Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by OKOATA(m): 3:42pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: am not happy with her She shout at me like a house boy It makes me to shade secrets tears Nigga men don't cry for women, forget all those zee world nonsense movies. Kick that woman out of your home or she will kill you ajeh. Same thing happened to someone close I know. He was told but didn't listen until the wife poisoned him, that woman will poison you, stop eating her food and send her away immediately. To be for wArned is to be harmed. |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by ChineduChinedu: 3:43pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
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Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by kingsceedon(m): 3:44pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? Hopeless man, which local government are you from in Enugu? |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Myhusband(m): 3:47pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
with this your foolishness Op, I don't think you owned the pregnancy self
just read this your post again, even slowpoke won't cooked this gibberish |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Truvelisback(m): 3:55pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? U don enter one chance motor wey no get window and door. 1. She is likely older than u. 2. She outsmarted u. 3. U just hanged urself to death by doing the court wedding. |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Babatojide: 3:56pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
MY BROTHER all i can say in JIDE KOSOKO’s voice is... ”Hello My dear” NKAN ENI O NÍ DI MÉJÌ KIÍ INÚ O BÍ ENI ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) ... Life is too short for regrets... Plenty people haff put mind on your wedding beer and food Don’t let them down... Like Nike JUST DO IT ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Gfskw: 3:58pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Elshaddai |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by lomprico(m): 3:58pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? She Don use kpekus cage u. Church wedding or not, you are legally married to her! |
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Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Theama(m): 4:04pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: if I knew it will be like this to me, I would have started to date Wetin you wan come do now? |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by lomprico(m): 4:06pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
I managed to get the phone number of the biological father of those children
I called the man And asked him if he is the father of the 3 kids He said yes He also said that he didn't do anything on her head at all I asked why He said cuz of family backgrounds
What should I do?
I know I made mistakes If u guys don't help I may end up dead Divorce her! That is the only thing you can do. |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by brainhgeek(m): 4:07pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
I have two advices, 1. Stop seeing babalawos and ask God to help you restore your brain 2. Sit back and enjoy the mess you earned yourself.
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Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Jamesbiodun(m): 4:10pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
See brother(song) ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by don4real18(m): 4:11pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Where are you based? |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by alizma: 4:14pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Smartb0y: Divorce and take half. Accept the loss for your foolishness. Its the only way you can ever get sense. He is not going to loose anything even if he divorce her. He was deceived into the marriage therefore the marriage is void. There was no marriage in the eyes of the law. 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Billyddude: 4:14pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? At the age of thirty? ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Billyddude: 4:17pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: I be jjc I just com lagos last year ..chai..sorry brother..wah part of lag u in+? |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Charly68: 4:17pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
You have made a mistake ,only you can reverse your mistakes. So if you didn't marry her because of her money...walk out of the stupid arrangement very fast before she has twins for you ...men should be bold enough to right their wrongs. No sentiment..Don't sentence your life to pain and regrets |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by prophetfire: 4:23pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? And mumu like you is bearing the same name as me!!! Olodo mumu ewu mmeeehhh. The thunder wey go fire you for your mumu still dey factory for Afghanistan. Nonsense and Olodo. Go and divorce that ashawo and go and fix your life. Divorce won't be hard to get since she procured the marriage through deception. The court won't award her anything. |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by purples25(f): 4:27pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Can't support this wicked action from a mother of three. Why should she deceive you into marriage? I won't judge but I feel it is wickedness, including how she treats you. I feel you should get a divorce. 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Billyddude: 4:29pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: u mean fight go dey ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) If it's fight alone ur lucky, , but she will come at u wit all...including poisoning ,stabbing...so no loose Guard at all oo |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Bennylicious(f): 4:30pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? Honestly,your case is serious,are you sure you are a Man,what kind of simp are you? You are asking what you should do,Ogbeni face the music..... mtchewwwww.�♀️�♀️�♀️�♀️ |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Caseless: 4:34pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
chatinent:
Ok o.
We will come back to this later.
Okay?
Okay?
You gotta be kidding me.
On the wedding day, you were sleeping with her?
Okay?
If you cancelled the church wedding which was in 2nd October, it meant you did the court marriage two days ago with her.
I thought as much. Remember the first day after court wedding was October 1st? And second was the wedding you said you cancelled?
The same day you cancelled the wedding? You are begging her to stay?
Not adding up anymore. Well, let's continue.
Ok?
I pray you are not up to forty yet. I just pray because there is a permanent adage waiting for you.
Okay?
30 + 10 = 40. Okay, e no go tey you reach the adage.
Eight months? She controls you? She shouts at you? If you refuse, tell us the truth, she beats you blue and black.
It's okay, my brother.
Hello, I will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. But before then, let me recap what you told her when you met intially:
This is what you told her, and that is what she did for you.
Now back to what I was saying, I will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. I won't lie, ibu onye iberibe.
In anything you are doing in this life, try as much as possible make me and you no jam for road abeg. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Chinefuchinedu deserves some ass-whooping... What a guy. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Lindner: 4:36pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
I can't believe I just read this. |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Anabosee(m): 4:40pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
From today, I want the red pill. I don't want to end up like this guy. Please o |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Janosky: 4:54pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? Nemesis is visiting you in small small doses. This guy just bow your head in prayer for God's forgiveness & deliver you from your self made mess. Galatians 6:7. |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by IamAsiri: 4:57pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Flier: Fake story! You lived together for 8 years but she has 8 years old child and another 6 years old for another man without you knowing about it Nonsense It could Be someone is trying to blackmail her 8 months |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by advanceDNA: 5:06pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Anabosee: From today, I want the red pill. I don't want to end up like this guy. Please o Since all this time we've been telling you ..anyway....Redpill don finish.. It's only blue and white that's left... ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Tmlivesport(m): 5:17pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
1. Since you have done court wedding, what age did she put in the certificate?
2. You sound like someone with low self esteem
3. Do you have friends at all?
4. How on earth did you do court wedding without informing family?
5. There is no way you will be sleeping with someone that already has 3 kids that you will not know
THERE IS SOMETHING YOU ARE NOT TELLING US
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Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by tommy20: 5:25pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
God forbid ooo, but its the begining of your nemesis.... The foundation is absolutely faculty...... 3 children!!! boss don't even go there. Forget the court marriage!
That's the only thing you have discovered so far. Don't forget the truth doesn't even come from her but a pastor abi prophet you call ham.
Sir, the journey is far, Wise up bro... All the best |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Caseless: 5:27pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) This chineduchinedu guy is a comedian. He really got me laughing here. I can imagine the look on his face while saying this and I can also see how he'd announce to everyone that his supposed bride-to-be has 3 kids like a village town crier while holding bell. Are you sure that woman is not an Ex prostitute who stayed in a brothel? No responsible woman will keep such information away from her man. It even took your uncle to consult a babalawo to unravel the mystery and reveal the secrets ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Chineduchinedu, that woman isn't done with you yet. She could hire assassin to come and kill you. She could launch spiritual attacks too. Hold that your uncle tight and close - he seems to know the way. Why do I find this funny? |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by FreeIgboho: 5:40pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
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File for annulment? Easier said than done |