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How To Keep Him Calling Back by shotman(m): 4:32pm On Jul 22, 2007
Women should always remember that men like to chase and they are all looking for that someone special. Maintaining a guy's attention means you have to keep him interested even when you are not close to him. Don’t forget that a short skirt can draw his attention in just few seconds, but in order to achieve that you have to use some tricks. It doesn’t matter if you are the love of his life. The temptations are all around him. It’s not enough to be the love of his life; you also have to be the thing he most desires. First of all you should start and tease him. That would give the relation a taste of excitement and will became a game that he enjoys to play.

Men like hunting just as much enjoy to be hunted in the same time. So you have to show him a little bit of the benefits that he might have and than you will have his undivided attention. A big mistake would be to make a guy far too important and far too quickly. You watch the phone every two minutes and then when he does contact you, you start to talk too long, too frequently and make yourselves too available. Then you change your program, your interests, to that witch suits him better. The reason you do that is because you think it will make you more desirable in his eyes.

And than he either becomes bored or scared because ydou go to fast. So you should keep him guessing and keep him wanting to find out more about you. When things get too easy for men, than they get bored or start to take you for granted. Whenever you go dating try to make him wondering. You can do that by using messages. There are two kinds of mixed messages. One confuses a man and makes him think you’re playing him and those that make him more curious. For example if you show passionate interest on the phone and than when you meat him you act bored or flirt with other guys might not work. Unless you are absolutely sure that the guy is hooked, this behavior might send him away. Sooner or later he might want to pay it back to you by making you jealous.

In stead of that you should use a mixed message. For example you could tell him that you really want to see him but that right now you don’t have time .Like that you show him that you have a private life and that you are not going to drop everything for him. The fact that he appeared in your life won’t make you drop your friends, family or hobbies. You should act like your social life is very social. Don’t always be available to go and meat him or chat on the phone or on line as much as he want. Make it very clear that you have your own life and that you don’t depend on his program.
Re: How To Keep Him Calling Back by Seun(m): 4:41pm On Jul 22, 2007
Manipulation is what you're teaching here. Manipulation can get you laid, but your relationships will not last.
Women are not games to be played, nor are they wild animals to be hunted. They are people to be understood.
Re: How To Keep Him Calling Back by missojugo(f): 6:55pm On Jul 22, 2007
I agree totally with shotman, its like you took the words out of my mouth,
Keep him on the edge of his seat baby girl
Re: How To Keep Him Calling Back by liftedme(m): 7:16pm On Jul 22, 2007
na you go still first tire!
Re: How To Keep Him Calling Back by delarontus(f): 10:09am On Jul 23, 2007
Seun, the advice is for ladies to use on men that's why the topic says "How to Keep Him Calling Back". The advice won't work on ladies by men.
Re: How To Keep Him Calling Back by fadenike(f): 12:11pm On Jul 23, 2007
I think the topic make a sense.
Re: How To Keep Him Calling Back by iice(f): 2:44pm On Jul 23, 2007
Tricks you say? Sorry o! All these your hints sounds like some real stress (worrying and scheming planning) i nor fit oh!
Re: How To Keep Him Calling Back by Joey82(m): 3:38pm On Jul 23, 2007
@poster,
Why should a man b teaching dem girls da ways of tricking guys.
Re: How To Keep Him Calling Back by damkollins(m): 4:48pm On Jul 23, 2007
Joey82:

@poster,
Why should a man b teaching them girls da ways of tricking guys.
That's what they need.
Re: How To Keep Him Calling Back by Osama10(m): 4:19am On Dec 16, 2010
damkollins:

That's what they need.

And you are a man I guess.

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