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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by RodgersAkpafu: 4:55pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
kokanepyramid:That may be true in some cases But that does not make supposed "non virgins" filthy or unclean That mentality is crap Being chaste for yourself and to save your self headache is good But keeping it just because you seek validation from your supposed future husband is dumb and stupid Being one is not bad But the reason for it is what matters 2 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by derecho(m): 4:56pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
So sorry for her. Killing him won't add any value to her life. As it may be too late to be counseling her but what was it she needed in a man? Personally, I value virgins but I'm not swayed simply because you are one. Some girls are virgins not because they value it, they are because they are ashamed to be naked before a man.These ladies would easily sacrifice their virginity if they find a guy who will sweet talk them. I usually tell people A woman isn't a wife until she's prepared. I believe a Wife is a prepared woman(help meet). Don't be surprised, the only reason the philandering husband married her was because she was a virgin. KarinaLove: |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by shaybebaby(f): 4:57pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
cococandy:Baby girl, work got me sooooo busy I had no time to check in. Covid actually increased my workload and with home-schooling and all that ish, I literally had no time. Thankfully, lil man back at school so I got some me time. I hear congrats are in order. Congratulations hun, May your girls stand on the shoulder of the amazon that came before and brought them forth. Hope you are keeping good with the hubby and the little ones. Glad to see you are still here distilling sense where required. 6 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by lawkenoz(m): 4:57pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
40 secs man don drop quote. You want virgin so that she won't compare your weak arse game with better gbola abi? your analogy and comparison doesn't even make sense to begin with. Virginity is a virtue which is dependent on your moral or religious value. Some men like the olosho you hate why? Cuz she dey knack well and sex is all he cares about, some men love the borehole you dismiss. Virginity disappears once the hymen is gone. After it leaves what remains is what matters. The Oloshos of today were virgins of yesterday. Virgin can turn olosho anyday, Nigerians aren't the most disciplined people on the planet after all....we rank highest for porn watching, google exposed us, so that your virgin is probably waiting to use it to mugu you! After all she knows you're likely not a virgin yourself and will use it to make you loose guard....by the time you realise what's happening, your gateman is chopping the kpomo you thought was your sole proprietorship. Small children wey never marry go dey make noise noise about upandan. 7 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by 2buffagain(m): 4:57pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Vinnie2000: You dey mind the woman? Awon equality gang. They never address the actual reality of things. Their cognitive dissonance is telling how they switch their arguments to what suits them and flip it back even it no longer does. Even virgin woman will straight up tell you that she doesn't want a virgin man. Will insult you if you are sef. Women only desire and want to Bleep men who CAN Bleep other women. There is a reason why it is only the female body that has telling signs of virginity. In fact, it's a whole physiological ceremony involving blood. Virginity is a female virtue, but a point of ridicule for a male... borne from the understanding that he has conquered no female yet. Women want conquerors with more life experience than her who can lead her there, not demure anxious guys (every virgin male is eager and anxious, forget). 2 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by NigeriaIsGreat: 4:57pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
deebrownneymar:It is not ignorance sir Virgin ladies are priceless gift sir. 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by OBTOREPA(m): 4:58pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
shaybebaby: The thing pain you e. |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 4:59pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
NigeriaIsGreat: And what does her husband has to do to earn her respect? Why do men think they did a woman a favor by marrying her. Oh yes because the likes of you marry some dumb broke broad but if she is a virgin, it's all good. You are a one minute man who bought a sex slave. Did they test your virginity so that your family will be honored for raising a Enoch? It is great that you Bleep the entire neighborhood while your future wife is locked in a cage waiting for you. When you free her from that cage, you will understand that virginity has nothing to do with attitude, today she will pretend that your one minute action is enough but you will end up being the one who raises other people children . 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 4:59pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Take just one of these pro-virgins put on the presidential seat,they'll do way worse than buhari because they simply cant get it into their thick skull that perspective about life is simply not one sided. They'll be forming smart when na water full the brain,nothing congent. the same pro-virgin types are the ones to impregnate a girl before marriage just to see if she's fertile. stupid bunch of hypocritic idiotas. 7 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by pansophist(m): 4:59pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
2buffagain: Exactly. Hence I feel sorry for men that think their masculinity is proved when they are able to knack smoke out of the vagina. Because girls these days, only God go save us The average women in Nigeria is sexually active, and not just being active, but hardcore active. I mean, with the less than 70 usd minimum wages, how can many afford all these gadgets? And they expect an innocent man to be responsible for their wild fantasies. Nonsense. 3 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Hamiltonii: 5:00pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
shaybebaby: Ashawo, Toto marketer! |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 5:00pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
SteelMcqueen: Are u a virgin? 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by prof1999(m): 5:00pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Lol @OP ,this is nothing but a terrible and an unhealthy comparison!!! The most reasonable analogy could be a comparison between FIRST CLASS graduates and those who didn't... question, does graduating with First class alone guarantees a successful career? hell no! Then why would an employer choose First class graduates over others ? because the employer knows that before any student could graduate with a first class, he/she must have been/ is a disciple, hardworking, well behaved, a fast learner, intelligent etc. and those are the qualities the employer is looking for . Now back to our virgin/nonvirgin issue, true marrying a Virgin alone does not in any way guarantees a successful marriage but it [b]INCREASES [/b]the chance of a successful marriage... 1) Any lady in her early or late twenties that's still a virgin in this 21st century is well trained, discipline, virtuous , perhaps from a good home... good wife qualities right ? 2) virgins over attach to the first guy they sleep with that's a very important quality in a girl you intend to marry .....the more guys a lady sleeps with, that quality decreases and decreases until it doesn't exist anymore. After a certain number of partners, a woman becomes unable, no matter how hard she tries, to attach to a man. 3) Marrying a virgin just saves you from unnecessary issues like STDs, womb issues due to excessive abortion etc 3 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by advanceDNA: 5:01pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
