Blackfire:



He came to my place crying that he need that money to finalise the business he was nearly finishing (real estate) ... I oblige him as my friend ( now I know he is my enemy)


His house locked up with padlock ...his wife shop closed since yesterday..
Since Monday I discovered he couldn't pick calls and when he do... he will say I will call you back... and the background is different from his normal routine


I helped a friend but now he is no where to be found

chinchonglee:
My own worst pass everybody own..

I work for/with my brother in a start up company but the profit coming in from the start up is huge that you'd think the company has been existing for years.

This dude can't let me make side income from the company.. he also handed all the finance of the company to a lady he was shagging while i do all of the mental and physical work. I didnt complain tho. He was busy buying venza for the girl and dashing all other girls money, i was jst looking at him.

I managed to raise my own capital and decided to take him by surprise and resign since i knew i was the pillar of the company because baba is lazy. He doesn't even knw much abt the operations as he is only interested in the profit.

One monday morning(resignation day), I jst went to his house at chevron from my place, dropped the news, gave genuine reasons(yes am that sharp with words and dnt mince word). Baba was speechless and confused and didn't knw what to say. I jst left him, went back to my house and slept off. I decided to take a week off, enjoy myself before I start planning on how to set up my own business.

Omo! See calls on my phone that day both from my dad, mom, sister, brothers. I jst didn't pick anybody's call. My mom came to my house to ask what happening.
I showed her my nonsense flat and told her to compare with that of my brother's duplex in chevron plus he was buying venza for a girl and dashing money to other girls. Also he goes to quilox almost every friday to show off while i continue to live in a stupid flat in surulere.

To cut long story short, baba called family meeting and decided to hand the company's finance to me. Any money coming in or going out must pass through me. And that's how i started seeing side income and other benefits. That doesn't mean I won't start my own business soon.

samsard:
Unless you're speaking of handouts. I don't think any normal man wants regular handouts from his fellow man.
My story has been a story of men helping me, from monetary to opportunities.
If it's handouts sef, I'm more likely to assist my girlfriend/fiance than a casual friend.
But I'd help a really close friend if it doesn't seem like a money pit.

Blackfire:

He came to my place crying that he need that money to finalise the business he was nearly finishing (real estate) ... I oblige him as my friend ( now I know he is my enemy)

His house locked up with padlock ...his wife shop closed since yesterday..
Since Monday I discovered he couldn't pick calls and when he do... he will say I will call you back... and the background is different from his normal routine

I helped a friend but now he is no where to be found

Trumann:


Write a petition to Interpol at Alagbon. Make sure you state that it was him who collected the money and his wife promised to make him repay. They will put them on Interpol watch list and will be deported back to Naija ASAP.

Chuky7:



Haha I love stories like this. I'm happy it worked out for you and venza yach no push u commot.

curious though what kind of Startup you and your bro into?

richmanrichard:
no need to argue but its rare so you are wrong.

efficiencie:


It is important to stop say "men do this...men do that...", it is more accurate to say: " men do this...or some men do that". Two, you are not the judge of how anyone will spend his money or decides to offer help. Men, like women, all have perspectives and it governs how they make decisions and there are some who are not even aware or take cognizance of the ratio of men they have helped to the women they have helped...

pansophist:
Can you call it help when the real intention behind the "help" is to knack the woman? Are old, unattractive and very fat women being helped too? Because I think for something to qualify as help, there must not be an expectation behind it. So no, i think men help other men genuinely, but "help" women in a hope to smash the honey pot.

In this context, yes, a lot of men are idiot. And I personally detest such men. Personally I'm very greedy to women. If you think say tortoise greedy, you haven't met me, I can dash a girl one million if she genuinely needs it, but to give you because I want to knack you? Of course no. That's prostitution and I don't do prostitute.. I give cheerfully, but my benevolence is not pussi motivated. If I want want smash a girl, I derive satisfaction knowing that she was attracted to me not because of money, but something more.

But still, millions of men troop to cities all around Nigeria every year, courtesy of other men. Men do help men, but just as growth is not loud, men helping other men is silenced. I don't want to mention name, but I've help lots of men with cash on nairaland here, people I don't even know, and some with skills. If you're one of the moniker I've helped and you are comfortable to mention it, please quote it.

Infact the help was so much, I felt like it was same moniker creating different account to milk me. I don turn maga for him. Then I stopped. Now if you beg me, I'll just ignore. I hate being exploited. To make it even easier for career beggars, I wrote on my profile that begging will be ignored. Lots of times, helpers are seen as fools and exploited until you turn cold and change am for even the good ones. Well, I gotta put myself first.

I had an nl account that I deleted, I assisted hundreds of people move abroad as students, I met many in Europe, mostly guys, and some few ladies, and I'm glad for that. I'm saying all these because it seems like people do not know men that are helping, but we just don't talk or blow our trumpet. So no, men do help men, we just no de loud am

mamawa123:
I do understand your point. My question to you is how many men have you yourself helped?

BMathew:
Men Helping Men to become a Better Men.
Please, People with deeper understanding should kindly review this with me.
A lot have been going through my mind as touching the way men lives their life; (I just said their lives, meaning left with Individual's decision).
I'm laying my emphasis on "Why men are not helping men to become a better men"? Listening to what alot of men out there had done for our other gender compare to their reactions towards thier fellow men then we can bold say the hardship we have now is caused by men(cus focus is wrongly placed).

I am not saying you shouldn't help other gender but let's see this together; If the assistance you've ever render to a lady is being compared to what you've ever done to your male friend (positively), can we rate it?

