I am late 20's and he is early 30's. We have been seeing oneanother for two months. We have shared a bed on numerous occasions because I live an hour from him and when we go out and if it involves having a few drinks, I stay in his house with him on his invitation but he has never tried anything at all. He hasn't even touched my bosoms, outside or inside my clothes, Nothing at all. We have had some steamy kissing sessions and still his hands have not wandered. Dont get me wrong. I hate sleasy guys who try it on too quickly. I love to be respected so I have been quite happy with this but I feel that at this stage things should be moving on and I feel it is very out of the ordinary for a guy to be so hands off especially in the situations we have been in ie. sleeping in the same bed. Normally in such situations you would have to lay down the ground rules for the guy but it hasnt been necessary with this guy.

In general he can be quite distant with me. I feel it's hard to get close to him. It's like as if there is some sort of barrier up. He also is not great for contacting me during the week.

He really takes care of himself, lives in the gym, hair is immaculate, and once I caught him using makeup to cover a spot.

Could he be gay? His mannerisms etc. are not at all feminine but I just have this niggling feeling. He had one long term relationship about 5 years ago but it was long distant so they only saw oneanother at weekends and after that there has been nobody. It seems a bit strange for a guy his age and also he is a very attractive guy, realy handsome and trendy. Can anyone shed any light or offer up some opinions on this?

MzDarkSkin:

[color=#0066bb]Hmmmm. hard to say.
some men are all out metros3xual and dainty but 100 percent heteros3xual.

I beg to differ, Metrosexuality and masculinity don't go hand in hand. Why would a guy knowingly dress in a way that makes him attractive to homosexual/bisexual men unless he enjoys it?

@OP The makeup thing is kind of weird, but other than that he could just be really respectful of your boundaries.

Makeup?

Women will wear bootay shorts yes but the average woman wouldn't ditch their feminine wardrobe and start dressing like a butch all the time.

This is a tough one. So i wouldnt want to jump into conclusion. But for a gal 2 allow me kiss her, that is a direct access to any part of her body without any fear. I dnt knw. Is he a born again christian who detest fornication in toto? Is a Jehoval witness member? Or maybe u are not attractive 2 him and d last one, he might just be gay.

gurl i dont fink he's gay joor!!!, some thinz u mentioned are almost same thingz i do too, 4 d fact he cud have held ur body and kissed u, to me he has his reasonz sha, but gurl itz just couple of months and u ve started thinkin of poundin action, na wa 4 u o!!!

he's not gay!!

I am now accepting applications for those who wishes to be gay.

if he was gay I think the mere idea of kissing u would give him shivers of repulsion brrrrrrrrrr!  he looks metrosexual and u know these guys are always cute, clean and ironed, they don't want to put their smooth moisturized hands just anywhere like that. ehenn so maybe that's ur guy right there.
but let's stay positive dear poster, maybe he respects u, doesn't want to pull a gross move(he's metrosexual remember),
the only way for u to find out as some1 suggested is to have a conversation with him. u know bout his past relationship but how about his future, relationship wise; what r his plans, does he think of commitment, as he answers u should be able to have a clear idea

would you still think he was gay if he was giving it you?