Connected1:

You are a fool.

Just learn to keep quiet.

In the whole wide world, Nigerian Men protect their women more.

Infact no allow me see you physically talk like this.

I will slap you and I don't care what will happen.

Imagine what all the struggles my dad and other men and even myself go through to make sure our wife and children are safe both at home and far from home.

You will now be saying rubbish. You are just a fool. Fool.

Elporo:


Dear Prince Akeem

It is my prayer, that you find your Lisa McDowell!

bodybuilder:
Why do Nigerian guys always think they were rejected 'cause they're broke.
Why do you have this mentality that your brokeness is your only flaw.
Might be another reason. That's girl you think rejected you cause you're might even be dating someone broker than you.
Sometimes you're not as broke as you think, it's just low self-esteem from comparing yourself with others.

It could be your bad looks, social awkwardness, bad hygiene, shyness and many other things.

Some guys underate the power of being good looking sha. So many girls can be gotten by just being tall and handsome, being rich is just a bonus.

tradepunter:


You are very right.... I followed the path of make money first...

Guy when you have balanced the ladies are even more difficult because money I realize attracts the ladies that pretend to love you.

And you will find it difficult to trust a lady because you don't know who can help in sustain your years of hard earned wealth

It got to a point I had to stop using my car just to blend and truly find a lady that will love me for my hard work and bright future I bring to the table.

Guys as you dy hustle don't burn bridges with female, especially those that like your company and adore you for who you are..

Elporo:


Sub-Zero!

Bigiyo:
any tips on how to get rid of low self esteem abeg

The5DME:
Stupid topic.

AnambraTerror:

Nonsense , so short and ugly people should makes themselves tall and handsome. You see how insane amd stupid that u are

SenecaTheYonger:


What is gym rat? And what does that have to do with this? Don’t normal guys with jobs have girlfriends or is that only for the rich. Lol. Are they all leaving their boyfriends for the rich?

Winnerautomatic:


The5DME

tradepunter:


Baba e never reach that one na

The car parole was based on the fact when you toast a lady and they know your ride is good and you doing well for yourself they start infusing themselves into your life.

Trust me niaja girls know working class guys with rides from Yahoo boys.

They love comfort die I swear, not to say comfort is bad oooo..... But when it now becomes their minimum required standard to be gotten at all cost it comes as a detriment to you as a guy.

I made that choice because I didn't know what was going wrong....

SocialJustice:
E no get who no need money.

Winnerautomatic:


Have you been able to solve the riddle yet?

I hate the thought that i’d go through hell and back only to hand over my wealth to someone for the sake of her body parts.

The goal for me at first was to get money then get nice cars and then get women but my target has changed.

For me what i think of now is financial freedom and not necessarily looking wealthy. I want to get to a point where i can say i’m done with the rat race and just sit back, observe the world and live like God intended without having any false god in the name of a job or boss or even self employment. I also want to get to this point before 40.

I earn millions monthly but because i have a crazy target, it means i have to be frugal and reinvest almost 100% of my earnings. I still take bikes, dont have a car etc.

Every so often i see a girl that catches my fancy and i can immediately tell they are sizing me up when i approach. I wonder if they think we don’t catch those stares lmao.

I do have an impeccable dress sense but then i find it too stressful so most times i just go out with bathroom slippers and whatever.

To be fair to them, i even try to make it easy by speaking well so they can atleast have a clue that i’m not nobody but it hardly works lol.

OfficerGbadamos:
ashawo do you also include your father?

A40:
Everybody needs money doesn't mean you should be dealing with a borderline olosho faking like she loves you

SocialJustice:
Dude everyone needs money, especially with the blows inflation is currently dealing Nigerians. The Naira is useless, I know people spending over 200k monthly only on food. Anyone earning 30k to 300k is bound to ask for help at some point. Let's be realistic abeg, I know many girls are prostitutes but it isn't easy for anyone.

A40:
You people say anything to justify scallywag behavior. Shey men don't go through this inflation as well? We are talking about people that take take take without giving in return and give you the impression that you're responsible for their upkeep because you're dating or toasting them

SocialJustice:
Take your issues directly to girls, guys also beg like mad. You have no point, begging is not a gender specific issue.

A40:
You are just being a nuisance in my mentions at this point. Where did I say men don't beg. We're talking about the people who do it more and with entitlement in a relationship context which is obviously women and here you are in my mentions chattin bare foolishness. Tired of you simp manginas on the internet always caping

SocialJustice:
As I no support you, I be nuisance and simp. Thank you.

You know women beg more in relationships because you know not because it is research backed.

If you want to have a proper discussion, learn to be civil and stop crying at the slightest divergent view you come across. Continue like this and you'll amount to nothing.

Don't bother replying me, take your tantrums to your mother, wife or girlfriend, that's if they can still tolerate you and your bigotry.

Bye.

Totilopussylick:
At times low self esteem is the murderer.

Such happened to me back then when I was still in school.

But I after realized i worked on it, now I bang p**sy and even get tired ..

Winnerautomatic:


The5DME

Elporo:


Dear Prince Akeem

It is my prayer, that you find your Lisa McDowell!

AlphaMale666:
It's African mentality now. All Africans, especially Nigerians have 0% self esteem. That's why they think anything that has to do with the opposite sex must involve money. Almost all Nigerian males have zero confidence! That's why they always use money to try and get a girl they want. If a girl wants you, you don't need to spend one dime to have sex with her! One fvucking dime you dont have to spend! It's even her that'll be spending her money on you! African mentality is just too fvucked up

Nasri100:


And are the same Nigerian girls helping matters with their “hookup culture” demeanor?

I am Assuming this moniker is a F?

Stop trying to be one sided and dismissing the hypergamous nature of most Nigerian women.