo... I quite agree with u to an extent bt he should pay d money ASAP... cuz no one knws wats cuming next... D beating could be worse... I wish my late dad 2 could gve sum people sum panel beating like dis... Let him pay d money and any subsequent appearance or demand is gonna be suspicious... To avoid any mishappening...

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year.

Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders..

Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank.

He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints..

How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow.

Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result.

Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

You're under demonic oppression. That is not your father. Better go for deliverance and don't pay 1naira to that church.

JuanDeDios:

As far as my question goes, 1, 2 and 4 are off-point rants based on some assumptions you've made for reasons of your own. 3 attempts to answer the question so I'll respond to it. I take it you believe op is suffering because demons have made him believe that "something that escaped" his father's body is punishing him. So demons have access to our minds and can make us believe things?

this shows you haven't read the bible

Go to the church where he made the vow, explain everything to the pastor and tell him wen u gonna pay the vow. I'm sure that will solve ur plight

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year.

Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders..

Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank.

He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints..

How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow.

Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result.

Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

JoBabs:


lol u funny oo... I quite agree with u to an extent bt he should pay d money ASAP... cuz no one knws wats cuming next... D beating could be worse... I wish my late dad 2 could gve sum people sum panel beating like dis... Let him pay d money and any subsequent appearance or demand is gonna be suspicious... To avoid any mishappening...

BRATISLAVA:


And then that happened?

My dad did not do it and nothing happened anyway.

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This thing na ogboni confra issue
if u pay finish, he will still come back to give u another assignment....run to jesus now
cheiiii who tap me for back? Hmmm i no get strength ooo

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year.

Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders..

Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank.

He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints..

How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow.

Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result.

Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

How powerful is the human mind at imagination, to the extent that it becomes real

This is serious matter oooo,
go and meet the church pastor were he make the pledge talk to him how and when your to pay..he won't disturb you again and another time he appear asks him to open door for you...

Lashbaba:
You must be a comedian

Very likely from his other OP.

James4358:
My nairaland family, i jst want to bare my mind here.

Matured responses will be sincerely appreciated. I'll try to be brief & straight to the points.

Precisely in 2019, I helped my then boss who was transfered to Abuja to get a maid from the south south part of the country, calabar to be precise. She was 18yrs at that time. Later that year, my boss who was nursing a kidney ailment needed transplant urgently. Out of love, this girl opted to help donate one of her kidneys. Personaly I kicked against the idea when she told me, but she was strong-willed. I took the matter to her parents and they threatened to hold me responsible if anything happened to their daughter. After much persuasion from her, her parents gave in reluctantly. We carried out series of tests & she was certified fit to donate. My boss contacted a German hospital that later did the transplant. I work for a para-millitary agency as a cadet A.S.P & i call him My boss because he was heading the command i was first posted to. More details below...

BRATISLAVA:


Especially since he said the man used to be aggressive, he should've expected it. But why doesn't the man flog the elder brother?

OP said he's only 30 and doesn't want to be flogged again

if nah me I will exhume his corpse harvest his skull and burn his carcass to ashes... at least the skull will fetch me urgent 50k to pay the dept

Akuruoulo:

Where do we stay after death ?

In the ground where you were buried or dumped.

FlipModeSquade:
The man made a vow,not his son..

Am an Atheist..


Of what use is a vow made to a God I don't worship to me?

Everyone should carry their cross abeg..

If u were the one receiving beating and punishment, u won't be saying this.

Kobojunkie:
Your late mother or your anxieties told you this?

The images you see in your dream are typically sourced from ideas, thoughts and images acquired from daily life stored there in your mind, and your imagination... stop letting them ruin your life and day.

I am sorry because you want to form ‘civilized’ you decide to discount another man’s personal spiritual experience. I am not telling you to convince you but it would be more honourable to just keep quiet on matters beyond you understanding. You write nonsense bro!

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year.

Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders..

Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank.

He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints..

How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow.

Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result.

Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

Your father made a vow to God not you. Remember the bible says that after death comes judgement. Pls dont allow one evil spirit somewhere to be tormenting u over wat u dont know about. Since ur dad is dead then the vow he made is also dead and broken. Rebuke every familiar spirit from ur life

true2god:
I am sorry because you want to form ‘civilized’ you decide to discount another man’s personal spiritual experience. I am not telling you to convince you but it would be more honourable to just keep quiet on matters beyond you understanding. You write nonsense bro!

This isn't about forming civilized as i am speaking from experience... many many years of it too.

The first lie there is you believe man is spiritual... there is no evidence of this except for that manufactured by men and fed us through lies told us by them. Once you start believing the baseless lies, there's no to what you will be willing to believe.

Don't get me wrong now... I believe in God - I know He is - and I too know it is possible to have a spirit but the lie that man is a Spiritual being is the source of many a delusion.

Kobojunkie:
Still im papa headache be that one! How can he rope another person into vow without the person consent?

If im no inform XYZ while im dey alive, na with flogging from grave, and for dream XYZ suppose hear am?

I don watch enough American horror flicks - Tales from the Crypt - to know that it is never a good idea to follow all this nonsense because next na this one go come dey make vows dey rope im own kids into it like this before them, before you know it. Next you go dey hear be say na generational curse dey do dem.

My first reaction was laughter when I read the OP.

Even the topic sef!

Quite epic.

adetula148:


My dad did not do it and nothing happened anyway.

Thought as much.

Dead people are dead. They can't tell you to do something, except it's not them.

Why is he appearing only to you. Cant he appear also to the one in Abroad?

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year.

Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders..

Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank.

He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints..

How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow.

Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result.

Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

1. Go for serious fasting and prayer

2. Stay away from that church. The pastor is into something very deep.

EndBuhariNow:
if nah me I will exhume his corpse harvest his skull and burn his carcass to ashes... at least the skull will fetch me urgent 50k to pay the dept

That's harsh. Don't let him become a skull Miner for someone else's debt!

Fastlinkpro:
Why is he appearing only to you. Cant he appear also to the one in Abroad?

That's the mystery.

WHAT IF YOU DIED.

https://art19.com/shows/this-is-actually-happening-podcast/episodes/839fc188-ead0-4c7b-aba6-fb115a6341b8

Kobojunkie:
This isn't about forming civilized as i am speaking from experience... many many years of it too.

The first lie there is you believe man is spiritual... there is no evidence of this except for that manufactured by men and fed us through lies told us by them. Once you start believing the baseless lies, there's no to what you will be willing to believe.

Don't get me wrong now... I believe in God - I know He is - and I too know it is possible to have a spirit but the lie that man is a Spiritual being is the source of many a delusion.

Listen to this

https://art19.com/shows/this-is-actually-happening-podcast/episodes/839fc188-ead0-4c7b-aba6-fb115a6341b8

Your dad dey quick flog you for dream because of the money he promised a church, forgetting you borrowed money just to give him a befitting burial. He doesn't care about you, he is selfish and wicked. Why can't he make things easy for you so you can pay the loans instead of flogging you to go and pay 50K to a church on his behalf? He is a wicked man!

BRATISLAVA:


That's harsh. Don't let him become a skull Miner for someone else's debt!

some people are making it big in ogun nah with their skull business

tianshie:
Listen to this

https://art19.com/shows/this-is-actually-happening-podcast/episodes/839fc188-ead0-4c7b-aba6-fb115a6341b8

Did you even read my post at all?

The first lie there is you believe man is spiritual... there is no evidence of this except for that manufactured by men and fed us through lies told us by them. Once you start believing the baseless lies, there's no to what you will be willing to believe.

It's not your father,the agent of darkness is working through your father appearance to disturb your life...shift the battle to third realm,that is only way you can be victorious...

Kobojunkie:
Did you even read my post at all?

The first lie there is you believe man is spiritual... there is no evidence of this except for that manufactured by men and fed us through lies told us by them. Once you start believing the baseless lies, there's no to what you will be willing to believe.

I did. You're being polemical and not accommodating. If folks believe man is a spiritual being because when he dies his energy is simply converted into a different form then let's give that to them.

If other folks believe man is not a spiritual being because the spirit part of man "sleeps" while he occupies this earth, and he experiences life with his senses, then let's give that to them.