Bouz:
As in ehh, no mind the house wife.

Housewife u say?...I don't think she's married, or working sef.

Iyaebe:
Let's be truthful to ourselves, we all have that careers of men that immediately turn us off on finding out. Mine goes thus:
- Anything media is a big turn off, Bankers, The ' I work from home' groups, Teachers, Bitcoin traders and other Internet businesses, Car dealers.Please add yours, no insults.

I would like to know the careers that turn you ON

Please it’s important to state your age in your comments so we can filter these answers mine is 28

you have few followers on your social media handle, then you think the world rotates around you.. Get lost all these so called influencers, upcoming actresses etc.. undercover oloshos.

kokanepyramid:
For me it’s this latest trend of multi-talented girls.
You meet a lady and ask what she does next is she’s a PR, she does personal errands, she promotes brands, she does home cooking, she sells bags, boxers and singlets online.

One person all the above.

I will not even call you afterwards, cos I already know what you do.

Stop nau lol. No be all of them be olosho nah bros. She might be making more money monthly doing this and still have time for herself. I actually like women with hustling spirit, work no really dey outside. And I’ve seen escorts that gather up the money they’re making and start a business, settle down etc. Unfortunately it takes the grace of God and a very patient man for them to change completely when married.

It's hard to see an educated/literate gala seller like you in present Nigeria

chatinent:


We may not like the work sb does, yes, it's normal..but understanding that your liking it or disliking it doesn't count should help us to stop expecting much from the lives of others.

Do you know how many hours I have to stay in the scorching sun to sell three rolls of sausages in the competitive road of Lagos traffic?

I have to come back sometimes with ₦400 and ₦50k worth of insults from drivers, and generational curses from cyclists who I often double-cross to sell my gala?

Do you see how rich I am to be worried about how others like me?

aimmoney9:
It's hard to see an educated/literate gala seller like you in present Nigerian

I do, bro. In fact, I try many things to survive including writing.

I come on Nairaland and see it as a stress relief. E no easy, bro.

chatinent:


I do, bro. In fact, I try many things to survive including writing.

I come on Nairaland and see it as a stress relief. E no easy, bro.

Good one, oluwa go pick ur call one day...even no go fit stop am..

aimmoney9:

Good one, oluwa go pick ur call one day...even no go fit stop am..

I know but na the phone you dey use call be problem. Give me your phone make i reach am.

pocohantas:
1) Car dealers: These ones would drive different cars they want to sell and won’t let you hear word of how they have OWNED a million cars. Majority are very fake.

2) Contractors: What exactly are you contracting? Everyday it is stories and mood swings. They haven’t signed his proposal, blablabla. When money comes, they will just spend it voom. Two weeks later, back to square one.

3) Any illegal job, including the ones that have been normalized (e.g) yahoo boys.

4) Politicians and pastors.

I will pick Baba Saliu the Kazeem (roadside mechanic) or Chukwuma the okporoko seller before the aforementioned men. Not like it matters, but you asked.

Women and their shameless lies. Just wait when a politician tosses a few thousands your way and you happily board uber to his hotel room. We know una no matter how much una deny.

Iyaebe:
That's not what I mean

Precisely what you mean!! Stop the petty lies.

Mmadu2:


Women and their shameless lies. Just wait when a politician tosses a few thousands your way and you happily board uber to his hotel room. We know una no matter how much una deny.

That should be her headache and not yours.

This thread, I didn't go beyond the first page, has just cemented the fact that many young people here, especially the males are toxic. They're embittered and irritant.

Somebody posed a simple question - what would turn you off..... Everyone has a right to feel a certain way about a certain thing. Everything is not about money. I for one don't like my man to be in the force. You can't stop him from being transferred! I love attention. Moreso, his work is a high risk job. That's why insurance companies charge them more for life assurance plans. I'd prefer a teacher or a banker over him, not necessarily for money!
I don't understand the reason for the insults. Some ladies here work and earn their money. They're comfortable without any man.

The boys here, Yes, I'll call them that, just throw shades anyhow once they hear women, their antenna will quickly pick signal! Maybe it's frustration sha. These Buhari days is getting to them more.

placeofallure:
This thread, I didn't go beyond the first page, has just cemented the fact that many young people here, especially the males are toxic. They're embittered and irritant.

Somebody posed a simple question - what would turn you off..... Everyone has a right to feel a certain way about a certain thing. Everything is not about money. I for one don't like my man to be in the force. You can't stop him from being transferred! I love attention. Moreso, his work is a high risk job. That's why insurance companies charge them more for life assurance plans. I'd prefer a teacher or a banker over him, not necessarily for money!
I don't understand the reason for the insults. Some ladies here work and earn their money. They're comfortable without any man.

The boys here, Yes, I'll call them that, just throw shades anyhow once they hear women, their antenna will quickly pick signal! Maybe it's frustration sha. These Buhari days is getting to them more.

like seriously, I don’t know what’s bad in someone saying what turns him off in a partner. I personally will never marry a nurse or doctor. Those people must surely be on night duties,that would means I will have to sleep alone some days.

olamoses75:
like seriously, I don’t know what’s bad in someone saying what turns him off in a partner. I personally will never marry a nurse or doctor. Those people must surely be on night duties,that would means I will have to sleep alone some days.

I wonder o!

pocohantas:
1) Car dealers: These ones would drive different cars they want to sell and won’t let you hear word of how they have OWNED a million cars. Majority are very fake.

2) Contractors: What exactly are you contracting? Everyday it is stories and mood swings. They haven’t signed his proposal, blablabla. When money comes, they will just spend it voom. Two weeks later, back to square one.

3) Any illegal job, including the ones that have been normalized (e.g) yahoo boys.

4) Politicians and pastors.

I will pick Baba Saliu the Kazeem (roadside mechanic) or Chukwuma the okporoko seller before the aforementioned men. Not like it matters, but you asked.

This lady u can't kill me here in Naira land.

Magnoliaa:

Lol. It feels somehow sha. And really uncomfortable. I mean, people are just out there trying to live and do something, I will now ''sit down'' to be talking about whether me, I find what they are doing attractive or turning me on? Like. Ki lo kan aye? It leaves a judgmental taste in my mouth somewhat. I don't feel like I have that right.

Matter of fact, I think there's a 'shaming' undertone to it - it's just my opinion. Because I'd feel unsettled too if guys started talking about how women who hawk and sell agbos, okrika tops or wigs or are career women who travel around the world, models, actresses and lawyers turn them off. I'd even be the no.1 fighter in such a thread... I mean, what's their business with women's works? Women who do not give a fk about them? I don't know how the fine line between preferences and shaming can be towed, though. I guess it's the former the OP had in mind.

l cherish your comment dear,where is your location.

computersoft:
l cherish your comment dear,where is your location.

She's a feminist, are you still in?

you house of rep..never mind l can cope.