Note, I'm not trying to belittle any gender nor gender biased.

I'm just thinking out loud, if we can help our fellow brother the way we "mumu" over these ladies trust me by now most of our men would have been a better person achieving purpose.

My female friend posted something on her WhatsApp status yesterday stating that, You see Abuja ladies with iPhone12, designer shoes and bag with the salary of 35,000naira per month, is with the same salary? "what about that"?

"Another guy told me how his boss built a house for a lady he slept with once"

A man can swear Heaven on Earth that he had no dime on him if his fellow brother seek for assistance but they tend to show off, spend without even expecting anything in return for ladies.


Without vain repetition, When will men start Helping Men to become a better men?

Nackdemall:
I Know that you didn't asked me for help But I am just trying to Help you out

chinchonglee:
My own worst pass everybody own..

I work for/with my brother in a start up company but the profit coming in from the start up is huge that you'd think the company has been existing for years.

This dude can't let me make side income from the company.. he also handed all the finance of the company to a lady he was shagging while i do all of the mental and physical work. I didnt complain tho. He was busy buying venza for the girl and dashing all other girls money, i was jst looking at him.

I managed to raise my own capital and decided to take him by surprise and resign since i knew i was the pillar of the company because baba is lazy. He doesn't even knw much abt the operations as he is only interested in the profit.

One monday morning(resignation day), I jst went to his house at chevron from my place, dropped the news, gave genuine reasons(yes am that sharp with words and dnt mince word). Baba was speechless and confused and didn't knw what to say. I jst left him, went back to my house and slept off. I decided to take a week off, enjoy myself before I start planning on how to set up my own business.

Omo! See calls on my phone that day both from my dad, mom, sister, brothers. I jst didn't pick anybody's call. My mom came to my house to ask what happening.
I showed her my nonsense flat and told her to compare with that of my brother's duplex in chevron plus he was buying venza for a girl and dashing money to other girls. Also he goes to quilox almost every friday to show off while i continue to live in a stupid flat in surulere.

To cut long story short, baba called family meeting and decided to hand the company's finance to me. Any money coming in or going out must pass through me. And that's how i started seeing side income and other benefits. That doesn't mean I won't start my own business soon.

chinchonglee:

It's not by finding employment.
What did u study?
We have so many ineffective and inefficient staffs(mostly women) who knows nothing abt the job. They got there by connection they have with my brother

BMathew:
Men Helping Men to become a Better Men.
Please, People with deeper understanding should kindly review this with me.
A lot have been going through my mind as touching the way men lives their life; (I just said their lives, meaning left with Individual's decision).
I'm laying my emphasis on "Why men are not helping men to become a better men"? Listening to what alot of men out there had done for our other gender compare to their reactions towards thier fellow men then we can bold say the hardship we have now is caused by men(cus focus is wrongly placed).

I am not saying you shouldn't help other gender but let's see this together; If the assistance you've ever render to a lady is being compared to what you've ever done to your male friend (positively), can we rate it?

Note, I'm not trying to belittle any gender nor gender biased.

I'm just thinking out loud, if we can help our fellow brother the way we "mumu" over these ladies trust me by now most of our men would have been a better person achieving purpose.

My female friend posted something on her WhatsApp status yesterday stating that, You see Abuja ladies with iPhone12, designer shoes and bag with the salary of 35,000naira per month, is with the same salary? "what about that"?

"Another guy told me how his boss built a house for a lady he slept with once"

A man can swear Heaven on Earth that he had no dime on him if his fellow brother seek for assistance but they tend to show off, spend without even expecting anything in return for ladies.


Without vain repetition, When will men start Helping Men to become a better men?

chinchonglee:
My own worst pass everybody own..

I work for/with my brother in a start up company but the profit coming in from the start up is huge that you'd think the company has been existing for years.

This dude can't let me make side income from the company.. he also handed all the finance of the company to a lady he was shagging while i do all of the mental and physical work. I didnt complain tho. He was busy buying venza for the girl and dashing all other girls money, i was jst looking at him.

I managed to raise my own capital and decided to take him by surprise and resign since i knew i was the pillar of the company because baba is lazy. He doesn't even knw much abt the operations as he is only interested in the profit.

One monday morning(resignation day), I jst went to his house at chevron from my place, dropped the news, gave genuine reasons(yes am that sharp with words and dnt mince word). Baba was speechless and confused and didn't knw what to say. I jst left him, went back to my house and slept off. I decided to take a week off, enjoy myself before I start planning on how to set up my own business.

Omo! See calls on my phone that day both from my dad, mom, sister, brothers. I jst didn't pick anybody's call. My mom came to my house to ask what happening.
I showed her my nonsense flat and told her to compare with that of my brother's duplex in chevron plus he was buying venza for a girl and dashing money to other girls. Also he goes to quilox almost every friday to show off while i continue to live in a stupid flat in surulere.

To cut long story short, baba called family meeting and decided to hand the company's finance to me. Any money coming in or going out must pass through me. And that's how i started seeing side income and other benefits. That doesn't mean I won't start my own business soon.

chinchonglee:

morning, pls I'm a young graduate with computer engineering degree and very flexible to different discipline. Please Incase there's job vacancy at your organization I am available

Justinlean02:
Big fat lie, I'm sure you've not met the right Cliq. Besides how many of y'all have visited my signature or even tried to look into Africa's utility token TAT-COIN or ABitNetwork

qtguru:


I disagree , the person I bought a laptop for, is now studying video recording and doing something for himself , it's easy to know a serious person when one is serious himself.