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..... by Feex: 5:11pm On May 28, 2011 |
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Re: ..... by Nobody: 5:12pm On May 28, 2011 |
do you have any self esteem issues? or rather are you self conscious about anything? women like confident men. If you want to get the attention of a woman you have GOT TO BE confident. Even if she doesn't accept your offer you would have still left a lasting impression. Should you be rejected later on after you master your method of "toasting" you should still use your mistake as a lesson and sharpen up on your approaches. All that you would really need to do is to compliment a woman, ask her open ended questions about herself and what she likes but try not to pry into her personal life. After a few minutes you should feel comfortable enough to make your move and go for the final approach which is to ask for her contact info and perhaps to take her out. |
Re: ..... by 190: 5:13pm On May 28, 2011 |
Feex: If rapture happens today you would be saved ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: ..... by 190: 5:14pm On May 28, 2011 |
@POSTER Go to the village and look for a wife from there |
Re: ..... by r231(m): 5:15pm On May 28, 2011 |
so how do you talk to ladies at work or you work with men only |
Re: ..... by Nobody: 5:18pm On May 28, 2011 |
190: [size=3pt]right because some ppl like to view 'who's online' to follow other ppl and race to that thread to make it seem like they are being followed when they are doing the following. Such ppl need to grow THE Bleep up. [/size] |
Re: ..... by Nobody: 5:19pm On May 28, 2011 |
Do you have an anxiety disorder? |
Re: ..... by 190: 5:19pm On May 28, 2011 |
Nonsense |
Re: ..... by Dyt(f): 5:38pm On May 28, 2011 |
Can i b ur gf? 1 Like |
Re: ..... by Feex: 6:35pm On May 28, 2011 |
@MzDarkSkin, thx a lot. it seems odas dont understand wat i am going thru. A combination of factors made it possible for me to remain a virgin till date. Like I said, not necessarily because I said so |
Re: ..... by Wisegee: 6:49pm On May 28, 2011 |
Dont mind them. The problem is that some ladies will be crazy about you but they are usually the types u don't like. Start by this, once you see a lady around you that you like, don't toast her. Just start by being very nice to her. With time she will begin to appreciate you and then you can express your intentions. She may find it saying no at this spot. ELSE check urself u may have G>A>Y tendencies. |
Re: ..... by sexylogan(m): 7:16pm On May 28, 2011 |
Wisegee: guy, u've got serious self-esteem issues. |
Re: ..... by MMM3(m): 7:55pm On May 28, 2011 |
op since u re still a virgin @ ur age, u need 2 go 2 a brothel and disvirgin ur self with ashawo. 2 avoid insult from ur wife when u get married. Oya go and do it now. Good Luck!!! ![]() |
Re: ..... by MrsChima1(f): 7:58pm On May 28, 2011 |
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Re: ..... by sexylogan(m): 8:14pm On May 28, 2011 |
M M M 3: the guy mite just get HIV becuz of your "advice". Smh. ![]() |
Re: ..... by Nobody: 8:48pm On May 28, 2011 |
i like this thread and i hope it gets more replies |
Re: ..... by Tricici(f): 9:10pm On May 28, 2011 |
At this stage I pray you find someone who's ready to take the 1st steps with you, listen and understand "where u come frm". Anything else will just break u into pieces. Work on ur self-esteem. I wish I could give you a more practical advice but just to encourage u, note that some ladies find shy guys cute ![]() |
Re: ..... by ShyOne(f): 9:22pm On May 28, 2011 |
I agree shy guys are very, very adorable. My advice to you - don't go to an ashawo or what the is, Talk to God - ask him to send someone to you - he will send you the perfect mate Be yourself - just be yourself - because that is the self that you bring to a relationship You are a workaholic so you spend more time @ work and on your own self-development - now it is time to open yourself up to others - there could be the perfect woman on your job just waiting for you. Do you attend a church? Go to a church and talk to your pastor - ask your pastor to introduce you to someone - as the pastors usually know the congregants and has observed them and probably would suggest a good mate to the "you that you already are" - so you don't have to change into someone else to acquire a bit of bravery to approach her. I strongly encourage you to be yourself. Talk about things that you like --- don't keep the conversation on a technical level or a work level because you will lose your audience (women) if you do that, observe her---what she laughs at, what she seems interested in and focus on those things in your conversations. Discuss social issues without getting too political or religious in your conversational approach. Movies, songs, dances, upcoming events, concerts, fashions (read up on those things so you are aware of what is going on around you). just a few tips from me to you. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ..... by Scooby1(m): 9:26pm On May 28, 2011 |
@Tricici, u look cute! ![]() |
Re: ..... by Omolola1(f): 9:27pm On May 28, 2011 |
Poster, guys like you would neva cheat on hs girl coz of d hel they went thru 2 get hr. Talk 2 me. . .sighs 1 Like |
Re: ..... by skydeep(f): 9:32pm On May 28, 2011 |
@op. Are you trying to play Mr perfect gentleman? ![]() |
Re: ..... by sexylogan(m): 9:50pm On May 28, 2011 |
Scooby1: skydeep: skydeep, he's just trying to be nice nah. ![]() |
Re: ..... by Mayflowa(m): 10:08pm On May 28, 2011 |
Come, none of us is Mr perfect when it comes to women. For many of us, our heartbeats race faster on the first approach especially if u truely love the person in question. However, we are able to build up confident on the way which allow us to finish well or nearly well ![]() For you, meeting a lady shouldnt be too much of hazzle since you are fairly okay financially. Many ladies will jump at your offer of ride without you saying much. So, just take some time to stroll out with your car and try to offer ride to ladies. Start by saying she is beautiful and we love to drop her wherever she is going without a prize imagine or unimagine. Try and insist as many ladies believe they have to play hard to get. Dont shout or try to stop them physically so that you wouldnt get a slap ![]() 1 Like |
Re: ..... by MrsChima1(f): 10:16pm On May 28, 2011 |
You do not have to be a rocket scientist to approach or talk to a woman/lady. Just be yourself and if she likes you she will respond accordingly. Please do not ask anyone who you should talk to or approach because only you know what you like and don't like. When you meet the right woman/lady it will come natural to you what you should do. Trust that. Good luck. ![]() |
Re: ..... by Dsense(m): 10:19pm On May 28, 2011 |
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Re: ..... by MrsChima1(f): 10:20pm On May 28, 2011 |
D-sense: Awww. I sent you something via FB. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: ..... by Dsense(m): 10:21pm On May 28, 2011 |
You mean your status? . . . ![]() |
Re: ..... by MrsChima1(f): 10:23pm On May 28, 2011 |
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Re: ..... by earnfast(m): 10:29pm On May 28, 2011 |
Kindly visit my post https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=673878.msg8378340#msg8378340 |
Re: ..... by Dsense(m): 10:32pm On May 28, 2011 |
Mrs, Chima: I got the memo and replied ![]() |
Re: ..... by Ekpoma1: 10:36pm On May 28, 2011 |
OP maybe God want u to be a Rev. Father. So dnt be bothered. |
Re: ..... by Dsense(m): 10:40pm On May 28, 2011 |
OP. Get a dog ![]() |
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