JovialJune: U are just answering based on emotions And I didn't mention you with this comment...u have started jumping around the place out of context....u can't make sense omce you out of context...all u have is raging emotions 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by emmyN(m): 5:02pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
JovialJune: Illogical statement. You are whining. Men are never virgins. And yes, sexual promiscuity have been known to end marriages. You all castigated Tega when it seemed as though she had sex with an housemate on live TV. 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by McStoic(m): 5:02pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
jmoore: I don't have time for long post. But a virgin without character is a bad marriage candidate.. Marriage is much more than sex sex sex.. Communication, respect, compatibility etc are basic not just fvcking.. 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by kingxsamz(m): 5:04pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Gbolarshow: Your wife is good because of her character not because of her virginity. Una no dey think? 5 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by prof1999(m): 5:04pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Lol @OP ,this is nothing but a terrible and an unhealthy comparison!!! The most reasonable analogy could be a comparison between FIRST CLASS graduates and those who didn't... question, does graduating with First class alone guarantees a successful career? hell no! Then why would an employer choose First class graduates over others ? because the employer knows that before any student could graduate with a first class, he/she must have been/ is a disciple, hardworking, well behaved, a fast learner, intelligent etc. and those are the qualities the employer is looking for . Now back to our virgin/nonvirgin issue, true marrying a Virgin alone does not in any way guarantees a successful marriage but it [b]INCREASES [/b]the chance of a successful marriage... 1) Any lady in her early or late twenties that's still a virgin in this 21st century is well trained, discipline, virtuous , perhaps from a good home... good wife qualities right ? 2) virgins over attach to the first guy they sleep with that's a very important quality in a girl you intend to marry .....the more guys a lady sleeps with, that quality decreases and decreases until it doesn't exist anymore. After a certain number of partners, a woman becomes unable, no matter how hard she tries, to attach to a man. 3) Marrying a virgin just saves you from unnecessary issues like STDs, womb issues due to excessive abortion etc jmoore: 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by DrayZee: 5:04pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
shaybebaby:Right. |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 5:05pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Vinnie2000: Virtue is not connected to only females get that into your skull today, no lady will like the man who diicks about with many exes, having to cure different STDs every time, having a droopy sagged balls and overused diick, it is not a sight to behold, a lady will know an overused smelly diick from an intact one. You guys that keep consoling yourselves with these same rant will only meet and wed your kind. 4 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by kingxsamz(m): 5:06pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Omo na dumb people full Nairaland abeg. I'm done. Everyone should protect their virginity o, so the country can at least move forward. 3 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 5:06pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
RodgersAkpafu:i just tire for pipo,in this 21st century ,we're still thinking like this yet we are swift to blame gov when truly change starts with us 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 5:06pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
shaybebaby: Thank God for people like you. My God, most Nigeria men are so dumb, they should not be allowed to procreate that stupidity to the next generation. 5 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by advanceDNA: 5:07pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
shaybebaby: Context please....but I'll indulge you a bit... May be u should ask countless girls with several abortions that match their body counts...it's sad and I genuinely feel for you guys Oh let me guess..this is where u blame the men... Something like.."I did abortion for him"...isn't he the ons that slept with me ..what happened to saying no sex without condom, what happened sitting your asss at home and say no sex at all |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by chatinent: 5:07pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Vinnie2000: Hello, I don't actually care who thinks it's outdated. What is normal is still normal. 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by kelbranty(m): 5:07pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Being a virgin or "borehole" doesn't guarantee a successful marriage. FACT, not stupidity. Because there are several factors that to a great extent can guarantee a successful marriage not just one factor. So again, it's not a statement of stupidity. Let's even look at it, what makes you think a girl is a virgin? Was a test carried out or it's just because of the tightness and blood jmoore: 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Vinnie2000(m): 5:07pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
SimplyFacts: Bro.. Even If a Guy has Fcvkked 20 Babes, It is NOT a bad Thing if he is Desiring a Virgin as Wife! Men will always Want Virgins!! Only a Fool or a Sissy or Weak Nigga will Deny this Fact! If Naija ladies were using dier Hard earned money to Pay Bride Price and Conduct Marriage for us, Most would make Lots of Demands! Some will go for Only Guys with 9 inch Big Diccks! However, The OP got it Wrong! Virginity is Great but It actually doesn't make a Marriage successful! because some Virgins might be Rude, Lazy, Men-Haters, etc! |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by henrybomb(m): 5:09pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
NOETHNICITY:You would have passed your message without insult because it is an open discussion though but you decided to take it personal. Drink enough water bro 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Kajaard: 5:10pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Vinnie2000: You are a mad man, Lol 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Tourist123: 5:10pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
jmoore:how about a non virgin with a sweet character vs a Virgin with dirty character? 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Emeliegregory(m): 5:10pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
If we go dey talk about virgins make E include men. The Kain pressure human beings dey put on top women head dey do me somehow. Abeg if you see straf and you wan straf.. abeg my dear straf.. if you be virgin and you wan be virgin abeg my dear, virgin on! This life no be person own na YOU get am. All this Una talk ehh.. human beings sabi give advice on how to live life when some of them sef no even sabi live life. Qué Sera Sera..abeg live and let live 2 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Image123(m): 5:11pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
kingxsamz: i can't wait for you to resume school tomorrow, you should not be in this kind of thread Samuel. Your virginity/chastity is a part of your character son. 1 Like |
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