Hi Nlanders, I will be getting married in few months time the problem is that I am a catholic igbo man, my fiance also an igbo girl but attends on of the popular gospel churches and my father is knight in the catholic.

The problem is that my dad us to do the wedding in catholic church while my in-law to be are insisting on going to gospel church but if I refuse to be married in catholic church I will be banished from taking communion and I love this girl what should I do pls advice me.

Well, I will speak to you not as a canal christian but as a spiritual christian. i will ask you these few questions
1. Are you born again?
2. is your fiance born again?
if both of you are born again then pray, God will definately guide you. we are living in the world where Religion has taken over the church. if you are commited to the vision of your church, you will look for a woman who is also commited to your doctrine. is you fiance commited in her own church?. What is your responsiblity in your church? this kind of marriage many a time brings problem because of the different background of religion but if both of you can endure both of you can live happliy because it is the word of God that builds a marriage and not parental background. let me ask you this, when you eventual got married, which church will both of you attend? all these questions must be sorted out before taking any steps. let it not be after marriage that is when you are making your decision.
In your marital home or life, who do you want to please; your father, yourself or wife or God. Think of what will become of you when you please either of these persons. you must listen to God.
Brother, Frankly speaking if you married the girl be ready to face problem with your dad and your family. Although, if the girl qualifies the kind of girl you need in life then ask the Holy Spirit to Direct your path and take control.
i know wrote you late. please tell me how far you ve gone.

marry in a Igbo traditional wedding. that way you will end up either pleasing or displeasing everyone.

babseg:

Hi Nlanders, I will be getting married in few months time the problem is that I am a catholic igbo man, my fiance also an igbo girl but attends on of the popular gospel churches and my father is knight in the catholic.

The problem is that my dad us to do the wedding in catholic church while my in-law to be are insisting on going to gospel church but if I refuse to be married in catholic church I will be banished from taking communion and I love this girl what should I do pls advice me.

If you are born again seek pastoral guidance
Jeremiah 3:15
15 And I will give you pastors according to mine heart, which shall feed you with knowledge and understanding.