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After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by estherdim: 12:42pm On May 31, 2011 |
I have been in a relationship for complete 5 years and now that i want to settle down with her, she start giving me excuses. What do i do. |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by sistajay(f): 12:48pm On May 31, 2011 |
Her excuses aint gonna get you anywhere is it? She's tellin ya, she aint ready! |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by Osama10(m): 12:59pm On May 31, 2011 |
Men can't you move on and look for somebody that is ready to settle down. I don't think you are at a loss here. |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by delicious1(m): 1:04pm On May 31, 2011 |
What do you do? Cast your net back into the ocean. There's plenty of fish out there. |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by chelseabmw(m): 1:06pm On May 31, 2011 |
then feel her alone. . . .she is already cheating on u. . . . .there is someone out there making her happy |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by Mcleo007(m): 4:05pm On May 31, 2011 |
Na wa o! Are u hypnotized or what? Please feel us in o. I dont even see an issue in this. She obviously is bored silly with the relationship and definitely wants out. |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by kokoye(m): 4:09pm On May 31, 2011 |
She doesnt want to settle down with you . . maybe suck it up. |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by livedit(f): 4:38pm On May 31, 2011 |
After 5yrs., she's still not ready to settle down? Sounds to me that you two are not on the same page and/or compatible. Are you okay with just "dating"? If not, you may want to consider ending this relationship and moving on to someone whom is seeking a long term committed relationship. |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by delicious1(m): 4:39pm On May 31, 2011 |
^^Tell him. |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by Dsense(m): 5:03pm On May 31, 2011 |
OP. You should know what to do Move on Dude!!! Or you expect me carrying my parents along to come and prostrate before her? . . . . . . |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by Peach45(f): 12:21pm On Jun 01, 2011 |
if she is acting as strange now, all you need todo is to draw her closer to know the reason why she is rejecting your offer. if she gives you any good reason 4 her not to marry you, then know for sure that she is right cause she knows she is not for you. give it up and find yourself a woman for you. cos marriage a an everlasting covednant. |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by feminineA: 12:47pm On Jun 01, 2011 |
I feel this post is not xplicit enough, like wat waz re exuse on?re there genuine?are u d 1 dat doesn't want to c reasonz with her?or she just wants to unrealistic or unreasonable? I need to have a clearer picture of this situation so as to be sure of what to write. |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by MMM2(m): 1:17pm On Jun 01, 2011 |
op is only girls dat bears esther, I thought u re a lesbian. |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by MrsChima(f): 6:58pm On Jun 01, 2011 |
OP, You was played. Sorry to hear that suga. |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by hbabe(f): 7:25pm On Jun 01, 2011 |
5 whole years!!!! You need to ask her the reasons she doesn't want to settle down; 1. perhaps she is not comfortable with your present financial condition or 2. some other characters you have been exhibiting or 3. she has met someone she feels more comfortable with or 4. she has never been in love with you all these years or 5. you have been the only one serious about the relationship or 6. she has some dreams/aspirtations she wants to accomplish before she settles down Only her can give you her real reason. Good luck, bros and next time don't leave it for too long before you propose; there are so many fast guys out there looking for good girls to grab. |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by jaybee3(m): 7:27pm On Jun 01, 2011 |
^^^^^ GBAM |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by hbabe(f): 7:31pm On Jun 01, 2011 |
^^Hey you! Can you give me 5 years of your life? I want to try my luck. |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by jaybee3(m): 7:35pm On Jun 01, 2011 |
Door is always open btw: meet me at the usual place |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by hbabe(f): 7:38pm On Jun 01, 2011 |
Your bedroom or mine? |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by 190: 7:48pm On Jun 01, 2011 |
5years ago i was still in my mom's womb chewing gum she has every right to leave |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by Nobody: 2:32am On Jun 02, 2011 |
@OP the answer is RIGHT there in your question: estherdim: so"now" YOU decide that YOU want to settle and expect her to jump?! you being ready means that she MUSt be too?! what about all these 5yrs, couldnt she possibly find a side of you thats he aint cool with?! |
Re: After 5 Yrs Of Relationship She Starts Giving Me Excuses by FarWatcher: 3:30pm On Jan 17, 2013 |
estherdim: I have been in a relationship for complete 5 years and now that i want to settle down with her, she start giving me excuses. What do i do. She USED you. Sorry Pal! You made her feel secured, while she went hunting for a bigger fish. The big fish also made her feel secured and right now she is hunting for the BIGGEST fish! |
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