Whizzy080:

my question is, can she changed? Will she ever learned? what can I do to help her? I really love her but if i marry this girl with this attitude or should I say laziness divorce is sure
Thanks

We don't know her, so we don't know whether she can change. Only you can know for sure by communicating with her

Effective communication is very important. If she really loves you, tell her how important cleanliness is to you. Teach her how to clean properly

One tip for giving constructive feedback is give her a compliment first then suggest how she can improve. That makes people less defensive and less offended

To be honest, I don't think your problem is a major issue. Work to resolve it together. That would make your relationship even stronger. All the best!

MrWondah:


You should not walk alone. In fact you will never walk alone again. I'll hold your hand and make sure you don't fall not falter.

lol

Make the mistake of breaking her heart and death is sure for you, shebi na you force yourself to get her even after the obvious warning. Because you see fine girl your brain IQ come low you come dey blinded. Guy, no human being on Earth is 100% perfect so manage her like that cz from what i have read, you be player

Iyaebe:
I see so much heartbreak and separation, this I have seen.Love is not always enough, use your brain. One more advise, never marry based on love or whatever emotions you have for the person, marry someone with sense,good home training, respects people, won't want to see you unhappy, help you grow out of your shortcomings. The love will eventually fade,its all these qualities I have mentioned that'll keep and sustain the marriage. Goodluck.

Isn't the bolded love? Genuine love?

I think the problem is that people confuse infatuation with love. Love grows stronger with time. Infatuation fades away with time

debbydams:
lol

Should I call Righteousness to be our officiating minister? Anyway, I'd like to send you a pm, if that's ok by you. I like your charisma and friendliness.

zexy2030:
No human is perfect, even you have some imperfections she will never judge you for. So, true love covers blunder. Can you be offended by someone you so love? Yes, but the solution is teach her over n over again.

Build in her the woman, you want her to be.

Build? Is she like a Lego set for him to tamper with? She is a full being like him and what they can both do is accommodate each other so the relationship can thrive. That or they go their separate ways.

MrWondah:

Should I call Righteousness to be our officiating minister? Anyway, I'd like to send you a pm, if that's ok by you. I like your charisma and friendliness.

call him oo ..no probs

debbydams:
call him oo ..no probs

Done. Check your DM.

But wait o, see how we derailed this guy's thread.

For real, some awkward moments could turn beautiful

MrWondah:

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Done. Check your DM.

But wait o, see how we derailed this guy's thread.

For real, some awkward moments could turn beautiful

lol hes not online

Kobojunkie:
Build? Is she like a Lego set for him to tamper with? She is a full being like him and what they can both do is accommodate each other so the relationship can thrive. That or they go their separate ways.

One good attribute you will.find in a good woman aside humility. Is teachability. A teachable can adjust. An habit is formed 3wkz or 21days.

zexy2030:

One good attribute you will.find in a good woman aside humility. Is teachability. A teachable can adjust. An habit is formed 3wkz or 21days.

do you also find the same attributes in a "good" man or by "good" woman, are you instead referring to a slave since they are those who are expected to be humble and submissive to the one who is Master over them.

Did you know that, try as you may, you can't teach even a child a new habit in 21 days, but should that child want to, it can teach itself any new habit it choses in that same period. Learning a habit in that short period only works when the desire is driven by the will of the mind doing the learning. You matter how you beat your slave, it will not learn a new habit in 21 days.

Kobojunkie:
do you also find the same attributes in a "good" man or by "good" woman, are you instead referring to a slave since they are those who are expected to be humble and submissive to the one who is Master over them.

Did you know that, try as you may, you can't teach even a child a new habit in 21 days, but should that child want to, it can teach itself any new habit it choses in that same period. Learning a habit in that short period only works when the desire is driven by the will of the mind doing the learning. You matter how you beat your slave, it will not learn a new habit in 21 days.

True bro.

As a matter of rule, you cannot find all you want in one person. You're disappointed in her because all you envisioned in an ideal wife material is not readily available. In fact, I can see doubt your tone.

Perhaps you're the one with a very big character flaw;you give up easily. People DO NOT give up on someone they love and care about.

Evidently, you only care about her fine face and the sex, but you failed to realize that LOVE IS PATIENCE.

You're self fish and self centered because if you're not, you would know that she's trying her absolute best. You know why? The guidance of a parent or relative goes a long way in shaping a child's character;she lacked those. Now she has a character flaw because of that- laziness. She had nobody to force her to do things(even when she doesn't feel like, in fact, especially when she doesn't feel like). If she had parents, I'm sure she would have been used to this. But since you cast you lot in with her, you cannot even empathize. I'm ashamed on your behalf.

Men, stop using your dicks to reason. If you want to be a player, be a player. But if you want a lasting relationship, forget about sex and focus on the person. She is a person, not an object.

The day you start to reason clearly in the presence of a damsel, is the day you get your freedom.

Does she smell down there

adewaleadeyemi8:
Make the mistake of breaking her heart and death is sure for you, shebi na you force yourself to get her even after the obvious warning. Because you see fine girl your brain IQ come low you come dey blinded. Guy, no human being on Earth is 100% perfect so manage her like that cz from what i have read, you be player

Advice I need e reach your turn u carry gun