If you understand this, you have soon understood the process to make a simple successful life.

humans have since the earliest time strive their lives to take advantage of one another, for so has the world revolve from generation to generation.

have you ever access your observations and corresponding view about the activities of men in their pursuit of possessions, material belonging, association belonging, professional tags, and ultimately the pursuit of "financial dependency?"

It is worthy of NOTE! here, that there may appear excessive usage of the word "ADVANTAGE" this is because it stands the basis of this argument.

In the world, you have seen people gathering experience and lingering on its reel process of pain, I'm quick to find an answer when I ask why such people never give up to that pain? since pain is painful and the process is dreadful, so what does the individual really want that measures to the level of the pain he has submitted to?

Are you sure he is not interested in taking advantage of people with his later result?

You will likely relate to the fact that the original purpose of Schooling (for example) is education, to learn, and for the sole purpose to gain knowledge for its sake in entirety, that purpose has however been defeated today, as a result, if you ask a young man, why he goes to school or why he study a certain course? he will most likely say "because I want to become______" or "because I have a dream to become_______"

Instead of acquiring knowledge and prudence in all its length and width to be able to discern, by self what exactly one wants and making an accurate decision from thence, as opposed to the now popular practice of living a life of continuity which either result from parents injection, recommendations, instruction, Or societal, environmental or influential basis.

And again how are you sure the subject of influence in this case is not interested in taking advantage of people with his later expected result?

To make all these clear enough you might need to consider (in the professional world) a word "amongst others" that have been employed to replace the art of "taking advantage of people"

The word "Consultancy Fee" mostly in our common professional institution namely; Agencies, Professors, doctors/surgeons/dentists, accountants, lawyers, engineers, architects, artists/authors, designers,
scientists and so on.

As the essence of "Consultancy Fee" means to give access to the supposed Doctor, lawyer, or artist as the case may be, without any definite or presupposed solution to the client's problem.

haven't you seen this in your dealings in life?

However, for being smart and deliberate with living life, these said professionals have not justifiably breached the law, this is because even to the eye of the people, they have attained a sublime level of understanding in their respective field of endeavor, giving them the imprimatur and all effrontery to demand whatever worth they have perceived and placed for their time.

haven't you seen the light of my point in few words?

Again, how are you sure these professionals are not strategically taking advantage of others with the result of the pain he has endured through the process of acquiring the required knowledge of his professionalism?

Perhaps this personal gratification is the drive to his pursuit in the first place.

Have you objectively asked yourself why your subordinate, house help, workers, or the boy who ran towards you to show loyalty at your arrival, have you asked yourself the reason for their seeming loyalty?

Above nobility, this is simply because they have perceived you as a "potential victim to take advantage of someway" this might be as a result of their past experience with you or they have seen you in possession of what they might in one way or the other grasp from you, should they have the opportunity.

You might wonder, what is the point we are trying to make by this treaties?

While some are making it big by taking advantage of others, the peasantries also in their circle are making way through by taking advantage of each other in a way or the other, the only difference is that they don't have a professional name for it than to regard it as evil and selfishness when the practice of the term in question is so clear for them to comprehend.


For example, a rich man in a society of poor and vulnerable people shall be seen by the society as a potential helper of their needy situation, while the rich man endlessly struggles to remain at the position above the people.


Therefore, in the world full of selfish toil of endless struggle to show one's self approved to fellow humans by means of "taking advantage of him"

Now tell me why you have failed to make out your unquestionable "advantage over others" this format has proven how we can leave a full life of manifestation.


To the end of this, As long as you bear the title "human" whether your life view is rational or irrational, you owe the responsibility of living life, the expression of your living, however, banks on your degree of understanding the basis, and rudiment of making it seamless for you.

The earlier you see this in its real and full picture the better chance you stand.

hence, if you haven't made out a perfect plan to clearly "take advantage of others to your favour" then you have not started living life!


Agboola Ayobami .s.
Free Thinker.
Personal Dev. Coach.

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