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A Question Solely For Women : by Advocator: 10:01pm On May 25, 2011
Would you ever ask the apple of your eye to marry you? You know get down on one knee clasp their hand to you’re heart and say,

“Mon Cherie, I have savored your beauty like a bee gathers the essence with which it makes the sweetest of honey, like the shifting sands of an Arabian desert I shall remain constant, forever and always longing to be blown into your embrace. Now come let us marry for thou art a beautiful diversion in a life with which gives little recompense for the laborious task of breathing *promptly smacks him across the head rendering him unconscious and then drags him into her cave to further negotiations*

So I ask you, ladies are you more traditional at heart and are as a result waiting for your future hubby to do the chasing or are you more than happy to snap them up yourself wasting no time on maidenly pretenses?

Would you ask for a mans hand in marriage?

Re: A Question Solely For Women : by 190: 10:03pm On May 25, 2011
Rephrase the english well

cos only african rhinoceros from the bush can understand what u just said
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by Advocator: 10:07pm On May 25, 2011
How is you and my picture doing? Are you still drooling over my pic? smiley
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by 190: 10:09pm On May 25, 2011
Stop it, U're pissing me off undecided
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by Nobody: 10:14pm On May 25, 2011
women will never do that
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by Advocator: 10:16pm On May 25, 2011
MrPrsdent:

women will never do that

Are you talking about all women here?
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by livedit(f): 10:18pm On May 25, 2011
Livedit is traditional.  With that being said, no, I will not propose to a man.  I'm a firm believer in the bible, and the bible says:  "A man that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing".  A man is considered the "hunter", "the leader" and "the head".  The woman is the prize.  Some may not agree with livedit. But that's bible and what I believe.  There are some women who would prefer to be the "hunter" instead.  That's on them.  Who am I to judge?
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by Advocator: 10:22pm On May 25, 2011
livedit:

Livedit is traditional.  With that being said, no, I will not propose to a man.  I'm a firm believer in the bible, and the bible says:  "A man that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing".  A man is considered the "hunter", "the leader" and "the head".  The woman is the prize.  Some may not agree with livedit. But that's bible and what I believe.  There are some women who would prefer to be the "hunter" instead.  That's on them.  Who am I to judge?

Why wait for the lands of milk and honey to come following like a river into your path? When you can bend and take a sip of its offering all of your own accord?
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by MrsChima1(f): 10:25pm On May 25, 2011
In this day and age, men are not "hunting" and women are not "waiting to be snatched as a prize". There are women who have proposed to the men and have a great relationship. DIfferent stroke for different folks.

What works for one may not works for the other.
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by Nobody: 10:26pm On May 25, 2011
Advocator:

Are you talking about all women here?

97% of 'em
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by Advocator: 10:28pm On May 25, 2011
Mrs, Chima:

In this day and age, men are not "hunting" and women are not "waiting to be snatched as a prize". There are women who have proposed to the men and have a great relationship. DIfferent stroke for different folks.

What works for one may not works for the other.

That's the spirit. You don't look like a woman who would subliminally make him ask me instead.

MrPrsdent:

97% of 'em

Do you have any proof?
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by Ethiodime: 10:32pm On May 25, 2011
I wouldn't necessarily propose but I'd surely engage in a conversation or two about marriage wit my significant other. But, if it gets to the point when I'm the only one thinking about marriage n even contemplated about proposing to him its most definitely a 'adiós Señor'.
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by Advocator: 10:35pm On May 25, 2011
Ethiodime:

I wouldn't necessarily propose but I'd surely engage in a conversation or two about marriage wit my significant other. But, if it gets to the point when I'm the only one thinking about marriage n even contemplated about proposing to him  its most definitely a 'adiós Señor'.

You don't wanna see him work for it, write his own lines and get all nervous while doing
his proposal speech for you? tongue
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by livedit(f): 10:45pm On May 25, 2011
Advocator:

Why wait for the lands of milk and honey to come following like a river into your path? When you can bend and take a sip of its offering all of your own accord?

grin  You are hilarious.  Never heard that line before.  Because when do "gold" go looking for the miner?  When does a "fish" go fishing for a "fisherman"?  Why would I need to do that?  It was written like that for a reason.  Alot people have gotten away from the Word of God and doing it "their way" and then to later on down the line to have problems or wonder why this and that isn't working out or why this and that is happening in their relationship.  The Word of God is Truth/Life and that's what livedit will continue to live by.
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by african1(f): 10:49pm On May 25, 2011
I would totally do it! if he says yes then we were meant to be, but if he says no then goodbye,
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by IZUKWU(m): 11:11pm On May 25, 2011
Don't have time for all that drama
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by MrsChima1(f): 12:27am On May 26, 2011
Advocator:

That's the spirit. You don't look like a woman who would subliminally make him ask me instead.

Do you have any proof?

I do not chase men and find men to be weird specimens. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed However, I do not judge women who proposes to their boyfriends either. If it works for them more power to them.

I do not live my life vicariously through others.
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by HaveSense1(m): 12:32am On May 26, 2011
It all comes down to personal opinion, really. Some people like it, some people don't. Personally, I'd rather be the one proposing, but I see no problem with a woman proposing to me. That just means she beats me to it, but it's all fair game.
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by MrsChima1(f): 12:35am On May 26, 2011
HaveSense1:

It all comes down to personal opinion, really. Some people like it, some people don't. Personally, I'd rather be the one proposing, but I see no problem with a woman proposing to me. That just means she beats me to it, but it's all fair game.

Traditional men are like that and there is nothing wrong with that.  However, the relationship dynamics have shifted over 3 decades and the "typical" roles between men and women are not applicable in this society. 

Each relationship is different and we shouldn't expect others to follow OUR perception of what is right or wrong.
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by HaveSense1(m): 12:42am On May 26, 2011
Mrs, Chima:

Traditional men are like that and there is nothing wrong with that.  However, the relationship dynamics have shifted over 3 decades and the "typical" roles between men and women are not applicable in this society. 

Each relationship is different and we shouldn't expect others to follow OUR perception of what is right or wrong. 

I agree, because this isn't the 1940's or any time period before it. This world has changed so dramatically, like in the west, that for example you can see gay couples congregate much more compared to, say, 20-30 years ago. I have to say that tradition has waned a lot over the decades and more and more people just do what they like to do.

It's like people say; Get with the times, or get left behind.
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by tutuwater(m): 2:52am On May 26, 2011
* runs off to tell his girl not to try it*
i cant bear the emotion, i ll probably slap her?
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by iice(f): 4:57am On May 26, 2011
I could. Only thing is i'd prolly not be romantic about it.
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by Pweety4me(f): 5:12am On May 26, 2011
iice:

I could. Only thing is i'd prolly not be romantic about it.

Lol explain iicee babez grin lipsrsealed tongue
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by MrsChima1(f): 6:57am On May 26, 2011
tutuwater:

* runs off to tell his girl not to try it*
i cant bear the emotion, i ll probably slap her?

Are you sure you wouldn't slap her because she smiled? undecided undecided You sound like the Yaba Left patient Dr. Ground Foods being shouting yeye fowl to. lipsrsealed
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by tutuwater(m): 11:04am On May 26, 2011
I ll probably misbehave because it will make look non-spontaneous and more like a girl which i am not.
Re: A Question Solely For Women : by iice(f): 2:21pm On May 26, 2011
Pweety4me:

Lol explain iicee babez grin lipsrsealed tongue
No flowers and on bended knees. Straight to the point with negotiations in wait lipsrsealed

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